Look, I get it. Claire Huxtable grade women aren’t abundantly available in the hood. But, that’s by design, the reasons for which taking us on a detour to another conversation. Still, black men need to be more thoughtful about who they’re fukking with. A lot of our women have been groomed by social media, molded into socially engineered InstaThots with ratchet tendencies. The weaves, the nails, the makeup - costumes that too many of our women wear, which they then pair with a ratchet attitude. And, a lot of our black boys and men have been conditioned to find this type of black female attractive.
Again, I am not condoning PAWGing. But, we can’t ignore the fact that a lot of sensible brehs feel they have no choice but to seek companionship outside of the black community because of this toxicity that is becoming the norm.