Ladies, what is your overall opinion of men, based on the one's you've dated/boned/friend-zoned, etc

[Elle Driver]

they seem to give little tests of character more often than women...which can be looked at as insecurity or cleverness

They want to be loved and fall harder than women

They are sweet, considerate, honest to the point of being mildly offesive lol , and emotional

But will never admit it.

 

[Remote]

To touch on something @TheStripper posted earlier....

If men fall harder in love and are more likely to stay the course, while women tend to be fleeting in their love, does that tie in to men being less open in their feelings with women? Since one wrong comment or awkward situation from men could lead to women deading any relationship on the spot (at least, mentally)??

Often, it seems (I stress seems because I'm just asking, not stating for fact) that some women can be very uneven in what they demand of men. Many women want the honesty and sensitivity and nice-ness from a man, but can also be quick to walk over him or judging him as weak or clingy when they get it.

 

[Raava]

ur awesome, im nothing but a glass of goodness

Thanks, your an awesome glass of goodness, so versatile

 

[resurrection]

Men don't get "emotional" or tell you how we feel about shyt because y'all view it as weakness and lose respect for your guy when he does. So don't complain, you like a man who is emotionally unavailable

Men won't treat you how you *say* you want to be treated.. we'll treat you however gets you *acting* the way he wants you to..

 

[Trillion]

Try it again, you repped me. And truly insecure. Self concsious is caring about what people think of you, insecure is not knowing what you think of your damn self. Alot of dudes can be talked into whatever by his homeboys. He could be the perfect man raised to be a real man and respect women but let him get around his homeboys and women are just vaginas for his dikk. He wasnt raised like this, he doesnt truly believe this, but this is how he portrays himself in order to fit in. Insecure.

if i could dap you 50 times i would

 

[BruhMayne]

at some of the females indirectly proving that dude @His_Excellence_Reincar to be correct

 

[SiickCurllyGurl]

Yea it does

But being an @sshole does attract you, doesn't it?

 

[BrothaZay]

They couldn't stay single for long. But yet always talked about how they didn't like women who said they needed a man.

Compulsive liars and losers.

 

[BrothaZay]

Judging from this thrad im the opposite.
Im nice and sweet to my girl in front of my homies, but behind clothes doors

 

[BrothaZay]

I found that most men are not very good at expressing their emotions and communicating effectively. A lot would rather be right than be happy or want to pretend that they are not upset. I have this sorta running joke that it takes a guy a month to tell you that something has deeply upset or bothered him. It's like clockwork.

On the other hand, when a guy falls in love it tends to be very deep and long lasting. Women's affections however can to be a bit more fleeting.

yo. What qualities do most women look for that MOST men lack.
Everytime I ask a bytch tey always say "a nikka who aint soft, or wont let me run over them" but that just seem too cliche to me at dis point

 

[Wild self]

Yea it does

Gotcha

 

[Chill]

Maybe being #hoh does work on the majority of females.


I don't think I got it in me

 

[Youseenmywork]

I dont agree with much in this room ...but I have to keep in mind that a lot of these comments come from personal experience. This is why I listen to patrice oneal material(the black phillip show) on women. I think back when I was younger and why I ever listened to women in the first place ...instead of finding men that was successful with women and asking questions. Today I was watching the wizard of oz and to compare it what men go threw with women ...I was always told what im NOT by women. But in the wizard of oz they was going down a road thinking that they was missing something( heart, ccourage, a brain). But what I believe they realized was ...they had everything they need the entire time. Ive learned to take what I am as a man and just make it better ...why should I care what some women thinks cause all they care about is their perspective anyway...they dont care what ive gone threw to be the man I am today. But im chillin thoe ...and hell this might be the wrong thread ..lol

 

[Ermias]

Change your ways if you feel it's the truth.

I will. I just hope its not too late to redeem myself.

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

Men don't get "emotional" or tell you how we feel about shyt because y'all view it as weakness and lose respect for your guy when he does. So don't complain, you like a man who is emotionally unavailable

Men won't treat you how you *say* you want to be treated.. we'll treat you however gets you *acting* the way he wants you to..

Depends on the woman. Personally, I prefer men who tell me how they feel because that strengthens my bond with them and makes me want to have a deeper connection. I can't be with someone if I'm not completely sure of how they feel about me. That emotionally unavailable stuff is not for me because I will literally become unavailable.