Stop dating toxically feminine women. I love my sisters, but I guarantee you black men who PAWG or PAAG aren’t going through this bullshyt.
They are. They just handle it differently.
So my co-workers husband is a city cop. He gets drunk and kicks down doors, punches holes in the wall and shyt yadda yadda. So one night she calls into work crying "he's out of control! I don't know what to do!" She's locked herself in the bathroom, he's acting a fool. Co-worker calls 911. Now the sheriffs come out cause they live where the sheriffs have jurisdiction, rather than the city where essentially his co-workers would come. This dumb ass city cop, literally starts fist fighting 4 deputies. They needless to say whooped his ass, broke his nose, shattered his orbital. Dude is in the newspaper, on the news. Gets suspended from work (with pay of course). She doesn't press charges. Something backdoor/under the table happened between the city and county police. He went back to work, yadda yadda yadda.
But it's funny because of all the "just comply" "support blue" shyt then you have cops fighting each other......
But yeah, these are white college educated well off financially people.
And yes she's still with him, yes he's still a cop.......just sad all around.