Let's get deep in it: Love

[CinnaSlim]

This is why I don't feel like I'm in love in my current relationship. I'm so focused on trying to heal my boyfriend that I can't bring myself to let him heal himself and in effect truly love him. I do however feel like I'm falling in love.

I've been there lol. You have too be careful because of you do everything. He might start taking you for granted.

You can lead a horse to water but you can't make him drink. So you can give him the info he needs to grow but ultimately it's his choice to act on it.

 

[CinnaSlim]

Bu..but...coli women said that they only want me for my money and a Visa

Lies, they want you for your eyebrows, body, personality and island lifestyle.

 

[MoonGoddess]

Damn
I need to read more from this person. Im gonna look him up when i get home later.

 

[iBrowse]

Damn
I need to read more from this person. Im gonna look him up when i get home later.

Thanks but I don't have any written work

Lies, they want you for your eyebrows, body, personality and island lifestyle.

 

[Marlostanfield.]

A woman who truly loves you will do anything for you. She kill for you. Anything

 

[MoonGoddess]

A woman who truly loves you will do anything for you. She kill for you. Anything

Anything.

 

[PeridotPuss]

A woman who truly loves you will do anything for you. She kill for you. Anything

Anything?

 

[Marlostanfield.]

Anything?

Yes, anything. That's why I can't fall in love. Love is really weakness. A person know you truly love them they will manipulate.

A person who truly loves you won't put you through a bunch of bullshyt and games. All they want is to see you happy and know they're making you happy.

A woman who truly loves you do a life sentence for a nikka. I seen this with my own eyes.

 

[JordanwiththeWiz]

True, Love is the single most important aspect beside food, air and water.
Being in love is a beautiful thing
Getting butterflies in your stomach when you around that person. Instead of watching football with your boys you caked up with wifey watching Lifetime movies.

Always finding something new and unique to complement your girl on.

Caring more about her beauty inside instead of outside.
I remember one time I had a girl who told she was hungry but she and her co-workers had too much to do to eat. She had a taste for Chipotle so I called Chipotle on short notice and had them cater to her job for a couple of racks.

I love making her feel free and like she forced to have sex with me everyday we can just cuddle and look at the moon while talking about our future some night.

Spoiler: Spoiler

 

[CinnaSlim]

Yes, anything. That's why I can't fall in love. Love is really weakness. A person know you truly love them they will manipulate.

A person who truly loves you won't put you through a bunch of bullshyt and games. All they want is to see you happy and know they're making you happy.

A woman who truly loves you do a life sentence for a nikka. I seen this with my own eyes.

Yeah, but that's why you have to also love yourself and love someone who loves you back.

You gotta have standards for yourself. And find someone who is like "nah babe, I don't want you going through that for me." Then you can make the choice for yourself. Ultimately, you would make the choice that best for the both of you or if you have kids, what's best for them.

 

[CinnaSlim]

Foreigner - 'I Want To Know What Love Is' [Offici…:

 

[PinotNoir]

Being in Love is terrifying because to be vulnerable in that way takes a lot. It really is you handing your heart to someone and trusting them not to screw it up but with life most people will experience that heartbreak at some point. Love is really a huge gamble and i'm scared out of my mind at times about experiencing it again. I'm hopeful one day it'll happen again.....

 

[Marlostanfield.]

Yeah, but that's why you have to also love yourself and love someone who loves you back.

You gotta have standards for yourself. And find someone who is like "nah babe, I don't want you going through that for me." Then you can make the choice for yourself. Ultimately, you would make the choice that best for the both of you or if you have kids, what's best for them.

I feel you but the person who loves less always control the situation. And you're right definitely gotta love yourself physically and mentally before anything but any wise person know you can't trust anyone, honestly, and it's sad to say.

But only way keep people from temptation is to keep them dependent on you for their happiness etc. People so insecure it's crazy. I know women right now who is jealou of their own Damn kids. What kind of shyt is that ?

Just honestly I can't do love thing. I be a fool to knowing the way life operates.

 

[CinnaSlim]

I feel you but the person who loves less always control the situation. And you're right definitely gotta love yourself physically and mentally before anything but any wise person know you can't trust anyone, honestly, and it's sad to say.

But only way keep people from temptation is to keep them dependent on you for their happiness etc. People so insecure it's crazy. I know women right now who is jealou of their own Damn kids. What kind of shyt is that ?

Just honestly I can't do love thing. I be a fool to knowing the way life operates.

I mean the only person I can control it's myself. So I tend not to rely on anyone else. People are nice to have around but if you want something done right you gotta do it yourself. People can help if they want but you should have a Plan B.

And you can't be afraid to let people go because some people only come in your life to teach a lesson once they've finished there's no need to hold on to them anymore. You can't make people do something they don't want to. Ultimately, it's their choice.

 

[Spatial Paradox]

I'm conflicted on this topic and a lot of dope posts have already been made, so I'm not sure I've anything worthwhile to add

So to love someone you have to be in deep connection with yourself? That means I should stay single because I'm still in the process of soul searching.

I can see where you're coming from. My cousin asked me recently if I was looking to date anyone and I bluntly told him no, partly for this reason. I keep asking myself what am I bringing into a relationship with whatever woman I deal with in the future (and not necessarily from just a tangible perspective either)? And to be honest, I don't have a clear answer. I do know I don't want to be a mental burden to anyone, intentionally or unintentionally. The thought of being that to someone bothers me.

Plus, people aren't really interested in others who are swamped in personal issues and might give off the impression that they'll cling to them solely for being a bright spot in an otherwise dreary life. I think a few posters in this thread have alluded to this or similar thoughts


All that said, I think it's more about not getting into a relationship because you think the key to your happiness, to conquering your demons, is solely in this other person.