Married and Divorced twice before 30.

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i want to get married someday. Im nervous about it from the stories ive heard and seeing examples, but it takes courage to do it so stay up, you'll find you a keeper.

 

[QuavoFlow]

best thing i ever did was join this site i laughed, i cried i've felt every single emotion. im wit it. Tryna drop some classic threads myself in the near future


#ColiNikkaForeverBrehs

 

[TEH]

 

[Payday23]

Damn. @General Mills the fukkery you get into. I'm envious in a way. You truly have a gift. No one takes an L like you.

 

[Kenny West]

Caught up. Man it just shows you don't need to be rich or famous to live a full life rife with adventure. I feel so bad for the 2nd wife, after the divorce post I didn't expect shyt to keep getting worse the way it did. But damn shyt hit the fan more and more every follow up. Best of luck to you and her life is really crazy bruh, shyt was too sad.

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Ay bruh about the first ex wife tho you said the ass still fat right. where she be at?

 

[General Mills]

http://www.thecoli.com/threads/post...ng-l-with-a-female.245690/page-3#post-9881654

HOLY shyt! That was YOU?!

Living Legend!

Yup yup.That chick burned my soul.

 

[Yup]

That's guilt talking. That's a very naive stance to take if you believe "anything can happen in life." That's his way of rationalizing talking to the family and being close to her.

It's not about if she would've "met that man." You have to look at it like, if he reacted that way with his ex wife after he left her, if she got in a car accident while they were together that resulted in the same type of damage, he would NEEEEEEVER have gotten that divorce.

The moral of both of these stories, in my opinion, outside of the obvious shyt like date, learn, and grow with your partner before you get married, has to be that you can always get out of a marriage, you can never get out of being a parent. And for that, he's probably one of the smartest/luckiest dudes on this forum.

 

[DreadBrown]

@General Mills thank you for sharing bro, great thread

 

[DreadBrown]

Thread has 41k views you got dem computers putin

 

[Splash]

I aint even know what to say anymore

When you said she used to call you thinkin you were still married

Ay but you have to find your own happiness None of that is on you, ya hear me

Just life you know

 

[Jean toomer]

No homo but I was tearing up writing it. Never actually wrote this story out let alone told many people about it. She did not deserve that shyt AT ALL.

I think most people don't deserve some of the curves they get in life. Your story points out how random shyt is sometimes but also why we need to make good decisions In life to reduce the odds of getting those curves.
Amazing story breh. Godspeed.

 

[Swirv]

I learned plenty from both marriages. .

#1. Warning signs!! Not saying all single moms are like that. . I have dated some since. . .But the old adage. . Meet a chick in a bar. . . Also she taught me to be more cold. I was all in with her soon as we met. And she was with it. . But any time we had to be apart she did her thing. And I was the sucker for love. .


#2. Speak my mind! Listen to my own self. I knew I was unhappy but ate that shyt until I was literally sick. Also. . She was a wonderful woman. . But I never should have married her. I should have trusted my own instincts.



I still make hella missteps. . But I am so much more aware. . Sad it took me this long. But it is ok. . I follow my brehs in GMB cause I DID Get Married Brehs. Twice. . .

And I am just being honest. . I do not see the true benefit in getting married anymore. . . . . And my parents are still going strong. .Which I realize is rare as fukkkkk. They both got married at 18. And they are now 59. And I love what they have. My personal thinking is with social media the way it is. .And society.. . . It is not impossible. . But it is damn tough to have a healthy marriage that will last till the end.

Thanks for sharing breh. I hope telling your story helps to heal your pain. Your tales will def help some of us in our journey too.

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

I had to stop myself midway through the 2nd wife to make a prediction: She's either on probation or she has one of those extreme Maury show phobias




*Goes back to reading*

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

You didn't know??? She has been in the hospital for the past month basically in a coma. The dude she was dating almost beat her to death.

The fukk?


I didn't see this coming at all

 

[Johnny Tightlips]

maaaaannn.. epic fukking thread so many life lessons so much emotion


@General Mills If Im ever in your proximity Imma hit you up and buy you a brew or two (no homo of course)