You makin some good points man but some folks won't listen.....personally I'm conflicted.
I have a cousin that I heard was a bad kid growing up and got into fights and had a bad attitude,but that sounds like how I've been described as a kid
....difference is my auntee had money and took my cuz to a doctor and he has been taking pills for probaly 30 yrs...and he does have flare ups when he doesn't take his pills,but who's to say he's not just a bad kid who never learned how to not be a bad kid bcuz he been takin happy pills this whole time
...my cousin is now permantly trapped with a childs mind overall.
Also got a family member with a overactive thyroid I think its called?she was told she could take pills to keep her emotions in check or just try to not eat breads and certain kinda foods for good results bcuz the wrong foods would throw her emotions outta wack....she chose to reject the pills and has said she's been fine...she was having anxiety attacks,black outs,rages,and depressions.
But is that just saying its something in the foods that's causing the increase in these numbers of people suffering mentally?or is it the prescription happy phsycologist?
Tough call for me,cuz I blame the state of my older cousin on the pills he was given back then....but who's to say if he really did need it or if it was even food dating back then too?
But I think its safe to say crazy is real,and as many times as I've been on public transportation back in the day and seen people yellin shyt out,I can't be told its all that rare
but "shyness",I will say it doesn't matter if back in the day people didn't look at shy people as weird or crazy....its how shy people would've felt about theyself,and I'm sure many were feeling left out and miserable regardless of if that author u posted wanted to use an example where his mother was perfectly happy bein shy or not.
...not everybody is.
BUT I do think its just about fact that shyness can happen when something tramatic happens,or if your not sure of yourself as a persn and are insecure...people who are introverted often admit this but are cool with it and don't feel unhappy...others are unhappy about it....shyness is a defense mechanism,not talking to people,locking yourself away in the house and avoiding interactions is something you do when possible to avoid being tramatized again....and u probaly don't even realize it conciously.
But is that an illness?or sumthing u can overcome if you are aware that your acting shy as a defense mechanism,and then fight through it?and force yourself to talk to people and go out in uncomfortable situations over an extended period of time?...I think doctors and people need to be real careful when prescribing or taking medication for that kinda illness....I think alotta people just need to man up....and that sounds inconsiderate bcuz they think "I can't do it I've tried but i panic"...well did u keep trying until MAYBE you stopped panickin....if u run 3 blocks and never cross the threshhold u won't be able to run 4 blocks