Marriage rates are collapsing for lower income and middle income families

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Men complaining about most women lacking quality as if most of them aren’t 99.9% aint shyt themselves.

For a good woman, marriage is a liability b/c even if she was dumb enuff to follow up bro babble and choose up on the ugliest, lamest, clit shriveling dude she could find regardless of compatibility or genuine attraction...even those dudes wanna play games and fancy themselves “playas”.

Plenty of regular degular dudes mess over good women and cheat on them just like other dudes.

The typical bullshyt marriage package that a lot of dudes wanna pitch (I.e. he makes the rules, but split the bills 50/50, while u do all the domestic chores, and don’t complain about anything, even him disrespecting you by cheating on you, while also expecting unwavering loyalty) is a no-go. The only reason women did that shyt was a result of centuries of forced arranged marriages, brainwashing, shaming, and lack of economic options.

Women want long-term companionship but they not willing to sacrifice autonomy, sexual satisfaction, attraction, love and happiness to get it. Anymore.

Marriage has been de-incentivized for women. Offering dikk and HOH babble and shaming tactics just ain’t enough to make a chick wanna chase a dude who makes her clit hide, to put up with him cheating on her and basically be his roommate. AND deal with wack strokes. FOEHVA!
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Birth control wasn’t the harbinger of this shyt. Increased educational and economic opportunities for women was. If chicks can do better they will do better, whether it’s with a dude or not.:yeshrug:
 
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technically speaking I do feel like these new apps are technically arraigned marriages now that I think of it.


But to answer your question the marriages are typically happening in non-western worlds or cultures in America that are not western.

One of my clients today is in one but sadly her arranged marriage isn’t working out.
I can see why it's not working, you don't know each other. Arranged marriages is all business. I would hate to be in those households.

In this day, and age, you can actually marry your friend(in the west). The problem is people don't really know who they are, and looking for someone to fulfill what they are lacking.

Or marry for looks. I know people who look like a happy family, but the guy is cheating nonstop. The chick might be too(idk), but in their cases, she has no control over how she spends money because her life is boring from no hobbies.

I never seen a happy marriage once I actually knew more about the people. Doesn't mean it can't happen, just most people are lame, and marry other lames. I'm gonna start seeing how people who aren't square make their marriages work, or if it's the same shyt
 

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I can see why it's not working, you don't know each other. Arranged marriages is all business. I would hate to be in those households.

In this day, and age, you can actually marry your friend(in the west). The problem is people don't really know who they are, and looking for someone to fulfill what they are lacking.

Or marry for looks. I know people who look like a happy family, but the guy is cheating nonstop. The chick might be too(idk), but in their cases, she has no control over how she spends money because her life is boring from no hobbies.

I never seen a happy marriage once I actually knew more about the people. Doesn't mean it can't happen, just most people are lame, and marry other lames. I'm gonna start seeing how people who aren't square make their marriages work, or if it's the same shyt

yea but they work better than what’s going on in the west.
 

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yea but they work better than what’s going on in the west.
How? I know in India the women go through hell!

Over here, if it happens, the guy is cheating like crazy. Then you have to deal with the abuse of both the husband, and wife. That is not marriage to me. They do it because they're trying to keep money within their culture, and keep their culture going.

Is it worth it? Not to me, but as a black man I have way more choices then them, so my story is different
 

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Men complaining about most women lacking quality as if most of them aren’t 99.9% aint shyt themselves.

For a good woman, marriage is a liability b/c even if she was dumb enuff to follow up bro babble and choose up on the ugliest, lamest, clit shriveling dude she could find regardless of compatibility or genuine attraction...even those dudes wanna play games and fancy themselves “playas”.

Plenty of regular degular dudes mess over good women and cheat on them just like other dudes.

The typical bullshyt marriage package that a lot of dudes wanna pitch (I.e. he makes the rules, but split the bills 50/50, while u do all the domestic chores, and don’t complain about anything, even him disrespecting you by cheating on you, while also expecting unwavering loyalty) is a no-go. The only reason women did that shyt was a result of centuries of forced arranged marriages, brainwashing, shaming, and lack of economic options.

Women want long-term companionship but they not willing to sacrifice autonomy, sexual satisfaction, attraction, love and happiness to get it. Anymore.

Marriage has been de-incentivized for women. Offering dikk and HOH babble and shaming tactics just ain’t enough to make a chick wanna chase a dude who makes her clit hide, to put up with him cheating on her and basically be his roommate. AND deal with wack strokes.
:mjlol:
Birth control wasn’t the harbinger of this shyt. Increased educational and economic opportunities for women was. If chicks can do better they will do better, whether it’s with a dude or not.:yeshrug:
They don't wanna hear it tho :wow:
 

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How? I know in India the women go through hell!

Over here, if it happens, the guy is cheating like crazy. Then you have to deal with the abuse of both the husband, and wife. That is not marriage to me. They do it because they're trying to keep money within their culture, and keep their culture going.

Is it worth it? Not to me, but as a black man I have way more choices then them, so my story is different


Yea but it’s over exaggerated.

the basis behind that marriage is that both female and male are in a position where they can fullfill their roles.


Think about the way black females complain about black men. There have been people on here who shared LSA threads where women say they’d learn to love their providing spouse.

You got women on social media literally begging for a man that can just do his “role” and that’s all they care about.


Just my observations
 

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Yea but it’s over exaggerated.

the basis behind that marriage is that both female and male are in a position where they can fullfill their roles.


Think about the way black females complain about black men. There have been people on here who shared LSA threads where women say they’d learn to love their providing spouse.

You got women on social media literally begging for a man that can just do his “role” and that’s all they care about.


Just my observations
But think about it, they are in poor countries, or countries where they are a small minority, so that is their way of doing marriage to keep the money within their culture. This country is rich, so what role can a woman play that i cant do myself or pay for?

I can go out to eat when I want good food. I can wash my own clothes or take them to the cleaners. She can take out her own trash, or hire someone to changer her tire or cut her grass. My point is there is no "role" anymore.

What can work is if both if y'all agree on something, and try to make it work. Women who say they want to build an empire is an example. Men who say they want to build a strong family is another. The problem is both people actually doing the work to accomplish those goals. You gotta move on one accord!
 

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Men complaining about most women lacking quality as if most of them aren’t 99.9% aint shyt themselves.

For a good woman, marriage is a liability b/c even if she was dumb enuff to follow up bro babble and choose up on the ugliest, lamest, clit shriveling dude she could find regardless of compatibility or genuine attraction...even those dudes wanna play games and fancy themselves “playas”.

Plenty of regular degular dudes mess over good women and cheat on them just like other dudes.

The typical bullshyt marriage package that a lot of dudes wanna pitch (I.e. he makes the rules, but split the bills 50/50, while u do all the domestic chores, and don’t complain about anything, even him disrespecting you by cheating on you, while also expecting unwavering loyalty) is a no-go. The only reason women did that shyt was a result of centuries of forced arranged marriages, brainwashing, shaming, and lack of economic options.

Women want long-term companionship but they not willing to sacrifice autonomy, sexual satisfaction, attraction, love and happiness to get it. Anymore.

Marriage has been de-incentivized for women. Offering dikk and HOH babble and shaming tactics just ain’t enough to make a chick wanna chase a dude who makes her clit hide, to put up with him cheating on her and basically be his roommate. AND deal with wack strokes. FOEHVA!
:mjlol:
Birth control wasn’t the harbinger of this shyt. Increased educational and economic opportunities for women was. If chicks can do better they will do better, whether it’s with a dude or not.:yeshrug:

You expect men to pay 100% of the bills, despite you working a full time job?
 

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You expect men to pay 100% of the bills, despite you working a full time job?

In 2020, a lot of women still expect men to foot most of the bills—even as they are bringing in good money as well.

They’ll say they are cooking, cleaning, etc.

Most of them are working and coming home tired. Husbands are eating Chipotle and frozen pizza on the reg.
 

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In 2020, a lot of women still expect men to foot most of the bills—even as they are bringing in good money as well.

They’ll say they are cooking, cleaning, etc.

Most of them are working and coming home tired. Husbands are eating Chipotle and frozen pizza on the reg.

Guess that is mother nature's way of saying that those stubborn women don't need to reproduce. They want their money to splurge on themselves on superficial shyt.
 

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Guess that is mother nature's way of saying that those stubborn women don't need to reproduce. They want their money to splurge on themselves on superficial shyt.

Of course. Women are naturally selfish. They want resources from men, but don’t want to share the resources they accumulate.
 

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Men complaining about most women lacking quality as if most of them aren’t 99.9% aint shyt themselves.

For a good woman, marriage is a liability b/c even if she was dumb enuff to follow up bro babble and choose up on the ugliest, lamest, clit shriveling dude she could find regardless of compatibility or genuine attraction...even those dudes wanna play games and fancy themselves “playas”.

Plenty of regular degular dudes mess over good women and cheat on them just like other dudes.

The typical bullshyt marriage package that a lot of dudes wanna pitch (I.e. he makes the rules, but split the bills 50/50, while u do all the domestic chores, and don’t complain about anything, even him disrespecting you by cheating on you, while also expecting unwavering loyalty) is a no-go. The only reason women did that shyt was a result of centuries of forced arranged marriages, brainwashing, shaming, and lack of economic options.

Women want long-term companionship but they not willing to sacrifice autonomy, sexual satisfaction, attraction, love and happiness to get it. Anymore.

Marriage has been de-incentivized for women. Offering dikk and HOH babble and shaming tactics just ain’t enough to make a chick wanna chase a dude who makes her clit hide, to put up with him cheating on her and basically be his roommate. AND deal with wack strokes. FOEHVA!
:mjlol:
Birth control wasn’t the harbinger of this shyt. Increased educational and economic opportunities for women was. If chicks can do better they will do better, whether it’s with a dude or not.:yeshrug:

That all sounds great, in theory.

But, what’s your over/under on the number of whiny articles written by women over the next few years about lack of men marrying them?
 

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Men complaining about most women lacking quality as if most of them aren’t 99.9% aint shyt themselves.

For a good woman, marriage is a liability b/c even if she was dumb enuff to follow up bro babble and choose up on the ugliest, lamest, clit shriveling dude she could find regardless of compatibility or genuine attraction...even those dudes wanna play games and fancy themselves “playas”.

Plenty of regular degular dudes mess over good women and cheat on them just like other dudes.

The typical bullshyt marriage package that a lot of dudes wanna pitch (I.e. he makes the rules, but split the bills 50/50, while u do all the domestic chores, and don’t complain about anything, even him disrespecting you by cheating on you, while also expecting unwavering loyalty) is a no-go. The only reason women did that shyt was a result of centuries of forced arranged marriages, brainwashing, shaming, and lack of economic options.

Women want long-term companionship but they not willing to sacrifice autonomy, sexual satisfaction, attraction, love and happiness to get it. Anymore.

Marriage has been de-incentivized for women. Offering dikk and HOH babble and shaming tactics just ain’t enough to make a chick wanna chase a dude who makes her clit hide, to put up with him cheating on her and basically be his roommate. AND deal with wack strokes. FOEHVA!
:mjlol:
Birth control wasn’t the harbinger of this shyt. Increased educational and economic opportunities for women was. If chicks can do better they will do better, whether it’s with a dude or not.:yeshrug:
These chicks really insane:dahell:
 

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Of course. Women are naturally selfish. They want resources from men, but don’t want to share the resources they accumulate.

Deprive those Feminists from marriage and children, and then they see how much their career under a scumbag boss brings them peace of mind. Let those selfish women become sterile and end their bloodlines over superficial resources.
 
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