Lets be real here. Can black men afford to be "goofy" and "vulnerable" around black women? Are pawgs built for the cornball brothas?

[Ohene]

We already know the answer. But you know the hoteps and militants going to come In with thier cape on

unfortunately

ive never dated a white woman....but I've noticed in my neighborhood that most black dudes be with white or asian women and at this point i dont blame them

dealing with black women can be exhausting

 

[Vandelay]

Maybe when you're a teenager, early 20s...25 and older black women by and large ain't on that, you need to fit a persona shyt. The thug shyt dies off after a certain age. They still do want the 6's, but as long as you aren't a total social pariah, you'll be fine with the average black woman. These brothas just chose white. And ain't nothing wrong with that if it's sincere.

I'm a goofy-ass nikka myself, but I started to eat with women by 25, because they stopped caring about that thug shyt. And I'm from one of the most hood hoods in the country lol...

 

[FukyourFort]

Just as long as we give women this same energy when their on their daily incel babble then cool

The inconsistencies

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

I don't know why its so hard for people to grasp that the kind of women you want will be found at the kinds of locations where you congregate around something you like.

If you like to get silly, you go to an improv night and you'll find black women there laughing along at the same things.

If you like to get philosophical, you'll find the black women who will do that with you at TED talks and other speaking events.

If you like astronomy, and want to kick it with women who will throw out theories about sci fi and faster than light travel, you'll see them at planetariums and sci fi conventions.

Black women aren't a monolith. So many of you so called 'brehs' seem to think that most black women are like the ones you see on social media chasing clout. Free your mind.

 

[Doobie Doo]

That picture of her looking through the binoculars

Dude a grade A troll

THe ones where she's asleep



It's corny but I chuckled a few times

Spoiler: But still...

 

[King Poetic]

It has nothing to with black or white

It’s about the individuals

 

[Finesse]

Maybe when you're a teenager, early 20s...25 and older black women by and large ain't on that, you need to fit a persona shyt. The thug shyt dies off after a certain age. They still do want the 6's, but as long as you aren't a total social pariah, you'll be fine with the average black woman. These brothas just chose white. And ain't nothing wrong with that if it's sincere.

I'm a goofy-ass nikka myself, but I started to eat with women by 25, because they stopped caring about that thug shyt. And I'm from one of the most hood hoods in the country lol...

So you just gotta wait for them girls to get ran thru by thugs for the first quarter of your existence then pick up the leftovers when they are washed

Gotcha

 

[Peachstate]

And got the women in here whining as well.

Because it's annoying being brought into this conversation. Date who you want but leave us out of it. It's pretty simple.

 

[Originalman]

What's with all these ir threads today ?

Jokers trying to go plat like they life depends on it...

 

[Wildhundreds]

Well, most of these women are gutter.

Its a noticeable amount. But there are some respectful ones in the midst if you socialize with the right crowds.

 

[number21]

Because it's annoying being brought into this conversation. Date who you want but leave us out of it. It's pretty simple.

Do you have a man? If so, why do you care about what random men want in dating?

If not, you should get to work.

 

[number21]

Its a noticeable amount. But there are some respectful ones in the midst if you socialize with the right crowds.

True, it's still like a needle in a haystack, especially if you're unwilling to overlook things like embracing feminism on any level and/or having a liberal mindset.

 

[Wild self]

If you want a Black baddie, and you a square nikka you got a lifetime ahead of you, of banging your head against a brick wall and frustration.

All the baddies just gonna say they didn’t catch a “vibe” with you after you already break bread on dates.

Square nikkas gotta eat with the 4’s and below if you deadset on a Black woman.

You a square nikka and want to shoot at that 7-8 and above range—date out.

It is what it is

Just be a Tupac in a Business suit and cause havoc to the black community to get azz.

I ain't no nerd looking breh, just that being some caricature of some 90s superthug is exhausting after a certain age.

 

[Peachstate]

Do you have a man? If so, why do you care about what random men want in dating?

If not, you should get to work.

Been married close to 20 years. Do you have a woman, or do you spend all your time complaining online?

 

[Ahadi]

They want black men who are in the fields, not the black men who are in the house.



Field (streets, trenches, etc) = more real
House (good upbringing, burbs, corporate, etc) = “you want to be closer to cacs” / didn’t feel a “vibe”