Married/committed brehs.. when you stopped wanting to fuc other women

[Dig]

She probably cheated on you too breh.. if she stopped

Naw. Why I love her Held me down since I got out

 

[WaveGang]

My bae found the unopened box of condoms last night on my dresser

 

[jdubnyce]

Not worth losing what we've built together
I look, but never touch

If I found myself in a position where I wanted to find someone else, I'd divorce my wife first

Never cheat, that goes for you, you and especially you

 

[Dig]

Ain't nothin better than new p*ssy and piece.
Being with that gf/wife don't give u none of that
I'm just saying

^^
Last new female I fukked with had some big ass titties and her p*ssy was pillowy. I still think about that shyt from time to time

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

This brother thinks there's a time when you stop wanting to smash other women.

There isn't, you just make a decision not to (or they decide for you).

If folks smashing in Nusing homes that shyt don't never go away

What was god thinking when he designed us like this? Could've gave us a switch to turn it on and off at our own will.

 

[getmoney310cpt]

It’s obvious monogamy for men is not natural or else once you find the “one” you wouldn’t have the urge at all..

Monogamy was created by white boys

 

[Vandelay]

You probably desire variety, or at the very least things have become routine and stale. I don't think monogamy is a natural state for men, but a productive society requires us to pair up to start families and not fukk over the next man when searching for new p*ssy. And if any of us had the means, we probably at the very least explore trying some new strange until we found someone compatible.

If it ain't in you to cheat...you need to talk to someone, homie, therapist, even her if y'all got that kind of relationship.

I get bored too in relationships, but I'm not naturally a grimey nikka. So I was able to create some separation to redesire my ex...I would take work trips for 4-5 days. I know that ain't an option for everyone, but maybe fill your schedule up so that you don't know every little thing she has going on. If me and whoever I'm with know everything about each down to what our next sentence or reaction will be, you're around her too much.

 

[Uachet]

I never stopped desiring attractive women. I just have control over my actions, and so I do not allow my emotions to control me. My vow to my wife is my life, and so I keep it no matter what sort of temptations come my way.

 

[kj614]

You never want to stop, you just don't because you are committed.. It gets tough to, you will lust an undesirable after awhile

 

[Professor Emeritus]

If you can control yourself in any situation, then you can control yourself in every situation. It's just a matter of whether you make the decision to or not.

 

[NaijaProdigy Redux]

It doesn’t go away. You just try to be disciplined and remember what you could lose over a nut.

 

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[Hey_zeus]

Str8 up you don't love her for real/ain't in love like that. Otherwise it wouldn't even be an option. Harsh realities. Having that ķind of love is rare and you probably got some other underlying issues that affects you being faithful too. But ultimately you don't rock with her the long way.

 

[International Playa]

Urge is always there but what I got with my girl is special. It's not easy to find a quality woman who is down for you & treats you like a king.

I just look, get horny, go home & take my lady to pound town

I been on these streets for decades, smashed many women, countless dates on dating apps, been to DR, Amsterdam etc fukked escorts, strippers etc. There is very few quality women in these streets. I aint risking what I have for a quick nut with a slut.

 

[I'm Blackman]

Been married almost 20 years....never cheated. The posts below are all facts and great advice. I would add because my word means something.

I love her too much to hurt her like that. Plus she's damn near my life vest navigating this batshyt ass world.

Street p*ssy is like dumpster diving in search of dinner

You can always look, just don't touch. You all still fukkin on the regular?

Men are not wired to never not want other women. Just make sure you can always keep sexual chemistry with your girl and worst case bust a nut on your own to kill the edge.

The thing is, if you get other p*ssy you will regret losing everything else your girl gave you.

This is the answer right here. You're a man at the end of the day, so the urges aren't going to go away. It's biological. But the consequences of cheating and hurting someone you love keep you from doing that.

Hopefully never.


But you eventually realize you would never want to a.) Hurt the person you love so much, b.) Mess up a good thing (family, etc.).

I realized that most of these hoes out here are just for fun, not worth acting on. I look, sometimes converse if I'm at the gym but not worth fukking or losing what I built.

Short term gratification vs long term consequences

It’s damn near impossible to find attractive good women. I’m not letting this one go.

Spice things up with your women. Have her put on a wig or different hair style and meet her at a bar for some role playing as strangers.

p*ssy is p*ssy and at the end of the day 15-30 mins of new p*ssy isn’t worth the happiness I’ve built with my wife.

As long as you have a dikk it don’t go away. This is where discipline comes into play. I’ve never cheated in any of my relationships because I know how it feels to get cheated on. It sucks and it’s like someone shot a hole in your chest. I don’t want my wife to feel that feeling.

But I will say you get tested a lot by women when they know your married.

No heterosexual man will ever have those urges go away. It's just that you value your relationship/family more than a quick nut

As long as you have a functional penis those urges aren’t going away.

I try to keep myself out of situations that are too compromising.

I love my wife, but if I’m out by myself and I see something I like I’m going to look. I’m not blind nor am I dead either.

Penis discipline gets better as you get older, but you still will be tempted and occasionally tested too.

Most fellas are only faithful as their options though, that’s not to say that all men cheat but put them in the right situation with the right woman and an understanding of discretion 70-80 percent or more of fellas are going to play.

This brother thinks there's a time when you stop wanting to smash other women.

There isn't, you just make a decision not to (or they decide for you).

I never stopped desiring attractive women. I just have control over my actions, and so I do not allow my emotions to control me. My vow to my wife is my life, and so I keep it no matter what sort of temptations come my way.

If you can control yourself in any situation, then you can control yourself in every situation. It's just a matter of whether you make the decision to or not.

It doesn’t go away. You just try to be disciplined and remember what you could lose over a nut.