Marriage rates are collapsing for lower income and middle income families

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

THANK YOU!!!! These goofy dudes act like I’m marriage Hitler for pointing out OBVIOUS shyt.
I be sitting like...how da hell they problematize such OBVIOUS shyt?

Hell im surprised this opting out of marriage didn’t happen sooner, particularly for women.

Dudes don came in here and tried every trick in the book.
“Gon be alone”
“Who hurt you”
“You crazy!”

Why? Because they know the deal. Women pay lip service to marriage but traditional marriage for MANY women in the past was HELL and most women ain’t putting up with the bullshyt if they don’t have to.

Being cheated on, lumped up, tired as hell doing the lions share of shyt, and for what. Dudes not even fulfilling their vows to provide, protect and honor. AND go thru all that to not even get an orgasm b/c some dudes get so egotistical that they won’t even listen to a chick tell them what would get her off.

Women put up with that shyt in the old days b:c they had to. You one of 15 brothers or sisters. Either u got a husband, joined the nunnery but u damn sure weren’t sticking around to be another mouth to feed for ur parents.
Jobs were limited for women outside of the household. So they sucked it up, took them lumps, looked the other way when he made a family down the street, and either did they dirt in secret or took out their depression on themselves or their children. And some STILL got abandoned even while being “good traditional wives”

These dudes goofy as hell if they think that dumb shyt will fly when women damn near participating in the workforce more than men and making their own money.

Women outchea buying their own houses. This week I’ve been flying from state to state on job interviews for tenure positions and I’ve seen entire colleges and departments run by women. In relationships, most women don’t give a damn anymore about the fukk shyt. Cheat and u get cheated on. Either ya’ll both cooking and cleaning or everybody starving in a dirty ass crib.

Otherwise nobody is trying to hear the other shyt. And if she acts like she’s okay with it, she pullin MEAN game but they won’t believe that either.
I won’t even get into that pimp/hoe dynamic and the damage it did in our community. Got clit shriveling dudes thinking they entitled to fukking over chicks and insulting any woman unwilling to entertain that nonsense.

These 2020 chicks wack books.

Back in the day a nikka could cheat and chicks still would cook and clean.

Back in the day a man could cheat and women wouldnt even check the caller id on the phone

Back in the day a man would have 2 diff families and both the wife and sidechick got along.

These 2020 chicks

Want to leave after u cheat once

These 2020 chicks

Stop cleaning and cooking after u cheat

These 2020 chicks

Cheat back and leave before u get back from work.

2020 chicks wack books

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Society is filled with losers of both genders. The women aren’t aware of it tho. They’ll be complete failures and thinking they can land some super eligible dudes

Women are aware of their fukk shyt, but they just don’t care b/c there is zero incentive to get with dudes they don’t want when those dudes are fukk ups too.

Even regulars trying to be a pimp and HOH, so some chicks say they might as well at least get some dikk from somebody they actually attracted to or not be bothered at all.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

These 2020 chicks wack books.

Back in the day a nikka could cheat and chicks still would cook and clean.

Back in the day a man could cheat and women wouldnt even check the caller id on the phone

Back in the day a man would have 2 diff families and both the wife and sidechick got along.

These 2020 chicks

Want to leave after u cheat once

These 2020 chicks

Stop cleaning and cooking after u cheat

These 2020 chicks

Cheat back and leave before u get back from work.

2020 chicks wack books

RIIIIIIGGGGGHHHHHTTTT!
“W-why can’t I find a virgin who cooks, cleans, let me talk shyt about her 24/7, doesn’t want anything from me other than dikk, who will let me cheat on her, and just dog her out and say nothing! Fukk chicks who won’t lemme do this shyt to them. Oooh I know, if any smart bytch exposes the obvious shyt...imma accuse her of being bitter, hurt, lonely...o-or...A FEMINIST!”

“OH YEAH AND ANOTHER THING! Only men are allowed to bytch about marriage. It makes me mad as fukk when women don’t want the same institution I waste time complaining about. GMB! In fact...IMMA DO NOTHING BUT COMPLAIN ABOUT bytchES BUT GET HURT if a chick makes a complaint about me!”

“Deez bytches crazy for expecting me to treat them the way I wanna be treated! Fukk that! Just lemme disrespect you and take it!”


That’s all I hear in these conversations.

 

[Uitomy]

Can we just agree everyone hates each other and Americans are stupid on average?

 

[The Amerikkkan Idol]

We aren’t wired to resist. A man can populate a whole village and will if you let him.

Come on man, that's a fukkin' cop out.

If you're a grown ass man, you should be able to control your urges, if you know there are consequences for yourself or your loved ones involved

It'd be hard for me to resist just stealing $100,000 dollars if it was in front of me, but if I knew that doing so would hurt me or somebody I loved, I wouldn't do that shyt.

Again I ask. Why were women picking/ and still picking these guys if they so bad.

Either they don't realize its dysfunctional ( which is hard to believe)

Or they like the dysfunction and their place in it. That's not on the men that's on the women. Hell men care more about protecting women than women do.

Ray rice punched a woman and men formed like voltron and torched his career.

Chris brown was whopping Rihanna's ass and r Kelley got caught on tape pissing on girl. Who kept they careers alive, women. A lot of chicks like danger and dysfunction. Which is their choice. But I'm not gonna hold black men at large responsible for women's choices when there was probably a better option present.

Oh, I agree a lot of women are dysfunctional, but where does that dysfunction come from?

It comes from the home.

Again, I know personally from my family situation of women who stayed with dudes 20, 30, 40 years, were faithful to them and got dogged out anyway.

You think their daughters grew up wanting that same situation?

Hell no,

Black women aren't like White women, just like Black men aren't White men

White women didn't want to be "housewives", they wanted to make their own money to be "independent" just to hoe around not be judged for it.

Black women had not choice but to be the backbone of the family as racism fukks us over as Black men, kills us, puts us in jail, or even worst, creates angry and bitter Black men who lash out at their families.

Again, something I know happens from what I've known growing up around fukked up people.

We can't just say "Black women dysfunctional", without looking at the fathers who helped make them that way.

Even if it was the pressure of being the head of households in a racist ass Amerikkka, still it was fukked up to pass on that shyt to the family

get this the fukk out of here. Black women have been in charge of the families for years. Their mothers, aunts, grandmothers did whatever the fukk they wanted. They fukked the nikka they knew were not going to be good fathers because those men made their p*ssy wet. They didn’t want the productive man because he would hold their feet to the fire. Any man worth a damn wants structure in his house. And the black women didn’t want that. They wanted to continue to have dysfunction in their homes and to use the white man’s welfare.

And if the man put their hands on them the would surely call the cops on them to get them locked the fukk up. But shyt never mind that, fukk you think that hot water was on the stove for? Wasn’t for tea nikka lol.

nikka, how did Black women get to be in charge of Black families?

Because Black men didn't do their fukking jobs and hold it down.

How many women you know just want to raise 2, 3, 4, kids by their damn self?

Especially 50, 60 years ago when it virtually guaranteed a lifetime of poverty?

Like I've said before, Black women were vulnerable to White women's feminism, which told them that they didn't need men because a lot of them had the experience of being screwed over or had watched their mamas, grandmamas, aunties, and cousins get screwed over by Black men.

That's just the way that it is.

Now, we're 50 years into this bullshyt and Black men & Black women are trapped in this Cold War with no end in sight.

We got to diagnose that shyt in order to fix it, if it's possible.

 

[Eddy Gordo]

Come on man, that's a fukkin' cop out.

If you're a grown ass man, you should be able to control your urges, if you know there are consequences for yourself or your loved ones involved

It'd be hard for me to resist just stealing $100,000 dollars if it was in front of me, but if I knew that doing so would hurt me or somebody I loved, I wouldn't do that shyt.




Oh, I agree a lot of women are dysfunctional, but where does that dysfunction come from?

It comes from the home.

Again, I know personally from my family situation of women who stayed with dudes 20, 30, 40 years, were faithful to them and got dogged out anyway.

You think their daughters grew up wanting that same situation?

Hell no,

Black women aren't like White women, just like Black men aren't White men

White women didn't want to be "housewives", they wanted to make their own money to be "independent" just to hoe around not be judged for it.

Black women had not choice but to be the backbone of the family as racism fukks us over as Black men, kills us, puts us in jail, or even worst, creates angry and bitter Black men who lash out at their families.

Again, something I know happens from what I've known growing up around fukked up people.

We can't just say "Black women dysfunctional", without looking at the fathers who helped make them that way.

Even if it was the pressure of being the head of households in a racist ass Amerikkka, still it was fukked up to pass on that shyt to the family



nikka, how did Black women get to be in charge of Black families?

Because Black men didn't do their fukking jobs and hold it down.

How many women you know just want to raise 2, 3, 4, kids by their damn self?

Especially 50, 60 years ago when it virtually guaranteed a lifetime of poverty?

Like I've said before, Black women were vulnerable to White women's feminism, which told them that they didn't need men because a lot of them had the experience of being screwed over or had watched their mamas, grandmamas, aunties, and cousins get screwed over by Black men.

That's just the way that it is.

Now, we're 50 years into this bullshyt and Black men & Black women are trapped in this Cold War with no end in sight.

We got to diagnose that shyt in order to fix it, if it's possible.

Sure that in the past stuff applies to in the past.

But today a new day. Black women know exactly what functional men look like. Ciara knew where to find Russel Wilson when she needed to. Angela Simmons dad was in her life.

the women in the driver's seat. Which could would be cool but there ain't no responsibility anywhere in sight for these women.

Which begs the question of how do fix a problem when folks won't even acknowledge they fukking up?

 

[mamba]

Lmaoo right

Side note:
Good women are already married. They got their man in college or at a young age.

I agree with this. Men don’t let good women make it to 30 without wifing.

They are already off the market.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

I mostly agree, but I think our generation was a bit different. A lot of younger professional dudes I know are having trouble finding chicks and they aren't scumbags. In the old days being a good dude and having a good job was a power up in the dating game. It still is to an extent but women seem a lot more picky.

I think a big driver of this is people are less social these days. It always trips me out when young dudes ask how to meet women or complain about not being able to meet anybody. Maybe I'm just that out of touch, or maybe because I grew up in NYC I'm biased, but it seems like if you have any kind of social life whatsoever meeting women should be no problem. Even with all this internet shyt people still interact in real life.

Plus where you are makes a huge difference as well. If you're a young professional dude in a wack city, you will struggle to find decent women even if you are eligible. Meanwhile ineligible dudes in favorable cities are eating. All this online gender war shyt is horse shyt. Men and women are made for each other.

Again it might just be me as well but I also get the feeling a lot of millenials are getting social media burnout. That's the source of a lot of this angst and lonliness.

 

[BaggerofTea]

@Booksnrain you aren't telling the truth of the irresponsiblility of the modern woman

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

@Booksnrain you aren't telling the truth of the irresponsiblility of the modern woman

Is it safe to say all problems of society today are the modern woman's fault?

 

[Spectre]

I think a big driver of this is people are less social these days. It always trips me out when young dudes ask how to meet women or complain about not being able to meet anybody. Maybe I'm just that out of touch, or maybe because I grew up in NYC I'm biased, but it seems like if you have any kind of social life whatsoever meeting women should be no problem. Even with all this internet shyt people still interact in real life.

Plus where you are makes a huge difference as well. If you're a young professional dude in a wack city, you will struggle to find decent women even if you are eligible. Meanwhile ineligible dudes in favorable cities are eating. All this online gender war shyt is horse shyt. Men and women are made for each other.

Again it might just be me as well but I also get the feeling a lot of millenials are getting social media burnout. That's the source of a lot of this angst and lonliness.

Just described my whole situation just now

 

[BaggerofTea]

Is it safe to say all problems of society today are the modern woman's fault?

No, the creation of the modern woman is the modern man.

A lost sheppard cannot guide a flock of sheep

 

[BaggerofTea]

@No_bammer_weed whiny ass was mad when I said men and women are not equals.

But brehs, listen to me we are.

Not because men are better, nut because we are different and our roles are different

 

[HARLEM AL]

I agree with this. Men don’t let good women make it to 30 without wifing.

They are already off the market.

I’m trying to tell them.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

No, the creation of the modern woman is the modern man.

A lost sheppard cannot guide a flock of sheep

Damn, I thought you would take the bait

You speak to one of the many contradictions in TLR's gender narratives. Men want to be hailed and worshipped as leaders, but seem to have no control or understanding of the world we live in. Somehow strong, smart, rational men have been subverted and dismissed by feminists and homosexuals. Does it make sense to you?