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Lol. I legit own a teacup Chihuahua. He is sitting right Here. And that lil nikka really flew thru the drive thru window on some Greatest American Hero shyt.

I fully admit I used to be a hardcore simp. I just put women on this pedestal. I made another thread on here about this chick trying me and trying to get cash out of me. I posted text messages. Basically I kinda explained part of of is my nature. I am a super laid back not wanting to make waves kinda guy. Another part of it was that all I saw growing up was my dad worshipping my moms.

They are still married going strong. Anything she wanted he gives to her. Now...... This was all I saw growing up. So it warped me a lil. I gave women in my life the same treatment for a long time plus I was the oldest so I had no big brother to kinda teach me. When I met homies they would steer me in the right direction.... But at the wrong time my simp background would rear it's head.

I love women. But honestly I never trust ANYTHING a chick says now. I perpetually keep the :childplease: face . I right or wrong assume they are all playing games and lying. They literally beat the simp out of me.

In my mind I would love to have that one woman I could simp over. I know that will never happen. :aicmon:
Truthfully no one can blame you for thinking like this. You have guys still mad at Lil Kiesha from the 3rd grade rejecting their valentines card. You've been through real shyt and the fact that you don't even seem bitter like a lot of people would is a testament to your laid back and good guy nature.
I wouldnt say im the female version of you but i know what its like just being that person that doesnt make a big deal about things, is very patient and just over all a positive and laid back. You have a good heart and i'm sorry you had to go through all that shyt. One of the things i hate the most is people using other people. For some of us we dont even consider it using because people pleasing is part of our nature. I think it's why you arent as bitter because it's just how you are. I literally have to talk myself into saying no to people sometimes. It's even worse when you know you are being taken advataged of.
I hope you really find someone that can appreciate your nature and not use that against you. But i completely understand why you would look at any woman suspiciously and why it would be hard not to take them serious.

Them fukked up hoes always messing up the good guys:mjcry:
 

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I think mom's had that pi on deck. She didn't run into that bytch randomly. Especially not in some projects.
Mom's behind the scenes puttin in that work in advance of the Florida family vacay
Lol no doubt. Mom tracked her down. It's probably the reason they actually went down here. Did OP even try to find her? :mjlol: Just taking Ls w/o protest.
 

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@General Mills I am now starting to read this story to my husband who is usn retired and was stationed in Jax at one point
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If you have not you Must read my other hijincks when I was stationed in Jax. If he was on the Spruance I may know breh. Lol
 

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Yo @General Mills i don't give a fukk if your stories are true or complete and utter duck tales. You need a book deal my nikka Becuase if you REALLY took these L's Then fate put these burdens on you for you to in turn share them with the world...
Your thread inspired me to make this. Honestly right or wrong I liked how you handled your situation. I wish I was decisive Like you when I was younger. Now I am different.... But it took me a minute to get there. :salute:
 

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I think mom's had that pi on deck. She didn't run into that bytch randomly. Especially not in some projects.
Mom's behind the scenes puttin in that work in advance of the Florida family vacay

I think your right. Moms had to have been working behind the scenes for a minute. Her prep time was on Batman levels. :wow:

I never asked but I assumed she tracked her down from the 5 year old grandparents. Cause they found my ex first when they where looking for their grandchild. They got in touch with my mom's when they found her and she gave them my parents number.


Now moms had some info to work with. Then she Csi'd the game to find her after the Disney vacation.:wow:
 
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