Married and Divorced twice before 30.

[Abstract83]

Graduation day. Boot camp. Moms represented. Dad was taking the pic and also walking around with a fanny pack on. I was whispering! Dad take off the fanny packkkk!!!! He was This is my good one tho. 100% leather. And It keeps all my stuff. I was

U made this thread on my birthday. Im finishing it on christmas day. U should really consider putting all this in a book. U can help a lot of people with these stories. I feel lucky i have a beautiful woman. A little too clingy but i wouldnt change it. I be so tempted by other women im not gonna lie. But I refuse to stray. That other side maybe a regretful one.

 

[.༼-◕_◕-༽.]

Yes. For 10 years now.
She justifies everything by the bible and then blames me for getting into a situation I did not think through fully.
Yes, I asked her to marry me....because I wanted a mate to SHARE my life with and enjoy the things I like doing TOGETHER!!
I didn't get married to only do things that we both like...we don't have damn near enough in common to be happy doing that!!
I know that I need my space....she apparently doesn't need any space and has no intention of giving me any and blames me for being a married man and expecting space.
The only time she's not hounding me and asking me where I am is when I'm at work.
I've used vacation days and claimed working late so many times just so I can have some free time and do the things I love.
I shouldn't have to do things like lie and hide and sneak as a grown ass man!!!
Why am I a grown man living like I'm back in my moms apartment and 17 again!?!?! What the hell kinda mess is that!?
I've told her how I feel countless times and she always has a reason to blame it back on me and maintain her position.
I'm getting to the point where I'm seriously gonna be like "fukk your position, I'm out. If you're here when I get back then fine, if not...fine."

All the love in the damn world ain't worth a lifetime of suffering....

Since she's into "church" do you think she will listen to pastoral counseling? Because according to the Bible she's not supposed to deny you sex and she supposed to be obedient.

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

Since she's into "church" do you think she will listen to pastoral counseling? Because according to the Bible she's not supposed to deny you sex and she supposed to be obedient.

The source of the problem fixed itself.
That church folded a coupla months back...her ways and actions have gotten more "Normal" since the end of that church.
I'm still pushing her though. Im gonna get what's mine and make sure she know where I stand even though she let up and eased off some.
I still don't care...it's my way or the highway.
I work too damn hard to live like this.

 

[.༼-◕_◕-༽.]

The source of the problem fixed itself.
That church folded a coupla months back...her ways and actions have gotten more "Normal" since the end of that church.
I'm still pushing her though. Im gonna get what's mine and make sure she know where I stand even though she let up and eased off some.
I still don't care...it's my way or the highway.
I work too damn hard to live like this.

Good to hear brother. She might be a little scared to try new things- some people are- but I'm glad you're getting there.

 

[theflyest]

I'll have to go back & read all the OP's threads

 

[joasis8]

I still use gifs. Have a whole library of em. I do not want to take credit for that one tho. First one I saw use it was @Mowgli He used it to perfection. Had me crying. I used that in the thread where I got kicked out of Costco after fighting the lesbian preachers.

Classic thread

 

[General Mills]

The source of the problem fixed itself.
That church folded a coupla months back...her ways and actions have gotten more "Normal" since the end of that church.
I'm still pushing her though. Im gonna get what's mine and make sure she know where I stand even though she let up and eased off some.
I still don't care...it's my way or the highway.
I work too damn hard to live like this.

My dude I was just thinking about you. Keep us updated fam!!

 

[Mr Uncle Leroy]

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[alpo]

Thank you again for this thread...

I had my "Come to Jesus" moment this morning in the car when I got to the parking lot at work.
I'm just going to put this out there....it doesn't matter anymore.
All this past month we've been on the edge of divorce because of various things.

- Me hiking with my coworkers (male and female)
- Me talking to females at church (Nothing flirty, just simple conversation)
- Me wanting to go back to school
- Me wanting to get into more outdoor activities with my survival group (since she won't do anything I like with me)
- Me wanting more from life than just being a "family man"

Everything that she has a problem with involves me doing something more with my life besides "Go to work, come home, eat, sleep, rinse & repeat".
I can't live like that. I just can't.
I have been here before with an ex, another sista that wanted me to be a robot and I can't live like that. I thought that because my wife was a church girl she'd be better than any run of the mill female...nope.
She's just as frickin crazy as any other and I wasted 10 damn years with this bullshyt thinking she would get better one day and all of a sudden life would be great. I've lost my friends, gave up my motorcycle, gave up seeing my family gave up personal growth and only added complication to my life....for what!?!?!
All because I wanted to do things right?
Hell, I don't ever have sex anymore hardly. Gave that up for this woman too. I wasn't rolling in the sheets before her, but at least I was getting it when I needed it.
I've weighed the balance, I don't need companionship that badly if it means I lose everything else that makes life meaningful and fun.
I've considered suicide more in these past 10 years than I have my entire life before her.
That ain't good.
That ain't good at all.

The only choice is to leave her.

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

My dude I was just thinking about you. Keep us updated fam!!

It's getting better breh.
It's scary to think that that church had her programmed and controlled the way it did. But some people are more prone to being led I guess...
I've always been a free thinker...her, not so much.
But imma keep pushing until I get what I need and want.
One way or another...

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

Good to hear brother. She might be a little scared to try new things- some people are- but I'm glad you're getting there.

Thank you.
You don't know how much that support means to me.
I'm gonna open up her mind and eyes if I do anything at all...there's a lot of programming to undo.
Thanks to the church...

 

[General Mills]

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GMB

 

[General Mills]

Caught up. Man it just shows you don't need to be rich or famous to live a full life rife with adventure. I feel so bad for the 2nd wife, after the divorce post I didn't expect shyt to keep getting worse the way it did. But damn shyt hit the fan more and more every follow up. Best of luck to you and her life is really crazy bruh, shyt was too sad.

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Ay bruh about the first ex wife tho you said the ass still fat right. where she be at?

Lol. If you are serious then she works at Home Depot on Southside Blvd in Jacksonville.

 

[KingsOfKings]

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[FukYaFeelings]

You sound like me OP. I was the type of nikka to put a girls happiness before mine. Even if it meant I was unhappy...but seeing her happy made me happy, you feel me?

All my homeboys telling me fukk allat being nice shyt and I feel now




Read both stories. Second one was suppose to be said but I was crying laughing at you saying her head look like Martin's. Then sayin her mental capacity is of a 11 year old and thats the age of her students. With the emoji too lmao


Hope everything's going well for you now tho. You gotta third wife? You dating someone? Update us