Come on man, that's a fukkin' cop out.
If you're a grown ass man, you should be able to control your urges, if you know there are consequences for yourself or your loved ones involved
It'd be hard for me to resist just stealing $100,000 dollars if it was in front of me, but if I knew that doing so would hurt me or somebody I loved, I wouldn't do that shyt.
Oh, I agree a lot of women are dysfunctional, but where does that dysfunction come from?
It comes from the home.
You think their daughters grew up wanting that same situation?
Hell no,
Black women aren't like White women, just like Black men aren't White men
White women didn't want to be "housewives", they wanted to make their own money to be "independent" just to hoe around not be judged for it.
Black women had not choice but to be the backbone of the family as racism fukks us over as Black men, kills us, puts us in jail, or even worst, creates angry and bitter Black men who lash out at their families.
Again, something I know happens from what I've known growing up around fukked up people.
We can't just say "Black women dysfunctional", without looking at the fathers who helped make them that way.
Even if it was the pressure of being the head of households in a racist ass Amerikkka, still it was fukked up to pass on that shyt to the family
nikka, how did Black women get to be in charge of Black families?
Because Black men didn't do their fukking jobs and hold it down.
How many women you know just want to raise 2, 3, 4, kids by their damn self?
Especially 50, 60 years ago when it virtually guaranteed a lifetime of poverty?
Like I've said before, Black women were vulnerable to White women's feminism, which told them that they didn't need men because a lot of them had the experience of being screwed over or had watched their mamas, grandmamas, aunties, and cousins get screwed over by Black men.
That's just the way that it is.
Now, we're 50 years into this bullshyt and Black men & Black women are trapped in this Cold War with no end in sight.
We got to diagnose that shyt in order to fix it, if it's possible.