Ladies, what is your overall opinion of men, based on the one's you've dated/boned/friend-zoned, etc

[Remote]

I put it in quotes because that's what they call themselves.

Oh, I see.

Point taken.
My bad.

 

[InDePickWest]

truly insecure or just self concious?

also...negged. :joaqaflocka:

Try it again, you repped me. And truly insecure. Self concsious is caring about what people think of you, insecure is not knowing what you think of your damn self. Alot of dudes can be talked into whatever by his homeboys. He could be the perfect man raised to be a real man and respect women but let him get around his homeboys and women are just vaginas for his dikk. He wasnt raised like this, he doesnt truly believe this, but this is how he portrays himself in order to fit in. Insecure.

 

[QuintessentialBM]

Yup... Pretty much what I expected...

 

[The 2020 New Member]

Try it again, you repped me. And truly insecure. Self concsious is caring about what people think of you, insecure is not knowing what you think of your damn self. Alot of dudes can be talked into whatever by his homeboys. He could be the perfect man raised to be a real man and respect women but let him get around his homeboys and women are just vaginas for his dikk. He wasnt raised like this, he doesnt truly believe this, but this is how he portrays himself in order to fit in. Insecure.

i was just messing with you.

so do you think most men are really insecure or just the ones that you've been with/are attracted to?

 

[Batz]

Overall, very insecure, but that could be because I'm 20 and most people are insecure to begin with. Most guys I know are constantly trying to look like the man in front of his boys, constantly obliging to peer-pressure, even if he was raised to be a sweet-heart. Also sex-crazed in front of the world but when you get him alone its another story, he just wanted to seem like a man chasing puss but when you want to get sexual in private he tries to tell you 3x a week. And...majority of guys are nice and won't disrespect you for just anything. When he gets around his boys is a different ballgame because hes just trying to fit in (all of them are actually). Most guys are sweethearts. I believe most people in general on this planet are good hearted but get overshadowed by the minority evil because thats what we see in the media. We hardly ever see random acts of kindness on the news but we can see a precious baby just got raped by a mother's boyfriend everynight.

so beautiful

 

[Remote]

Yup... Pretty much what I expected...

Amplify please?

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

I found that most men are not very good at expressing their emotions and communicating effectively. A lot would rather be right than be happy or want to pretend that they are not upset. I have this sorta running joke that it takes a guy a month to tell you that something has deeply upset or bothered him. It's like clockwork.

On the other hand, when a guy falls in love it tends to be very deep and long lasting. Women's affections however can to be a bit more fleeting.

 

[innocentdevil]

they seem to give little tests of character more often than women...which can be looked at as insecurity or cleverness

They want to be loved and fall harder than women

They are sweet, considerate, honest to the point of being mildly offesive lol , and emotional

 

[Remote]

I found that most men are not very good at expressing their emotions and communicating effectively. A lot would rather be right than be happy or want to pretend that they are not upset. I have this sorta running joke that it takes a guy a month to tell you that something has deeply upset or bothered him. It's like clockwork.

On the other hand, when a guy falls in love it tends to be very deep and long lasting. Women's affections however can to be a bit more fleeting.

A lot of truth here.

 

[Nintendough]

I found that most men are not very good at expressing their emotions .

Well most men don't come to strip clubs to express their emotions.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Well most men don't come to strip clubs to express their emotions.

Did you read the title?

 

[Taadow]

they seem to give little tests of character more often than women...

You think so??!?

 

[Nintendough]

Did you read the OP?

No

 

[Batz]

I found that most men are not very good at expressing their emotions and communicating effectively. A lot would rather be right than be happy or want to pretend that they are not upset. I have this sorta running joke that it takes a guy a month to tell you that something has deeply upset or bothered him. It's like clockwork.

On the other hand, when a guy falls in love it tends to be very deep and long lasting. Women's affections however can to be a bit more fleeting.

 

[innocentdevil]

You think so??!?