I rest my case,I think you can see a very big difference in these two things,and that would be credibility. This ain't Cardi B or City Girls out here saying this. We are talking about accomplished business women,intellectuals,authors etc. Writing packaged think pieces with supposed stats. You can't compare that too Sauce Walka saying black women are more difficult to deal with when it comes to pimping,or a gang banging Chris Brown making his colorism comments,guys like Gilbert Arenas. Especially not when I've seen these guys get called out for that though many bm may have agreed or had likewise color struck "preferences". On the flipside these women are taken as credible,and because they aren't ingorant in their delivery they fly under the radar as sensible women to be taken seriously. Thus dont get an ounce of shame from black women,the same way these men do from black men. One is the equivelant to hillbilly KKK standing around a fire screaming random,cartoonish ridiculous hate about black people. The other is like the alt right,where you have seemingly educated white men delivering a message in a cleancut,thinly veiled racist package. The alt right types can always get their foot in on sounding reasonable,and convice people that they actually have "some good points". In doing so they have already planted a seed and laid a foundation.
Lanisha Cole:""More of our men/artists in the industry should be uplifting us WOC"
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I rest my case,I think you can see a very big difference in these two things,and that would be credibility. This ain't Cardi B or City Girls out here saying this. We are talking about accomplished business women,intellectuals,authors etc. Writing packaged think pieces with supposed stats. You can't compare that too Sauce Walka saying black women are more difficult to deal with when it comes to pimping,or a gang banging Chris Brown making his colorism comments,guys like Gilbert Arenas. Especially not when I've seen these guys get called out for that though many bm may have agreed or had likewise color struck "preferences". On the flipside these women are taken as credible,and because they aren't ingorant in their delivery they fly under the radar as sensible women to be taken seriously. Thus dont get an ounce of shame from black women,the same way these men do from black men. One is the equivelant to hillbilly KKK standing around a fire screaming random,cartoonish ridiculous hate about black people. The other is like the alt right,where you have seemingly educated white men delivering a message in a cleancut,thinly veiled racist package. The alt right types can always get their foot in on sounding reasonable,and convice people that they actually have "some good points". In doing so they have already planted a seed and laid a foundation.
Why Tf is it my job to uplift bytches? 
I’m only uplifting my sisters, mother, female relatives, future wife, daughters, nieces and female mentees. fukk everyone else tbh. A lot of sistas, who speak this “black men need to lift up black women” rhetoric are disinterested in black males and won’t even think about uplifting us. I have no hate for black women but I’m tired of the bullshyt that SOME of them espouse.
I'm only now coming into this thread but I'm sure I'm going to catch up with the twistPretty sure she was wenching at some point
nikka get the fukk out of here.Her and her ex- husband.
nikka
get
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That shyt doesn't even make any damn sense
I appreciate the response but none of this deals with my question. You acknowledge that you're not a black feminist who has pledged allegiance to the gay agenda. Neither are the white women who raised the white males who have grown up to be the alt right. Most white women aren't feminists who believe in the gay/tranny agenda. This is why over 50% voted for trump despite trump's "sexism and misogyny", all the media programming, and the fact that a white woman was running against him. White women aren't sabotaging white male masculinity like black women are.
My question is, how do black males being raised by women who believe in the feminist and gay/tranny agendas grow up to be patriarchal leaders who want to provide for and protect black women and children?
I don't think it's that..but that a black man with status and money is sought after by most races of women
(Haters and c00ns will say otherwise but yes a well off black man is very much desired).
Also I think most black men just find all types of women attractive.
We could talk about most black men being raised in single mother households and maybe that could turn them off from wanting marriage.
OK. I get what you are saying, but why black men famous or not have to be so damn disrespectful and hateful towards black women? Why can't black men with money explore their options without putting black women down? Although I really have not seen any of his movies, actor Michael B. Jordan mainly dates outside his race, and has yet said anything negative about black women.Even though some black women will get in their feelings about that man for his dating preferences. I respect the fact that he doesn't even have black women on his mind in order to say anything about black women.
I hear you but black men get shyt by black women publicly way more than women do..
It's just that men aren't allowed to be phased/hurt by that.
Rah Digga basically said the same shyt as this chick did like a year ago..ma fukking C list rapper
But lowkey alot of resentment comes from women hold the cards in the dating game yet choose terrible and the kid has to suffer.
The black men who will shyt on black women guaranteed is gonna come from a fukked up single mother household...thats where that anger comes from.
Her fine ass
Exlurkernegro
Judge me by my heart not my hairline
This is the problem. Yall keep looking for validation from famous and rich nikkas. Also when black men do uplift black women there's crickets.
I Really Mean It
Veteran
Which black men have disdain for black women? Be more specific, because I know plenty of black men would love black women to show them love. Is it possible that you’re interested in the wrong black men? Do y’all sisters complaining about black men and their disdain for black women want to hear One Mic or Oochie Wally?
HarlemHottie
Uptown Thoroughbred
Which I answered by giving a detailed explanation of how my man did it. It's not my place to tell men how exactly to grow into their roles as leaders. All I can do is provide resources and examples, which is what I did for him.
But, if pressed, I'd offer this: a man has to see the point of being a patriarch before he makes such a change. If he's hostile to the idea, no amount of resources and research will aid him. I did help with that, just by pointing out shyt irl/ pop culture. For example, and this is no shade, but we watch Tariq. He stay talking about his gout, which is aggravated by his diet. His wife should be handling that, obviously she is not. He apparently is forced to eat junk food if he gets hungry 'off hours'.
Little shyt like that pops up all the time. When pointed out consistently, a man might start to see the point of investing in a woman whose job is *you*.
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I hear you but black men get shyt by black women publicly way more than women do..
It's just that men aren't allowed to be phased/hurt by that.
Rah Digga basically said the same shyt as this chick did like a year ago..ma fukking C list rapper
But lowkey alot of resentment comes from women hold the cards in the dating game yet choose terrible and the kid has to suffer.
The black men who will shyt on black women guaranteed is gonna come from a fukked up single mother household...thats where that anger comes from.
By whom? By black women who is getting tired of being treated like shyt by black men? Black men will dog blck women day in and day out unprovoked.