To say that the field doesn't open up for successful men around age 30 would be to completely deny reality. Women are attracted to men who are mature, have a decent career going, are well traveled, and won't make a jackass out of themselves partying at clubs/bars/etc. It's not rocket science here. Unless you're emotionally stunted, by age 30 you're going to be able to measure up to all of those things. Now with that said, when the field opens up for you, it's not going to open up in the same way that it would for a guy that was cleaning up with the ladies when he was in his early 20's. They're going to be after
commitment out of you because they see a guy like that as someone that can provide, be emotionally stable, etc. Unless I'm way off base here, I think there's a huge difference between girls just having fun in their early 20's and girls chasing after guys to get a commitment out of them. Something to consider. You might wind up with a few stage 5 clingers.
With all of
that said, you should be open to being happy with whoever may come along, because you never know who will surprise you. I know that personally, the women I've been most into have been women that didn't meet my normal list of preferences when it came to dating. I know that younger women on the whole are better looking because they haven't aged, but that might be more of a "just for fun" kind of thing. You might very well end up with a woman
your age because you can relate to each other better. Now hey, if you hit the holy jackpot of a woman who's both young
and very mature, more power to you. Just saying, be careful out there, protect your finances, and make sure that you can actually develop a meaningful connection with whoever you're with. Or if you're looking to pump and dump, to be chill about it.
For those of you denying reality...
http://www.smh.com.au/federal-polit...omen-lose-the-dating-game-20120421-1xdn0.html