Married and Divorced twice before 30.

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More often than not I tend to take that L.
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As a kid my pops used to tell me stories of situations of guys on his job like this except a lot messier. Kids, drugs involved and custody battles, nikkas living on the street after losing they house and being put in jail over back child support etc.

So I didn't even need to do this:

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Because I became so good at recognizing bad females from listening to these patterns I was just like:

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A lot of dudes just rush into things recklessly while I am just sitting their observing like

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Just waiting for that bytch to fukk up and reveal some antics or a laundry list of shyt I just don't like. A lot of times a couple months is all it takes and many are just up front with it if you just look beyond the body and any other distractions.

nikkas need to be more cold blooded in their interactions with Women until they have proven themselves to you over time. American Woman - 7-10 years proof required. Non-American maybe like 2-5. And for the love of god check that family out that will tell you all you need to know about her potentially trifling ass.


100% TRUTH in this post !
 

CBSkyline

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I would be in jail for murder if he was not already in jail. Aside from my parents and siblings. . She showed me the most love EVER. Now she had her ways. . And we did not agree. But like I said it was never hate or anger. Just we were different. And she was literally one of the nicest people I had ever met in my life. So I KNEW she did not cause this. Hell even if she did she is not a physical threat AT ALL. :ld:


I visited her two more times and I had to stop. . It was too much brehs. . For one I was feeling hella guilty and petty as fukk!!! If we never got the divorce that I pushed for this never would have happened. :snoop: I started thinking and re thinking it. I had a good chick! I let her go back to the wolves and she got eaten. :sadbron: It took me a minute to get over that feeling to be honest. :guilty:

I would always call her fam and check in. At least 4 times a week. Me and her fam were cool. I spent so much time with them ( forced ) that they were my down south family. They told me the bad news. She def has brain damage. . Most likely will never have the mental capacity past a 11 year old. :mjcry: That is the age of the kids she was teaching. :mjcry: Her career is done. . . I was :wow:

They gave her oldest sister power of attorney for her. So she was taking care of everything. I was like cool. :ehh: One day her moms called me frantic asking if I can help! I said what?:dwillhuh: Her sister decided to short sell her 4 bedroom house. . Along with all the possessions inside. . . . . I was :dwillhuh:


Sometimes family is the cruelest brehs. :to: While she was in the hospital. . She short sold the house. .ALL OF HER STUFF TOO. Sold her car. The truck I got was declared a total loss and the insurance paid the rest of the note off. But the sis sold all her shyt!! And used the money to buy herself a new house. . . and opened a FAILED used tire shop for her husband. :mindblown:


There was literally nothing I could do. . We were no longer married. . And the house was in her name. She had it before we met.. . . Her moms was sick!!! Janet had money from the school board and disability. . But it was not a whole lot. . Her savings got eaten up too by therapy and shyt. :to: When she eventually got out of the hospital she moved in with her parents. :skip:


They took care of her. . She forgot how to cook, all kinds of shyt mane. :mjcry: I did not want to see her brehs. . It hurt too much. But. . . . . .She would call me once a month. She would think we were still married and she would call and we would chat. Its like she remembered the good times. . She did not even remember the dude AT ALL. :wow:

I was going to wait until the end to post, but damn this got me. I think the last time I was touched this much by someone's personal story was when @Walt was dropping his own in that classic thread in the coliseum.
 

Mordith

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Last year she called my mom. My parents number has never changed. .Said she was looking for me. . Amazingly I had never ran into her since being back down here. So I called her. .She wanted to get the divorce papers cause she is getting married again .She did not know how to get them from PA. So we met up. She apologized and said she was young and dumb. . . :camby:

I had to come back in point this out that this is the same simp mentality that got this nikka in the situation in the first place. After all of the shyt this broad put him through he was willing to still willing to :cape:for this ho. After all the shyt this broad put him through I wouldn't piss on that ho if she was on fire, :rudy: Forgiving people no matter what they do to you is not a redeeming quality it's a character flaw. For example if he cut the ho off when she lied about the 1st kid he would have avoided all of the bullshyt that followed. You have to put yourself 1st and when you come across someone who has no regard for you should cut that person off permanently.
 
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