Ladies, what is your overall opinion of men, based on the one's you've dated/boned/friend-zoned, etc

Schmoove

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Overall, very insecure, but that could be because I'm 20 and most people are insecure to begin with. Most guys I know are constantly trying to look like the man in front of his boys, constantly obliging to peer-pressure, even if he was raised to be a sweet-heart. Also sex-crazed in front of the world but when you get him alone its another story, he just wanted to seem like a man chasing puss but when you want to get sexual in private he tries to tell you 3x a week. And...majority of guys are nice and won't disrespect you for just anything. When he gets around his boys is a different ballgame because hes just trying to fit in (all of them are actually). Most guys are sweethearts. I believe most people in general on this planet are good hearted but get overshadowed by the minority evil because thats what we see in the media. We hardly ever see random acts of kindness on the news but we can see a precious baby just got raped by a mother's boyfriend everynight.

In my experience, that's more of a release of frustrations that they can't/won't show to a woman.
 

AZBeauty

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That all men are different. They are too different for me to post anything in particular but one thing I can say is, men have a hard time dealing with getting cheated on.
 

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The men I've been involved with were/are way emotional than I expected. Also they are way more anxious to start families/settle down/introduce me to family/etc than I expected.
 

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Tell this to friends all the time. A man will go as far as you let them and treat you however you allow. Don't expect them to look out for your best interest. They don't even think like you.
Hey chocolate :shaq: I need u in my life
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Most of the time men can be fun loving and hilarious to be around. They tend to not delve too deep into their feelings, so hanging out with them is refreshing.
 
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I found that most men are not very good at expressing their emotions and communicating effectively. A lot would rather be right than be happy or want to pretend that they are not upset. I have this sorta running joke that it takes a guy a month to tell you that something has deeply upset or bothered him. It's like clockwork.

On the other hand, when a guy falls in love it tends to be very deep and long lasting. Women's affections however can to be a bit more fleeting.

Yep men are actually more sensitive in some ways then women because we actually care where women are self absorbed creatures who love through what you give them
 

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I found that most men are not very good at expressing their emotions and communicating effectively. A lot would rather be right than be happy or want to pretend that they are not upset. I have this sorta running joke that it takes a guy a month to tell you that something has deeply upset or bothered him. It's like clockwork.

On the other hand, when a guy falls in love it tends to be very deep and long lasting. Women's affections however can to be a bit more fleeting.

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Most of the guys I've dated are arrogant @ssholes ... but not towards me.
Adding more to this, most of them have been the typical dominant "alpha male"
but they did late emotional expression unless forced into that position.

But being an a$$hole does attract you, doesn't it?
 
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