KenyaDoll
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Yes, it's an open forum and I asked you a question (that what people do on forums). You only answered one though and you're right. It doesn't and shouldn't affect you.
Ladies: These are the men you'll have to settle for if you aren't married by 27
Yes, it's an open forum and I asked you a question (that what people do on forums). You only answered one though and you're right. It doesn't and shouldn't affect you.
Which proves that married men are better-off than single men in one aspect.
And you're supporting the online-antics of a man who has never been married.
Would you take advice on swimming across the English Channel from someone who has never been in the deep end of the pool?
What I'd end up doing is assessing whether swimming across the English Channel has any TANGIBLE benefit through my own logical reasoning... which it doesn't, which is why I wouldn't swim across the English Channel.
Secondly, I'm not part of the 'get married brehs' movement. I'm FOR marriage in concept, but after assessing the current legal environment, being unable to find any real tangible benefits that modern women bring to the table to tether myself to her long-term, in addition to women initiating divorce at a much higher rate than men cause me to come to a position where I am critical of marrying a modern woman in an environment that punishes men in the event that the marriage doesn't work out... which obviously was a calculated move in society due to the desire for the elites to break up the family structure.
For one, the modern woman says she refuses to cook and clean for her man. Secondly, women initiate divorces at a much higher rate than men. Thirdly, women typically win out in divorce court, especially when it concerns custody of children, women win out. And now, the incentives are being lowered still with women not even giving their husband their physical prime, but instead sharing it with a plethora of men who have nothing but short-term interests in mind? And at an age where her giving birth to your child becomes increasingly more risky?
So in summation, I'm FOR marriage given that the proper incentives are there. A positive marriage is much better than being single, but ultimately, with the current prevailing attitude, the incentives to engage in such a deal are increasingly being diminished, and this is being noted by the younger generation, hence the marriage rates plummeting.
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kevm3 said:
Dude, you can miss me with the novel 'cause I ain't reading all that. You asked a simple question, I answered.
If you want to get married, get married. If not, then don't. Makes no difference to me. I'm married (again) and enjoying it.
Worrying about what other people will think/do is a sign of immaturity and indecisiveness. You should never judge your relationship by others'.
LOL @ 'tangible benefit'.
How about 'Because I love her and want her by my side in life.'
If you want to get married, get married. If not, then don't. Makes no difference to me. I'm married (again) and enjoying it.
Worrying about what other people will think/do is a sign of immaturity and indecisiveness. You should never judge your relationship by others'.
LOL @ 'tangible benefit'.
How about 'Because I love her and want her by my side in life.'
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No surprise this is a already 20 pages plus. Negged @KenyaDoll for posting the cac and the sista. 
to the others tho. Sistas finding their one is 
On another note:
Waiting till 30+ is along time for marriage tho.
Being that you probably having causal sex with so so and his homies, why would a nikka want to take that L on most occasions? All ya'll seem to have that 5-7 year long term relationship that didn't work. So you telling me, you were with a nikka it didn't work, for 5-7 years. 
I know after three months where this can go. I don't need 5-7 years. That seems like you trying to make something fit that don't and don't blame the man, he is just keeping what's guaranteed on lock.
to the others tho. Sistas finding their one is On another note:
Waiting till 30+ is along time for marriage tho.
Being that you probably having causal sex with so so and his homies, why would a nikka want to take that L on most occasions? All ya'll seem to have that 5-7 year long term relationship that didn't work. So you telling me, you were with a nikka it didn't work, for 5-7 years. I know after three months where this can go. I don't need 5-7 years. That seems like you trying to make something fit that don't and don't blame the man, he is just keeping what's guaranteed on lock.
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YALL ARE GOING TO CLOWN THIS ONE, BUT I HAVE TO INCLUDE IT FOR INFORMATION PURPOSES:
Bride: Jamia, 33, Executive Director of Youth Tech Health
Groom: Travis, 42, Jazz Saxophonist and Composer
http://www.essence.com/2014/03/05/bridal-bliss-play-me-love-song
@Emperor_ReinScarf you go too hard on sistas when you don't really date em. Maybe you should fall back or date the sistas you are attracted too.
Willie getting that paper
Bride:Peggy Abkemeier, 39
Groom:Willie Alford, 31
Hometown: Los Angeles, California
Occupations:
Peggy -- Chief Financial Officer (CFO), PayPal -- North America, Emerging Markets Business Development
Willie -- Marketing Executive at Western Asset Management
http://www.essence.com/2011/05/25/peggy-abkemeier-willie-alford-wedding-story
She like his momma age.
@KenyaDoll
off topic,
She quietly expected great things to happen to her, and no doubt that’s one of the reasons why they did. - Zelda Fitzgerald.
i had to check out the character in your siggy and was amazed that her and Scotty were really bout dat fast international drama life. I think i know your writing style and other coli alias but won't go there at this time.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Zelda_Fitzgerald
off topic,
She quietly expected great things to happen to her, and no doubt that’s one of the reasons why they did. - Zelda Fitzgerald.
i had to check out the character in your siggy and was amazed that her and Scotty were really bout dat fast international drama life. I think i know your writing style and other coli alias but won't go there at this time.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Zelda_Fitzgerald
So a an older guy looking to be married (that's the key here) is choosing from what?
Let's say dude is mid-thirties. Is be marrying 25-29 year olds? If they are 30 and past their prime it would sound like settling using the logic on this board........
Purely on the math it doesn't add up. I get the narrative of older men having more options from a dating sense but when it comes to marriage older guys typically don't somehow have this magical pool of chicks they scoop just prior to the age 30 expiration date.
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You all stay being mad.No surprise this is a already 20 pages plus. Negged @KenyaDoll for posting the cac and the sista.
On another note:
Waiting till 30+ is along time for marriage tho.
I know after three months where this can go. I don't need 5-7 years. That seems like you trying to make something fit that don't and don't blame the man, he is just keeping what's guaranteed on lock.
I don't know. What if the woman had a few long term relationships and at 29-30, the relationship ended because of whatever reason. Should that woman who is now 30 be looked at as used goods because she was in a relationship that didn't work? Should she be told to hang up the towel because 30 is disgusting to virgin nikkas like you? No because this woman doesn't even want a clown like you. They are looking for someone more secure than that.
@ that fact that you think every woman is out here is getting trains done on them.
Brehs,I told you about Kenyan byatch fcukery here on this thread:
http://www.thecoli.com/threads/low-rent-ratchetness-in-kenya-is-now-mainstream.140731/
This particular poster is a typical Kikuyu woman,I'm sorry to say. I recognize the passive aggressive contrariness , child like assertions and attention hoism only too well.
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Double post.