Let's have a nuanced discussion: Do passport bros have a point or are most American women great and PB's are just a bunch of lames

[AnonymityX1000]

Who said that? Facts over feelings, friend.

That fact means what in this discussion?

 

[Belize King]

@Noriega
What do you think?

It’s tough. I been married for seven years come July. My wife is a black Miami woman. Smart and feminine. We have two beautiful black daughters.

I never thought I would have gotten married in my 30’s. I didn’t really consider marrying an American woman. I thought I would have married a Belizean.

The difference between black American women and SA, CA or Caribbean women is there isn’t really one. There are feminine American women. They are just used to doing it for themselves. A man isn’t needed.

Women every where else on this side of the world wants and needs a man. It’s beautiful and refreshing. They make a ninja feel good. Our FBA sistas a lot of the time don’t give us that feeling.

The sexist thing a woman can do is be feminine and receptive. I understand why our FBA sistas carry themselves the way they do. I get why the walls are up. We live in a shytty world and a lot of it is due to us men.

Still, walking around in Panama or Colombia seeing baddies who actually enjoy being approached is an amazing.

 

[mag357]

Y'all funny lol

Man the people in general are just different outside of America.

They are in better shape and have better attitudes...
It's crazy how I have to check my American, aggressive attitude before I leave the country because you'll end up making a problem with some people who aren't even on that type of time.
They're are more laid back.

Every time I'm back in the States, the sh*t is depressing lol.

The women are not as attractive for the most part physically and not as attractive with their personality and attitude, compared to those I'm other countries.

I don't even get down with whatever this "passport bro" crap is... That's some stupid nikka mess, that nikkaz who just started traveling came up with.
And I also have enough women in the States to eat well.

So it's Literally just simply the people are better

 

[Belize King]

Y'all funny lol

Man the people in general are just different outside of America.

They are in better shape and have better attitudes...
It's crazy how I have to check my American, aggressive attitude before I leave the country because you'll end up making a problem with some people who aren't even on that type of time.
They're are more laid back.

Every time I'm back in the States, the sh*t is depressing lol.

The women are not as attractive for the most part physically and not as attractive with their personality and attitude, compared to those I'm other countries.

I don't even get down with whatever this "passport bro" crap is... That's some stupid nikka mess, that nikkaz who just started traveling came up with.
And I also have enough women in the States to eat well.

So it's Literally just simply the people are better

I work in Japan now and spent three months in BKK. Asian woman are just different. Refreshing. But the people overall are more for their community. That’s the got you got you. The people are overall are chill.

Plus them Japanese women know how to dress with their flat backs.

 

[O.Red]

Is it that they can't get women or that they can't get "quality women" . Their argument is quality women are in extremely short supply in America

Yea but these nikkas ain't traveling to get "quality women"

They're traveling to fukk hoes on a discount

 

[MajesticLion]

Defeatist babble.

 

[Jalether]

A little column A, a little Column B.

Social media really warped women (and men)'s heads over expectations vs reality. We also live in a world where people rather run to socials rather than talk it out with the person they're with. There's a fukking thread about some chick who couldn't understand a text so she put it on social media instead of just asking the dude. People in general are less friendly, so I can see and have had some frustrations myself with how people act.

With that said, flying to another country just for p*ssy is fukking weird. They want to talk about how they're not spending as much, but nikka, you bought a whole ticket for a chick, paid for a hotel, and took her out to dinner. It might cost less, but I highly doubt they're not spending the same amount. nikkas are basically flying to DR (AYYY!) for escorts. shyt is sad, lmfaooo.

One of the negative impact of technology. it's both a blessing and a curse

 

[Jalether]

@Noriega
What do you think?

It’s tough. I been married for seven years come July. My wife is a black Miami woman. Smart and feminine. We have two beautiful black daughters.

I never thought I would have gotten married in my 30’s. I didn’t really consider marrying an American woman. I thought I would have married a Belizean.

The difference between black American women and SA, CA or Caribbean women is there isn’t really one. There are feminine American women. They are just used to doing it for themselves. A man isn’t needed.

Women every where else on this side of the world wants and needs a man. It’s beautiful and refreshing. They make a ninja feel good. Our FBA sistas a lot of the time doesn’t give us that feeling.

The sexist thing a woman can do is be feminine and receptive. I understand why our FBA sistas carry themselves the way they do. I get why the walls are up. We live in a shytty world and a lot of it is due to us men.

Still walking around in Panama or Colombia seeing baddies who actually enjoy being approached is an amazing.

What do you attribute this to, is it feminism,culture or something else

 

[Wiseborn]

I will state my own take on this and leave the floor to coli brehs

Majority of black American women do not respect black men on a fundamental level, there are many reasons for this such as low income,high incarceration rate
poor literacy rate,c00ning (goes both ways btw)

Black women also weaponise child support to punish black men and keep them from seeing their own children then complain disingenuously that black men don't want to handle
their responsibility and be in their kids life (now some black men are guilty of this ofcourse but what percentage are is up for discussion)

For the average black women to treat a black man with respect, He has to go above and beyond to earn it whereas it is given to white men freely, A lot of black men see this
and are rebelling, the result of this rebellion is what is fueling the passport bro movement. "why do I have to put up with this"

On the other side of the coin, passport bros that go oversees to buy p*ssy are lame AF, why spend all that money and travel thousands of miles around the world just to seek prostitution. That shows that the reason those kind of breh give for becoming a passport bros is bogus, you can buy p*ssy in America as well

However those with genuine intentions to find love abroad I have zero issues with and perhaps they shouldn't be put under the same umbrella as "passport bros"

Well for one we had these nuanced conversations for years now
But I'm freezing in Bogotá at a restaurant with my ex chick.

I agree with the generalized disrespect of Black Men by everyone including Black women.

I'll even say that if you trick in Texas its a felony and its posted in the news. Whereas its legal here

 

[Jalether]

Y'all funny lol

Man the people in general are just different outside of America.

They are in better shape and have better attitudes...
It's crazy how I have to check my American, aggressive attitude before I leave the country because you'll end up making a problem with some people who aren't even on that type of time.
They're are more laid back.

Every time I'm back in the States, the sh*t is depressing lol.

The women are not as attractive for the most part physically and not as attractive with their personality and attitude, compared to those I'm other countries.

Which countries are you referring to.

I don't even get down with whatever this "passport bro" crap is... That's some stupid nikka mess, that nikkaz who just started traveling came up with.
And I also have enough women in the States to eat well.

So it's Literally just simply the people are better

How do you and others like you (well travelled brehs) feel about the lack of distinction people make between what you do and what passport bros do
Because most people just label any black breh travelling abroad as a passport bro now.

 

[Jalether]

Yea but these nikkas ain't traveling to get "quality women"

They're traveling to fukk hoes on a discount

Can't disagree with that

 

[Jalether]

Well for one we had these nuanced conversations for years now
But I'm freezing in Bogotá at a restaurant with my ex chick.

I agree with the generalized disrespect of Black Men by everyone including Black women.

I'll even say that if you trick in Texas its a felony and its posted in the news. Whereas its legal here

Why are you chilling woth your ex

 

[Wiseborn]

There is a legitimate problem with dating in the west. People on average have less friends than before social media , making it harder to meet women through social networks. Everything is much more expensive as well due to stagnant wages and inflation. Weirdly enough standards have also raised in that time (due to social media) , so being a young guy in your 20s having to deal with unrealistic expectations while barely making it is frustrating as hell. Today, women are very vocal about their frustrations with men, so it can feel like anything you do will be interpreted as predatory and leaving you open to social shaming and clowning

All of that being said the vast majority of passport bros I’ve seen are obvious lames and crybaby woman haters. Fat, high pitched voices, whiny, entitled, poor fashion sense, creepy, unintelligent and many other pejoratives. Dating abroad is one thing but going online to gloat and try to get back at ‘American Women’ is another. It’s a bunch of 30+ year old men trying to live out a wrinkly revenge of the nerds fantasy, extremely cringeworthy. I also despise how alot of black passport bros put foreign women on a pedestal. Breh’s who have been around Spanish people know how anti-black a lot of them are. So it makes me embarrassed and angry to see lame black men beast them. Loser shyt all around

Thinking that anyone would or should give a fukk about what a random got going on overseas is. peak weirdo behavior.

But what the travel trick bums don't tell you is that its low key hard dealing with people from different cultures they show "dimes". But they don't show the hours of sitting through caso cerrado (an American Spanish court show) and the corny telenovelas that they love down here
Life is about tradeoffs and its good to show Black Men options but fukk anyone telling Black. Men what to do
I think Black Men should travel if they want to and if they don't want to that's fine too..

Again I really like living overseas but nothing beats being in your own land.

The worst thing about being Black in America is that some random Swede from Sweden is treated with more respect that an FBA Man but other than that I still prefer my own country

 

[OperationNumbNutts]

Passport bros have a point for one simple reason: women are thinner overseas. All that other stuff about American attitudes etc are ancillary points. If the average weight in America was closer to 80's levels everything else would work itself out. And I'm not a passport bro I do fine stateside.

I really hope you are not talking about women size and walking around with a one pack ab.

 

[OperationNumbNutts]

I find it interesting that people still don't get it. Propaganda has given brehs justification to trash their own women while buying women in other countries. Propaganda is also what happen to women to make them what they are. Meanwhile cacs being passport bros for decades prior to brehs. Let's not forget about the old stories of Russian mail order brides. Black folks have to stand on top of the mountain and say look at me not realizing its foolishness. Just like most black issues, nonblacks are monetizing on the issue.