Let's talk about Orgasms, how do you reach your peak?

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If ya'll know what good for you, do not ever allow anyone to take your soul while giving you pleasure. They are like wolves, they will wait till you as vulnerable as you ever are, they will seep into your skin, travel through your blood stream, permeate into your flesh. They will soak into your heart and reach deep, deep inside you till your soul is in their grasp. Then thill devour it, it'll leave your body and belong to them.
Do not, i repeat do not let it happen. If you know whats good for you that is:mjcry:

:steviej:There are few things on earth that give a man a bigger ego stroke than that. That shyt is the best. That shyt doesnt happen all the time but I live for moments like that.
There is thread in JBO with a video that sums that situation up perfectly. I'm sure one of the brehs on here can find it. It was a homemade video of a Black dude smashing on this Latina.Towards the end
she had a mean orgasm, she started off shaking just a little. Then the violent shakes came. Then she even started doing the fish out of water move. That shyt that you women do when you're laying down on your back and jerk/jump off the bed with your hips. When she started doing that dude just pulled out and was standing there watching her. After she finished she got up and was like "god dammit...fukk....fukk...I hate you...I hate you..."
And you could tell she knew she fukked up. It looked it was probably they first time smashing and what started off as a casual fukk session was going to end up with this chick wrapped around this cats pinky finger. I even made comment in the thread that after beating it up like that. that nikka could go fukk her credit tomorrow if he wanted to. She wont be able to get him out of her head even if she wanted to.

Nothing better than going at one of them good girls or them cocky females who think they cant get touched like that and breaking them down little by little, talking cash shyt about how it will play out. The whole time she like "yeah whateva nikka. :shaq2:." Then when you do get in the panties and she sees that its not a game. :lawd:

The next day you sitting back like :win: while she at work sitting at her desk and her panties wet because she cant get the night before out of her mind.
 

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@Milk N Cookies @ChocolateQueen

You're going to have to switch it up. Every time your orgasm, your brain creates a neurological connections in your brain that associates the actions, visions, sounds, ect to the fact that it provided an orgasm.

Basically its like your brain is jotting down notes on what is NEEDED in order to get an orgasm. So the more you orgasm using a particular method, the more you will NEED to do the same thing inorder to get another orgasm. (It's like when drug addicts can't get high anymore, they do the drugs just to get them from low to normal.)

I say all this to say, that if you want to get an orgasm without using your vibrator, you may have to lay off the vibrator for a while and pleasure your self a different way. Otherwise you will ruin your self from gaining pleasure from other methods.

1:00 mark (Video is about porn but the science behind the dopamine release from orgasm applies to masturbation too.)
 
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@Milk N Cookies @ChocolateQueen

You're going to have to switch it up. Every time your orgasm, your brain creates a neurological connections in your brain that associates the actions, visions, sounds, ect to the fact that it provided an orgasm.

Basically its like your brain is jotting down notes on what is NEEDED in order to get an orgasm. So the more you orgasm using a particular method, the more you will NEED to do the same thing inorder to get an orgasm. (It's like when drug addicts can't get high anymore, they do the drugs just to get them from low to normal.)

I say all this to say, that if you want to get an orgasm without using your vibrator, you may have to lay off the vibrator for a while and pleasure your self a different way. Otherwise you will ruin your self from gaining pleasure from other methods.

1:00 mark (Video is about porn but the science behind the dopamine release from orgasm applies to masturbation too.)

Thanks, but I've switched it up lately. I've vetured into to some nasty videos on various sites (you kno cause these vid sites mainly share the same shyt) and damn.... And also listening to 90s R&B like those songs are like really nasty. I was just listen to Silk thinking if I were sitting next to an attractive guy I'd prolly be getting it right now. You're very right about how the same thing becomes non-arrousing after so many times. Switch up the flicks fellas. I know y'all still have your selection of videos from the uncut days.

Oh and as far as the vibrator, I haven't used one in a few months. Thinking about getting rid of them. It did come a point when I basically broke my kat cause I was only able to get off using battery operated helpers.
 

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I've never had an orgasm through intercourse and I know it's sheer anxiety that stops me. Not to mention I'm not super experienced. I need to find a guy I'm comfortable having sex with and I know I will be able to. Just have to give it some time.
 

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I've never had an orgasm through intercourse and I know it's sheer anxiety that stops me. Not to mention I'm not super experienced. I need to find a guy I'm comfortable having sex with and I know I will be able to. Just have to give it some time.
I can second this...
 

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[QUOTE="Rawtid, post: 17400587, member: 4433"]I've never had an orgasm through intercourse and I know it's sheer anxiety that stops me. Not to mention I'm not super experienced. I need to find a guy I'm comfortable having sex with and I know I will be able to. Just have to give it some time.[/QUOTE]

I can only get an orgasm THROUGH penetration. Oral may be good and all but I never got off on it. I was told those are rare cases.. I'm kind of jealous of the females that can get off on just tongue action alone.
 

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[QUOTE="Rawtid, post: 17400587, member: 4433"]I've never had an orgasm through intercourse and I know it's sheer anxiety that stops me. Not to mention I'm not super experienced. I need to find a guy I'm comfortable having sex with and I know I will be able to. Just have to give it some time.

I can only get an orgasm THROUGH penetration. Oral may be good and all but I never got off on it. I was told those are rare cases.. I'm kind of jealous of the females that can get off on just tongue action alone.[/QUOTE]
U never had a nikka with a stiff tongue that let you abuse his face ? :lupe:
 

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[/QUOTE]
U never had a nikka with a stiff tongue that let you abuse his face ? :lupe:[/QUOTE]

My man gets the job done. It's just I can't cum from just oral. Penetration is a must.
 

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U never had a nikka with a stiff tongue that let you abuse his face ? :lupe:[/QUOTE]

My man gets the job done. It's just I can't cum from just oral. Penetration is a must.[/QUOTE]
You definitely are special in that regard. Most women seem to need the tongue, while penetration is the bonus.
 
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