Lets be real here. Can black men afford to be "goofy" and "vulnerable" around black women? Are pawgs built for the cornball brothas?

Vandelay

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So you just gotta wait for them girls to get ran thru by thugs for the first quarter of your existence then pick up the leftovers when they are washed :ohhh:

Gotcha :patrice:

Contrary to popular belief, not everyone is ran thru by thugs...


























They're run thru by athletes and businessmen too... :russ:
 

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So you just gotta wait for them girls to get ran thru by thugs for the first quarter of your existence then pick up the leftovers when they are washed :ohhh:

Gotcha :patrice:
Nah, but real talk...this is a sad worldview. The world is not this black and white.

I'm agnostic, but God bless good brother.
 

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True, it's still like a needle in a haystack, especially if you're unwilling to overlook things like embracing feminism on any level and/or having a liberal mindset.

Feminists and liberal mindsets don't hang in certian groups/areas. Depending on where I am i my city will determine what type of women I'll come across. A lot of men don't have this option.
 

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If you want a Black baddie, and you a square nikka you got a lifetime ahead of you, of banging your head against a brick wall and frustration.

All the baddies just gonna say they didn’t catch a “vibe” with you after you already break bread on dates.

Square nikkas gotta eat with the 4’s and below if you deadset on a Black woman.

You a square nikka and want to shoot at that 7-8 and above range—date out.

It is what it is :manny:

This is a fact.

They want squares to be stepdad or deal with linebacker Keisha.

Any position past athlete or entertainment is confusing & not as lit to brag about at brunch.

Then if you didn’t go to an HBCU forget it lol.

If you went to an IVY, you’re too uppity

You don’t like City girls? Or Lil Baby? NOPE

:mjlol:

Finding the like-minded middle group is tough.
 
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It's bigger than being a square or non-thug with a lot of bruhs on this site...

Many are just socially awkward and don't know how to approach or attract women of any kind.

I see Black women with all types of men from the fat bruhs, in shape bruhs, six figures, five figures, short, tall, corny, popular, nerdy, thugish, square, even bruhs with no job, etc, and the list goes on. The whole Black women only want thugs/etc is their excuse to cover up their failure as a man to gain a woman's interest.

Nikkas on this site probably never had a girlfriend (not just a girl to fuk but an actual girlfriend on the lovey dovey type of time) during their middle school and highschool years which is vital for every young boy growing up in terms of getting a taste of being in a relationship is like.

Not even on some simp shyt but the women ain't the problem it's these dudes for whatever reason it is keeping them in the dark from finding love.

It's a psychological issue.
 

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This is a fact.

They want squares to be stepdad or deal with linebacker Keisha.

Any position past athlete or entertainment is confusing & not as lit to brag about at brunch.

Then if you didn’t go to an HBCU forget it lol.

If you went to an IVY, you’re too uppity

You don’t like City girls? Or Lil Baby? NOPE

:mjlol:

Finding the like-minded middle group is tough.

Those broads are not even dating material. They jump off. No sensible man would wife an extroverted judgmental thot
 
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