Lets be real here. Can black men afford to be "goofy" and "vulnerable" around black women? Are pawgs built for the cornball brothas?

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What's with all these ir threads today ?:what:

Looks like a lot of brehs are finally coming around to the idea of joining...




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Threads like these let's you know which brehs are broke, ugly, or both :to:
These nikkas ain't never had a childhood crush, probably never held hands or cupcaked on the phone before. Never smacked they girls ass in JcPenny and run around the store giggling and shyt.

A lifetime of hating life and crying to instagram thots that don't talk back.

Truly sad :francis:
 

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This is a fact.

They want squares to be stepdad or deal with linebacker Keisha.

Any position past athlete or entertainment is confusing & not as lit to brag about at brunch.

Then if you didn’t go to an HBCU forget it lol.

If you went to an IVY, you’re too uppity

You don’t like City girls? Or Lil Baby? NOPE

:mjlol:

Finding the like-minded middle group is tough.
What kind of women are you encountering?! No decent woman would EVER mention City Girls even if they were their favorite act lmao
 

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If Nicki is the kind of woman you want, then you are chasing a stereotype of Black women.

So you are downing BW for wanting the male version of what YOU want.

Its not about if I want Nicki or not. Its about the fact that Nicki. A woman who is at the top of her socio economic class.

Legit went to the dregs of society to pick THAT nikka to procreate with.

All because he is a "real nikka" :wow:

shyt crazy aint it?

Even crazy ass Brittney wouldnt pick a rapist for her damn baby father :comeon:
 

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No!

If you’re talking about women who are entrenched in hood, club, etc culture, you have a point.

Why is it y’all only focus on the attractive BW who are the equivalent of the male stereotypes?

I’ve never dated outside my race or anyone who was a “thug”/stereotype, and most brehs who I’ve dated/approached me were flush or came from well-to-do families.

It’s like y’all skip over the mild-mannered cuties in the burbs 🤷🏾‍♀️
Y’all want the fun girls just like everyone else, but don’t realize what comes with the fun girls 🤷🏾‍♀️
“If you’re talking about women who are entrenched in hood, club, etc culture, you have a point.
Why is it y’all only focus on the attractive BW who are the equivalent of the male stereotypes?”

- Because a lot of these men are stuck in the rejection and pain of unrequited love/attention.. from their former years.. late adolescent/young adult. They still operate and function from a place of bitterness/vitriol cause it was their neighborhood crush/classmate/cute pretty girl that chose the ‘cool/dangerous’ athlete, shooter or musician that was filled with charm/wit. Mfs holding on to that shyt from 10-20 years ago and that’s the only lens they view women from.. it’s some sad shyt.. it’s either that or these posters are really ‘others’ who’s only knowledge of block women and their desires are female hiphop culture/social media. It’s a damn shame how broken some of them are
 

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On some real shyt, a lot of black women don’t know how to recognize a good, financially well off black man…or they don’t know how to deal with them. And/or because they’ve messed with street dudes, have wildly unrealistic expectations of them.

I have a friend who cleans up with women…all 6s. He’s an ex-D1 Linebacker, 6’4, making like $400K+ as a doctor…bearded, initimidating looking dude. Doesn’t look or act soft at all. Not an ugly dude (pause) and prob around 10% bf (pause) Hearing dudes dating stories with black women is demotivating as fukk though.

Breh has had 0 luck with black women despite dating them. He’s messing with black 8s but they’re rude & ungrateful as shyt. I’m talking simple things like not saying thank you after he treats them to meals, expecting him to live way beyond his means (dude drives a $100K car and they still want him to get a Rolls Royce & shyt wtf), saying they’re gonna hold out sex for months, generally just being a pain in the ass. He still ends up smashing because he's savvy enough to, but he ends up dating them for a really short period due to these issues when he actually wants to date for marriage at this point.

And these aren’t uneducated women, these are women making $100K+ themselves with grad degrees.

Meanwhile Beckies are beating down dudes door and making hour long drives to come see him. Offering sloppy top for his lunch breaks, everything. shyt is insane.

Me and my boys talked about it and we concluded a lot of these women just legitimately are disconnected from reality. Don’t save. Have no idea what being a provider vs. a consumer is, etc.

Some of that is on black men (their fathers) for not providing examples, but we’re fairly sure it’s also expectations set from dating fast money, illegitimate dudes.

The fact this high net worth guy is actively trying to wife up an attractive black woman & is struggling to do more than have sex with them is a red flag to me. We can act like there’s not an issue but if we’re real, there is.
 
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White men have the same conversations about their women. But replace "street nikkas" and "hood dudes" with "Chads"

They talk about how "delusional" White women are, how feminism rots their brains. And how square White men need to date out to be better appreciated. (Sound familiar yet?) Just like you lames put White woman on a pedestal they put Asian women on one.


So in other words...somebody's lying.


I'm not a street dude by any means but I had nothing but Black women in my life.

If you're a Black man...and you're capable of pulling women but not Black women ..it's because deep down inside you don't really want a BW. And yes, the same can be said for for the reverse.
 
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Why do y'all say pawg in peace when most bm don't pawg and it's more women out there

Like Rican and Dominican

And Tongan or south east Asian


Pawg only big in Midwest and south


Anyway I think some of these men can find a bw if they really want one

There bw who like them

But most are only centered on hood rat ig type

And she not interested in them

But pawging ain't it
 
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