Because I'm paying for something another nikka got for free
Marriage rates are collapsing for lower income and middle income families
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That means you're making sex bigger then it is. Once you do that you lose, and she has power over you. That's when they play the good girl role, and hide their sexual side.
I'm different. I know my sex game is unbeatable or hard to find, and I know how to converse with women
Chances are she isn't on my level sexually, so because she tried other guys, she is automatically gonna be somewhat agreeable because she KNOWS men like me don't come around often
The secret is being subtle, and she never seeing you coming, you play it cool
They will be miserable. Careerist women often find that money cannot fill that void of having children and a family.
That’s when they end up being a regular in the therapist’s office to work through their emotions. Or they dive heavy into the church. Or they resort to posting wack ass inspirational messages on social media.
But, by then it’s too late. Therapist cannot reverse biology. Pastor cannot reverse biology. And likes or reweets cannot reverse biology.
None of this changes the fact that I'm paying for something another nikka got for free. Which is sucka shyt
And if sex isn't a big part of the relationship why cant I just be friends with the bytch. If we ain't fukking are we in a relationship.
Let then die off for the sake of the improvement of society. Selfish women just make everything around them toxic. Nature doesn't respect that.
I think this is a big factor. Our moms married our dads who may not have been the most attractive, didn’t last long enough in bed, and that weren’t xyz. Those things matter more to women now, who now make more, and feel that they have more choices to exercise than their mothers did.
It was also easier for men who had less education, and made less income to support families. Our parents didnt need as much to buy homes, pay for colleges, etc, and also met in traditional settings not in the disposable dating culture where everyone is pickier, have less offline personal interactions, more financial burdens, and debts and other shyt to worry about that make them too anxious and depressed when they compare their lives to those stunting on social media. Our culture/society right now is in a strange place and will continue to escalate through the 2020 decade, as depression rates continue to increase, sexual perversions become even more twisted. A lot of men and women aren’t shyt—many can’t help it because we’re products of this society that isn’t shyt either. I believe we’ll go from the current online easily disposable dating shallow clout culture—mixed in with incel shyt—to just abandoning it all due to the challenges in finding a quality partner. I think virtual relationships will be the next step.
But as the tides are turning, and more and more things that used to be accessible to the common man are now becoming luxuries afforded to the upper class, that will be a luxury for the upper class too. I think this is honestly all by design.
I wish I was born a decade earlier, not even because of this issue either, I just feel as if we’re truly at the end of days status. I’m in a cynical mood.
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Hey, if that's how you see it
I'm not saying sex isn't a big part of the relationship, I'm saying her being with other guys means nothing, unless she was hoeing, and doing it with no class
It helps me that she was with other guys because it makes her appreciate me more
Nope. I expect men to let go of bullshyt entitlement caveman nonsense.
Treat women the way they want to be treated.
If both parties work and contribute, they both have an equal day in their partnership.
Both cook and clean and care for children. Also keep ur dikk in ur pants and she keeps her legs closed and we all good.
But expecting women to be ur personal chef/maid doing majority of the work at home AND working full time, while putting up with a cheating a$$hole is a thing of the past.
Not all women are like that. Thank God for introverted, non entitled women in America and abroad.
Only a fool would think like that in this era
That shouldn't even be a thought unless you are paying for everything, and she stays home.
Even then she will most likely get a maid, from what I've seen, but maybe not if both of y'all talked about all of this before doing it
Watch what they do vs what they say. Any woman could get married if it was as big of a deal as it used to be. Simping is at an all time high. If a woman was really, REALLY desperate to marry, they would.
They complain to make it seem like they want marriage but really they want a new contract from what traditional marriage used to mean. It’s quite simple. Women used to bypass a lot of shyt in men b:c they didn’t have options. Looks weren’t that important. If a man cheated or treated her badly, society and family would tell her to let it go or overlook it. Men had entire dual families down the street. Women were still encouraged to hold down the fort, maintain...yadda, yadda, yadda.
But now, lots of things have changed. What is the incentive for a woman to choose somebody she not attracted to, get fukked by the same dikk she not attracted to for life, give unwavering loyalty to him, and overlook his trifling ways, all while doing all the traditional work AND working full time.
Nobody can answer that. Women emphasized marriage b4 b/c there were barely any other options for them and it was codified so strongly into society that u were damn near a pariah if u didn’t fall in line.
That shyt is gone. Women now have the choice to get what they want or forgo it altogether. And with the way women are acting, anybody can see most have said fukk it to the institution unless it’s on their terms.
That's how I see it.Hey, if that's how you see it
I'm not saying sex isn't a big part of the relationship, I'm saying her being with other guys means nothing, unless she was hoeing, and doing it with no class
It helps me that she was with other guys because it makes her appreciate me more
Your entire mentally is confusing to me to be honest. You say your girl experience makes her appreciate you more. I'm of the opinion that she should appreciate you regardless. I wouldn't be in a relationship with a women that didn't respect me. Like bytch, you here. You either wanna be here or you don't. If you don't appreciate me, you don't wanna be here, so gtfo.
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I fear you may be right sister.
So send those nudes, so i can die happy before this world comes to an end for all of us.
But nothing about male entitlement which is the impetuous for most of this nonsense.
Dudes wanting a live-in maid/chef that they can cheat, run game on and mess over is why chicks would rather marry they dogs, be single moms, or are delaying marriage and childbirth until they damn near 80 to pursue careers.
When those old arrogant expectations are dead it will right itself. In the meantime, legit reasonable men who aren’t scumbags will attract reasonable chicks and thrive.
Fukk bois and bytch nikkas will be left with trash and bum bytches and birds, sitting around wondering why all the women they encounter are horrid creatures.
no the fukk im not. Im just being realistic on modern conditions and relationship/family dynamics. Unlike the lot of you nikkas relying solely on marriage stats in regards to blacks in relationships.
@bolded I wont ignore alot wont make it, but "vast majority" you know this how? there's no stat to compare them. All you can do in this regard is going off anecdotal evidence in this regard
Just like you try to refute my claim with your anecdotal experience of how it not works.