Ladies, what is your overall opinion of men, based on the one's you've dated/boned/friend-zoned, etc

[Diondon]

I'm not even sure why T/S cares how the females perceived the males, its not like he's going to get objective responses. There's 2 sides to every story, I'm sure there's female's out in the world who put dirt on MY name even though I'm a stand up guy

You're absolutely right about the 2 sides thing.
But it's weird most women on here say they are still cool with their exes

 

[Taadow]

*comes into thrizzead with a Strawberry Mad Dog 20/20 and leans on the wall*

 

[Yinny]

View of men I've dealt with: some gonna be busters, some gonna be dusters, and others are marvelous.



Then there's a few that need to overstand that just because I said it calmly, doesn't mean I wasn't serious. I am about that life if I have to be.

They couldn't stay single for long. But yet always talked about how they didn't like women who said they needed a man.

Compulsive liars and losers.

That might be one of the least attractive traits I find in a guy. It bothers the hell out of me.

 

[InDePickWest]

Overall, very insecure, but that could be because I'm 20 and most people are insecure to begin with. Most guys I know are constantly trying to look like the man in front of his boys, constantly obliging to peer-pressure, even if he was raised to be a sweet-heart. Also sex-crazed in front of the world but when you get him alone its another story, he just wanted to seem like a man chasing puss but when you want to get sexual in private he tries to tell you 3x a week. And...majority of guys are nice and won't disrespect you for just anything. When he gets around his boys is a different ballgame because hes just trying to fit in (all of them are actually). Most guys are sweethearts. I believe most people in general on this planet are good hearted but get overshadowed by the minority evil because thats what we see in the media. We hardly ever see random acts of kindness on the news but we can see a precious baby just got raped by a mother's boyfriend everynight.

 

[ThaBronxBully]

I Might Get shyt From The Fellas On This But Be Real, So Far The Ladies Are On Point For The Most Part lol

 

[Remote]

Men are generally insecure for 2 reasons.

1. They like to look tough in front of their friends but lovey-dovey with their woman. It's battling that perception that makes them insecure.

2. Because a woman has probably used a vulnerable moment against him in the past.

 

[Yinny]

They worry too much about "protecting your feelings" rather than being completely upfront and honest.

To be honest, I think a lot of guys use that excuse to be slick and still get what they want.

 

[The 2020 New Member]

Overall, very insecure, but that could be because I'm 20 and most people are insecure to begin with. Most guys I know are constantly trying to look like the man in front of his boys, constantly obliging to peer-pressure, even if he was raised to be a sweet-heart. Also sex-crazed in front of the world but when you get him alone its another story, he just wanted to seem like a man chasing puss but when you want to get sexual in private he tries to tell you 3x a week. And...majority of guys are nice and won't disrespect you for just anything. When he gets around his boys is a different ballgame because hes just trying to fit in (all of them are actually). Most guys are sweethearts. I believe most people in general on this planet are good hearted but get overshadowed by the minority evil because thats what we see in the media. We hardly ever see random acts of kindness on the news but we can see a precious baby just got raped by a mother's boyfriend everynight.

truly insecure or just self concious?

also...negged. :joaqaflocka:

 

[Lavish]

skimmed through all responses so far, seems to be pretty accurate

 

[Arishok]

Childish and immature but that reflects on me a lot too although this is just men I've dealt with, doesn't apply to men that I haven't met yet.

 

[Arishok]

They worry too much about "protecting your feelings" rather than being completely upfront and honest.

Those "nice guys"

 

[Diondon]

Childish and immature but that reflects on me a lot too although this is just men I've dealt with, doesn't apply to men that I haven't met yet.

You're awesome

 

[Remote]

Those "nice guys"

Those aren't "nice guys"
Those are manipulative guys.

Big difference.
I know a lot of women that get played because they get this circle jerk from men, and frankly while the man isn't being straight forward, the woman doesn't dead the dude on the spot for his bullsh*t because there's some level of feelings there.

 

[Arishok]

Those aren't "nice guys"
Those are manipulative guys.

Big difference.
I know a lot of women that get played because they get this circle jerk from men, and frankly while the man isn't being straight forward, the woman doesn't dead the dude on the spot for his bullsh*t because there's some level of feelings there.

I put it in quotes because that's what they call themselves I know there's a difference.

 

[Yinny]

Those aren't "nice guys"
Those are manipulative guys.

Big difference.
I know a lot of women that get played because they get this circle jerk from men, and frankly while the man isn't being straight forward, the woman doesn't dead the dude on the spot for his bullsh*t because there's some level of feelings there.

I'm glad a man said it, cause I peeped game early with that faux-considerate bullshyt.