On some real shyt, a lot of black women don’t know how to recognize a good, financially well off black man…or they don’t know how to deal with them. And/or because they’ve messed with street dudes, have wildly unrealistic expectations of them.
I have a friend who cleans up with women…all 6s. He’s an ex-D1 Linebacker, 6’4, making like $400K+ as a doctor…bearded, initimidating looking dude. Doesn’t look or act soft at all. Not an ugly dude (pause) and prob around 10% bf (pause) Hearing dudes dating stories with black women is demotivating as fukk though.
Breh has had 0 luck with black women despite dating them. He’s messing with black 8s but they’re rude & ungrateful as shyt. I’m talking simple things like not saying thank you after he treats them to meals, expecting him to live way beyond his means (dude drives a $100K car and they still want him to get a Rolls Royce & shyt wtf), saying they’re gonna hold out sex for months, generally just being a pain in the ass.
And these aren’t uneducated women, these are women making $100K+ themselves with grad degrees.
Meanwhile Beckies are beating down dudes door and making hour long drives to come see him. Offering sloppy top for his lunch breaks, everything. shyt is insane.
Me and my boys talked about it and we concluded a lot of these women just legitimately are disconnected from reality. Don’t save. Have no idea what being a provider vs. a consumer is, etc.
Some of that is on black men (their fathers) for not providing examples, but we’re fairly sure it’s also expectations set from dating fast money, illegitimate dudes.
The fact this high net worth guy is actively trying to wife up an attractive black woman & is struggling is a red flag to me. We can act like there’s not an issue but if we’re real, there is.
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