Lets be real here. Can black men afford to be "goofy" and "vulnerable" around black women? Are pawgs built for the cornball brothas?

[feelosofer]

Look if you're going to date out just date out. You don't have to shyt on Black women on the way out.

Making Black women sound like a fire breathing dragon that feasts on clout and versace.

 

[Houston911]

nikkas in this thread deflecting talking about its your looks and income


Then why the fukk is the nuclear psychist, arguably the most handsome and well off black man, the only black man in the OP getting curved

By what a surprise.......A BLACK WOMAN

One black woman curved him, a bunch came behind her and said “send him to me”

Do y’all keep this same c00n energy when one white woman falsely accuses a black man or rape? Do y’all assign that to EVERY white woman or do you keep pawging? Exactly

Good looking square black dudes who are not compete weirdos are not struggling with black women.

Funny looking papered up black men who are not complete weirdos are not struggling with black women

 

[datnigDASTARDLY]

nikkas in this thread deflecting talking about its your looks and income


Then why the fukk is the nuclear psychist, arguable the most handsome and well off black man, the only black man in the OP getting curved

By what a surprise.......A BLACK WOMAN

Because that nikka was lame

Goofy, funny, silly…those words don’t equal lame and boring. You can be all of those, and I'd argue to have a healthy relationship with anyone, you need those qualities.

Y’all trying to come up with cheat codes from what you lack to fill some other races quota . Gone and have your fun then, my goofy non dancing black ass will take all the black women yall try so hard not to want

 

[Finesse]

One black woman curved him, a bunch came behind her and said “send him to me”

Do y’all keep this same c00n energy when one white woman falsely accuses a black man or rape? Do y’all assign that to EVERY white woman or do you keep pawging? Exactly

Good looking square black dudes who are not compete weirdos are not struggling with black women.

Funny looking papered up black men who are not complete weirdos are not struggling with black women

The thing is.

Nuclear breh can easily bag the other two brehs chicks without changing a thing about himself. While we know them other two brehs cant even get a word in with the girl that curved the nuclear breh.

That right there is a imbalance and it is dishonest to ignore or simply write off that imbalance in our community.

 

[ShaneTheRogue]

The majority of black women under 35 would call the guys in op corny. Yall need to stop the cap

The difference is what's considered a "square" amongst white culture and "square" amongst black culture are two different things. As someone else in this thread said there are plenty of black men literally risking life or death or their freedom just so they aren't considered a "square" or "corny".

That's a not really an answer. Square is Square and corny is corny.

And those Black men risking life and limb to prove they're hard are doing that mostly to prove themselves to other men. Take from that what you will.

I had Black women with visible gang tattoos up 4am debating politics and discussing comicbook heroes.

People who have "trouble" dating their own race are flawed people. Flawed people who'd rather shyt on the entire opposite gender of their own race than take accountability for their B.S.

 

[Hoodoo Child]

Bro shut hell up lmao. I rolled my eyes when I saw your nut ass was the one that quoted me. I was hoping it was someone with their full mental faculties.

But I'll humor you tho.

1st of all "White woman don't like thugs" since when? What world do you live in where WW don't fukk with "bad boys" it's literally a stereotype of White women that they cheat on their provider White spouses. Ever heard of "desperate housewives" better yet fukk that you ain't never met a street nikka with a White baby moms?

"White women are light on the eyes" nikka what?

Are you suggesting that White women are less superficial when it comes to choosing partners? Wtf you base this off of other than your goofy ass fantasies?

And yes White men fetishize Asian women heavy their low population makes it worse because otherwise they'd meet enough AW to possibly not put them on that pedestal. East and South East Asia is a popular sex tourism and mail order bride destination for White men for a reason.

But you tried it tho lil homie. You even threw in some stock lines about BM and WM income disparity. Too bad you couldn't tie it together to make a point. See I wasn't gonna get personal in my reply to you on account of your obvious disabilities but you got a lil too comfy with that "telling on urself" remark.

You obvious ain't that damn slow if you gonna come for me like that. You sounded real confident breh. Need I remind you that a few short years ago you were on this very website telling anybody who'd listen about how Black women were inferior to Latina women and whatever that other race you were obsessed with was?

And prolly have the nerve to wonder why the female posters on this site ignore your thirsty ass when you tag them in random ass threads.

Then you got some E-friends on that ADOS tio and switched up to Marcel X. Even tho your previous c00n comments are still up for everyone to see. I'd give you props for not editing them but you prolly don't know how to work the edit button.

Now it appears you hopping on the manosphere nikkas dikk for acceptance.

Word of advice lil homie. Most the board liked you better when you were a humble simple nikka who made topics like "what's your fav color" and "how old will you be on your birthday" this critical thinking shyt ain't for you.

Just because you tricking off your 1st of the month check on White hoes that don't mean they better.

 

[Dre God]

The way that brehs on this site are constantly in denial of the state of the lion share of our women because they think that’s the “pro Black” thing to do



Oh man we are doomed doomed,
I’m out.

 

[Reality]

It’s just a bunch of generalizations and stereotypes from Brehs that sound like they either aren’t really dealing with bw or aren’t dealing with the right type of bw.

I know so many bw dating Brehs who didn’t go to an HBCU including myself. I know bw who went to the Ivys and are also married to Brehs who went to the ivys too. My sister went to Harvard and is an AKA and she has a very large network all over this damn country and I’m telling you most of these women are married or in relationships with equally yoked bm.

I know bw who did go to Hbcus dating Brehs who did and also Brehs who did not. I know Brehs who are fat and corny, who are with bw who are fat and corny. I know average looking Brehs with decent looking brehettes.

The Brehs who aren’t dating brehettes don’t want to for their own reasons. The ones who are dating the brehettes who are hood rats most likely aren’t in the right social circles which says a lot about them because you usually date within your network/circle.

And I even question if they’re dating or ever dated a bw. Some of them only have generalizations and stereotypes that sound so general. Nothing specific that relates to actual dating experiences and relationships.

I'll say this...my biggest fukk ups in terms of finding a black woman to settle down with was not doing it in college and not being in cities with larger black populations in my early 20s. Had I known it would look this bleak this side of 30, I would've made that more of a focus.

Attractive, nice attitude, slim black women get swiped up quick as fukk...as they should. My personal experience? What's left in your upper 20s and early 30s is really sub-par vs. other races. I'd say this is probably the reality faced by black women too.

And I say this as someone who's had multiple, positive relationships with black women I'd say are 7s and 8s. It didn't work out due to timing, life shyt, compatibility and all, but these are all solid women. I see some of them still single too, so this is where I think it's a numbers game. At some point they'll date out because it's tough to manage a demanding career AND be selective in terms of race in who you date. Especially when your career and proximity has you around mostly non-black people...

Adding to this..I mentioned this in other threads too...it's just hard as fukk to know what the next black person's values are because some of us are so fukked mentally in terms of consumerism and superficial shyt. And we don't have a super strong culture in terms of moral expectations, strong common understanding of what "being a man" is supposed to look like. Or even what being "black" is supposed to look like.

You've really gotta be intentional, which with age is easier to do but harder to do successfully.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

nikka said ima keep stalking you cuz you proved me wrong

I’m not understanding how in your mind as you’ve stated several times that the coli is full of the dregs of society yet you’re on here every day with the rest of us while racking up exponentially way more posts in a much quicker timespan.

Like, are you posting during Gatorade breaks between the superfluous amount of p*ssy you get or something cuz I don’t remember you having this “everyone on the coli is a loser but me” schtick, but it’s getting old fast.

I'm your conscience lil nikka. I'm the constant reminder that you being on the bottom is your own fault.

 

[ShaneTheRogue]

The way that brehs on this site are constantly in denial of the state of the lion share of our women because they think that’s the “pro Black” thing to do



Oh man we are doomed doomed,
I’m out.

Don't let the door hit you on the way out. Your opinion isn't a well thought out one at all.

Dudes on here always like to flex that the "majority of Black Men are married to Black women"

But by going by most of y'all logic itt none of those married Black men must be "square" smh.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

The way that brehs on this site are constantly in denial of the state of the lion share of our women because they think that’s the “pro Black” thing to do



Oh man we are doomed doomed,
I’m out.

You're not the first person to come on here and pretend that black women are the problem and all you gotta do is date out.

Chris b - pawg chasing cuckold, dikk rating, white twitter acct story (update Chris B request ban)

chris b - what we know: he likes pawgs. he's from the DC/DMV area. he's into IT specifically cisco networking. he used to be known as jab343irk IT History you remember jab343irk he changed skin tone back in those days he posted this pic from his own photobucket account - natturner343...

www.thecoli.com

Chris.B was doing the same thing you were doing for years. Black women ain't shyt, get a pawg, etc.

Come to find out he's a degenerate that's having sex with fat white women in front of their husbands and is online rating men's meat

I'm just waiting on you to eventually slip up and post your real social media info so the fun can begin

 

[Ɀoᥱɣ]

Good looking black woken date lame and corny black men too….those men are usually good looking or successful tho

We got a bunch of out of shape, poorly dressed, unattractive, average income dudes who insist that the reason black women don’t want them is cuz they’re not a thug

No nicca, you’re just not desirable to women with options. You belong with the chicks the dudes with options ignore

The bolded is literally the answer.

You can absolutely be "corny" assuming you mean like Carlton from Fresh prince and still get a attractive black woman but you usually have to be attractive yourself or as you said successful in some form.

And even then you need to have a personality that people want to be around, being mad/miserable all the time is a major turn off to any kind of girl and having no confidence as some of the posters in this topic exude can be a major turn off aswell, even if you are attractive and/or well-off.

As other posters have mentioned, this topic shows the posters who are broke/ugly/weird/creepy just by reading the responses and you can tell that they are still holding on to unresolved issues that need to be dealt with via therapy.

The ones who say that "all black women want thugs" probably want this type of girl:

Those types usually want guys similar to this:

And there's nothing wrong with that.

But don't expect to get those kind of girls if you look like this lmao:

in which case yes you are more than likely not gonna attract hood girls unless you are very attractive and/or don't mind being a trick lol

But if you have a similar style to this then you can get either type as long as you are attractive and have some type of personality:

, non-hood but still fashionable.

Yes there are outliers but you can still find plenty of black women who do not look like the 2 examples above that do not "only go for thugs" though y'all are probably overlooking them for obvious hood girls.

If you look like the nerd example or have a style similar to the 2nd guy you should try going for girls with a similar aesthetic to this:

These are based off relationships I have seen in person and people that I personally know btw, yes there are still non-hood girls who like hood guys but that's not all black women, I personally am not attracted to that type though I can admit that I used to when I was in HS but quickly grew out of it once I realized that they are not fit for long-term relationships or building with.

 

[Houston911]

The thing is.

Nuclear breh can easily bag the other two brehs chicks without changing a thing about himself. While we know them other two brehs cant even get a word in with the girl that curved the nuclear breh.

That right there is a imbalance and it is dishonest to ignore or simply write off that imbalance in our community.

What other 2 brehs are you referring to?

If it’s the dudes in the OP, why don’t you compare those white nerd women to comparable black nerd women?

 

[Weaver31]

It’s just a bunch of generalizations and stereotypes from Brehs that sound like they either aren’t really dealing with bw or aren’t dealing with the right type of bw.

I know so many bw dating Brehs who didn’t go to an HBCU including myself. I know bw who went to the Ivys and are also married to Brehs who went to the ivys too. My sister went to Harvard and is an AKA and she has a very large network all over this damn country and I’m telling you most of these women are married or in relationships with equally yoked bm.

I know bw who did go to Hbcus dating Brehs who did and also Brehs who did not. I know Brehs who are fat and corny, who are with bw who are fat and corny. I know average looking Brehs with decent looking brehettes.

The Brehs who aren’t dating brehettes don’t want to for their own reasons. The ones who are dating the brehettes who are hood rats most likely aren’t in the right social circles which says a lot about them because you usually date within your network/circle.

And I even question if they’re dating or ever dated a bw. Some of them only have stereotypes to fall back on that sound too general almost as if they don’t have actual dating experiences and relationships to talk about and use as examples.

I’m seeing Brehs talk about a YouTube breh being rejected as a basis for their own poor experiences—but they aren’t talking about their specific experiences for a reason.

Real shyt...one thing about being a black male or black female is that we deal with so many stereotypes and it's kinda unfair.

But I agree...why so many dudes still talking about rejected bruhs like that nuclear physicist dude on that pineapples show I dunno. There was a post on here where there was another mixed looking chick who is a virgin who said she wanted to get with him. U just gotta expand ur social network and circles and find ur lane. A lot of bruhs (people in general) need to improve their social and conversation skills and open their minds.

 

[Finesse]

What other 2 brehs are you referring to?

If it’s the dudes in the OP, why don’t you compare those white nerd women to comparable black nerd women?

See thats the problem right there.

You calling em girls white nerds when there is literally nothing in the OP that signals that they are nerds.

They are just regular white chicks. Especially the first one. A regular person = a square/nerd in the black community.