Married women who have affairs are happy in their relationships but are just 'bored' in the bedroom

[Blackking]

my fiance was a virgin when i met her

is she more likely to cheat

umm, I don't wanna say anything because it's your girl..







BUT my ex was a virgin too. I had 3 virgins in my life... plus i have madd homegirls...

She isn't more likely to cheat. She will always be connected with you unless she becomes a str8 hoe.

But she is more likely to not know FULLY what she wants, needs, and likes... she's less likely to speak up. so over 90% of those been with one man chicks... aren't 100% satisfied and it's their own damn fault. but ur girl might be one of the few Virgins thats different. Just do everything in every way and pay attention to what she like..... and i guess you'll know eventually. If yall keep up the sex pace then your good.

 

[Thegospel]

If you want a child and want to stay in the child's life you get married. If you don't want kids there's no point in getting married.

 

[StickStickly]

thats why ur a bitter single black lady on the coli, sweetheart

actually...I'm not bitter lol. Sex/relationship topics interest me the most. i just like like talking about it. . I like analyzing these topics, bit what is shocking is how most conclusions are driven from emotion and assumption, even my own.

aaand I'm in a 5+ year relationship

man @Theraflu i actually respect you . and you threw black in there too

 

[MikelArteta]

Love is just a emotion.

Ive had like hell ten chicks tell me they love me where dem thots now

Only love a man needs from a woman is his mom/grandma or if he has a daughter.

please show me this study.

what's a point living and dying on this earth if you don't feel love for someone ever? seriously. we don't live that long and that's one of the best feelings to have. people live and die for that shyt.

 

[MikelArteta]

5 years and not married or engaged?

actually...I'm not bitter lol. Sex/relationship topics interest me the most. i just like like talking about it. . I like analyzing these topics, bit what is shocking is how most conclusions are driven from emotion and assumption, even my own.

aaand I'm in a 5+ year relationship

man @Theraflu i actually respect you . and you threw black in there too

 

[Jesus Shuttlesworth]

There are a few diamonds in the rough.


but your pops is mostly right... I spent 11 years mostly with professional women that had fiancees and husbands. That's all I had time for. tbh, the mistake is made from these MEN choosing the wrong one or settling. If there is no sexual chemistry, you can't make her laugh.... you always catch her eyes wonder or she doesn't back down from arguments over 90% of the time... then just don't settle.

But if you act like a real man.. you might run into one of the few.

This is what I'm learning and starting to understand about a lot of my coli brethren. I feel sorry for them. I never been one to settle or accept less in any situation. Could be part of the fatherless generation epidemic. My pops taught me that when I want something, own it. Simple as that.

 

[satam55]

good news brehs, your wife that cheats on you still loves you



http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/art...tionships-just-bored-bedroom-study-finds.html

Get married brehs!

 

[StickStickly]

Love is just a emotion.

Ive had like hell ten chicks tell me they love me where dem thots now

Only love a man needs from a woman is his mom/grandma or if he has a daughter.

Why do people think emotions are worthless or don't mean anything? emotions are what motivates us to do nearly everything in life. it separates us from animals. it makes us feel alive. it makes our lives worth living. don't sleep on love, breh, don't do that to yourself.

 

[Liquid]

#1 If men are the hunters, how are they not also the choosers? Women can only talk to who talks to them. Men (should) have the balls to approach any woman they deem desirable. Now I'm really confused.

#2 Breh, women don't want to work. No one does. Women want to be taken care of. That's a fundamental flaw in today's thinking. Women want equality in the workplace IF they're going to be forced to work. Take care of your woman and see how much energy she has for cooking, cleaning and fukking. Problem is, men want women to work 40 hours in the workplace then come home and work 80 more in the house. This goes back to us as men. Take care of your woman and these problems don't arise.

#3 Again, take care of your woman and you don't have these problems. That's not on them. That's on us, as husbands. Perhaps the problem is that white men who make these laws take care of their women so they don't understand that. Rich politicians? Yeah, they don't have those problems

#4 Again, it all goes back to taking care of home. If your woman is out in the workforce, YOU'RE empowering her. Not her fault or anyone else's.

#5 Again, I don't understand this. Have you ever been raped by a woman or something? What do you mean you can't choose a woman?

I think you just need a lesson on how the female mind works, breh. You sound like you skrugglin ouchea. I understand you not wanting to get married if you're forced to settle for a woman you didn't want in the first place. No offense but damn, breh. If you want I can teach you to pull any high quality woman you want.

You are simply in denial if you don't see how screwed up the system is and how men are at a complete disadvantage in these situations.

My whole argument is that women scream for equality on one end, but then when it comes in the courtroom it is the complete opposite? Which one is it? Do you want to be viewed as completely equal? Then why the contradiction? It makes absolutely no sense that the government does not see this huge problem our country is facing today.

Let me ask you this quick question, your argument is "take care of home" as if most men don't go in with that intention in the first place. What has changed drastically in the past couple of decades that have caused divorce rates to skyrocket? Again, for generations men held this responsibility and things kept moving right along, but now the drastic change...why? Your lazy responses of "People just don't want to work or if men would take care of home" is not going to cut it. It is generally accepted that about 3% of the population will refuse to work no matter what...its what has been the case forever...that is clearly not the problem here.

You are in flat out denial my breh.

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

Why do people think emotions are worthless or don't mean anything? emotions are what motivates us to do nearly everything in life. it separates us from animals. it makes us feel alive. it makes our lives worth living. don't sleep on love, breh, don't do that to yourself.

 

[Blackking]

This is what I'm learning and starting to understand about a lot of my coli brethren. I feel sorry for them. I never been one to settle or accept less in any situation. Could be part of the fatherless generation epidemic. My pops taught that when I want something, own it. Simple as that.

Yeah, these nikkas have been married or dated and cheated on and became bitter... Others are just confused.

Everyone likes to point fingers, but at the end of the day... We are men, we need to chose proper mates and then take care of them.

Now, I'm speaking on you upstanding brothers,, not myself. i have a few bms, and a girl ... i cheated on most and i aint shyt


but they all respect me and still do because I never acted like a bytch nikka and always took care of them.. I respect them (now) and probably won't cheat on my current woman. It's all about how we pick them.

 

[Theraflu]

actually...I'm not bitter lol. Sex/relationship topics interest me the most. i just like like talking about it. . I like analyzing these topics, bit what is shocking is how most conclusions are driven from emotion and assumption, even my own.

aaand I'm in a 5+ year relationship

man @Theraflu i actually respect you . and you threw black in there too

I'm sorry love, I really respect you too :bearhug:

 

[Jesus Shuttlesworth]

You are simply in denial if you don't see how screwed up the system is and how men are at a complete disadvantage in these situations.

My whole argument is that women scream for equality on one end, but then when it comes in the courtroom it is the complete opposite? Which one is it? Do you want to be viewed as completely equal? Then why the contradiction? It makes absolutely no sense that the government does not see this huge problem our country is facing today.

Let me ask you this quick question, your argument is "take care of home" as if most men don't go in with that intention in the first place. What has changed drastically in the past couple of decades that have caused divorce rates to skyrocket? Again, for generations men held this responsibility and things kept moving right along, but now the drastic change...why? Your lazy responses of "People just don't want to work or if men would take care of home" is not going to cut it. It is generally accepted that about 3% of the population will refuse to work no matter what...its what has been the case forever...that is clearly not the problem here.

You are in flat out denial my breh.

Denial?

I think you're delusional. If women can get equality in the workplace, they'd be fools to not accept it. If women can get over in the courtroom, same thing. You want them to say, "No, your honor, I can work and take care of myself. Please don't force him to pay CS or alimony."

Even though some women do do that.

You're clearly confused as to what women want. No they don't want everything to be "completely and utterly equal." They want theirs! Just like you're on here wanting yours.

It's you who can't have it both ways. You want everything in favor of the man but complain when women want everything in favor of them.

 

[Rusty Kuntz]

Gotta keep that bedroom exciting. Sex is an important part of my relationship with my husband, so we make sure to get it in, even when we're both busy.

We're both freaks, so it hasn't become boring, even after being together almost 7 years.

 

[philmonroe]

#1 If men are the hunters, how are they not also the choosers? Women can only talk to who talks to them. Men (should) have the balls to approach any woman they deem desirable. Now I'm really confused.

#2 Breh, women don't want to work. No one does. Women want to be taken care of. IF women are going to be forced into the workplace, then yeah, they want equality. That's understandable. Take care of your woman and see how much energy she has for cooking, cleaning and fukking. Problem is, men want women to work 40 hours in the workplace then come home and work 80 more in the house. This goes back to us as men. Take care of your woman and these problems don't arise.

#3 Again, take care of your woman and you don't have these problems. That's not on them. That's on us, as husbands. Perhaps the problem is that white men who make these laws take care of their women so they don't understand that. Rich politicians? Yeah, they don't have those problems

#4 Again, it all goes back to taking care of home. If your woman is out in the workforce, YOU'RE empowering her. Not her fault or anyone else's.

#5 Again, I don't understand this. Have you ever been raped by a woman or something? What do you mean you can't choose a woman?

I think you just need a lesson on how the female mind works, breh. You sound like you skrugglin ouchea. I understand you not wanting to get married if you're forced to settle for a woman you didn't want in the first place. No offense but damn, breh. If you want I can teach you to pull any high quality woman you want.

Regarding number 1 women are the choosers because if you go upto 100 chicks and none of them talk to you you assed out so that's how they are the choosers.