Man you rarely hear a woman speak common sense on this issue unless sheās roasting a particular Black woman.Not all women, but you are right that there are women/households like that.
The dynamic would be different if there was a father in the house running the show.
Iāve said it before, the men in my family run shyt.
But they are also men who actually run shyt outside the home as well, which means they call the shots and ultimately make the final decisions. I can imagine it would be different if we didnāt grow up with productive men in our households who were there when we went to bed and woke up