Let's get deep in it: Love

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What this even have to do with the thread? Why you acting like a fukkboy?
Just kidding but seriously this topic belongs in the salon. It feels gay as f fukk
 

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Is this a really drawn out way of saying that you should be happy with yourself first and foremost?
Can't love anyone else if you do not truly love thyself.

There is but one being on Earth, you, and infinite other reflections of self. The UNIverse.

The basis of the excerpt is that many attempt to fill feelings of lack and need with exterior beings/objects rather than finding peace in themselves.
 

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So to love someone you have to be in deep connection with yourself? That means I should stay single because I'm still in the process of soul searching.
 

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Stay miserable.
Man that OP basically pointed at the fact that miserable maladjusted people always tend to prop up other basic human beings into being imaginary paragons for whatever quality they aspire to have around...when the reality of the matter is that you don't enter into relationships to be fixed...its no one's responsibility other than your own.

On to ego now...vulnerability is the most basic part of entering into something serious with a person...its why nikkas and women become bitter because (for those of us that aren't around bitter and influential people) the vast majority of us enter into relationships with a very ignorant naivety that has a tendency of molding our general worldview moving forward. I am not throwing shade on OP but shyt is kinda obvious and long winded at speaking to that...how can you expect someone else to love you if you can't love and be content with yourself?

Idk what the end is trying to say about deeper/true love being short-lived..rare is understandable...but i don't know how that kind of love can simultaneously be short-lived...it seems like an oxymoron.
 
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This is exactly what I've been talking about. Why I get exhausted hearing people say how they like me. (No brag intended)

I don't believe them. I'm anyways smiling, I'm a great listener, I'm not bad to look at, I like caring for people, and people like to be cared for. Of course, if someone makes you feel good, you'd enjoy being with them. But that isn't love or what makes a relationship. True love is serving, caring for others, commitment. In a healthy relationship it should be mutual.

Most of the time people just want me to make them feel good but I don't get much out of it. I don't get what I need. So I'm waiting for the one who cares for me.

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chii! take this rep :ohlawd:
 
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