Ladies: These are the men you'll have to settle for if you aren't married by 27

KenyaDoll

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I make "money" via online, real estate, or a combination of the two.....not some bajillionaire by any means but time is really important to me....and i got a ton of it to spend freely however id like ...you wouldnt know about though seeing as both you and your "man" are still slaves to currency :laff:

Sweetie, I make my own schedule and will for the rest of my career. I'm doing exactly what I want and my man is doing something meaningful that he's always wanted to do. Crazy schedule, but if he likes it :manny:
 

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kevm3 said:
lol@i completely ignored your post. Nah, i responded directly to it. And i quoted something about 'academic studies?' Nah, what I quoted was you saying that you have several studies that men are better off in marriages and I asked you where these studies are.

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Single men have mortality rates that are 250% higher than married men.
Having a spouse can decrease your risk for dying from cancer as much as knocking ten years off your life.
Single people spend longer in the hospital, and have a greater risk of dying after surgery
Based on life expectancies, nine of ten married men and women alive at age 48 are alive at 65, while only six of ten single men and eight of ten single women make it to 65.
Married men may have better immune systems as well, either from support or from nagging to monitor blood pressure, cholesterol, weight, etc… and may be at less risk to catch colds
Married men are more successful in work as well, getting promoted more often and receiving higher performance appraisals. They also miss work or arrive late less often.
Married men are half as likely to commit suicide as single men, and one third as likely as divorced men. Widowed men under 45 are nine times more likely to commit suicide as married men.
Single men drink twice as much as married men, and one out of four say their drinking causes problems. Only one of seven married men says the same. One out of six single men abstains from alcohol, but one in four married men do.
About 40% of married people have sex twice a week, compared to 20-25% of single and cohabitating men and women.
Over 40% of married women said their sex life was emotionally and physically satisfying, compared to about 30% of single women.
For men, it's 50% of married men are physically and emotionally contents versus 38% of cohabitating men.

 

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kevm3 said:
The context of the discussion was that men were better off in marriages COMPARED TO women... as in men essentially got more out of a marriage than men did... so I don't know why you are posting that sarcastic face. Do men get more out of marriage than women? Be real

Marriage brings bliss to newly wed couples, but researchers now say that while married men appeared physically better off than single men, the same can not be said of married women.

Women not only have fewer immediate personal benefits from marriage but it is at times more damaging for her overall well-being, according to The One Plus One Marriage and Partnership Research organisation, a government-funded group.

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Here's a quote from that article:
Men, marriage, and mortality
A major survey of 127,545 American adults found that married men are healthier than men who were never married or whose marriages ended in divorce or widowhood. Men who have marital partners also live longer than men without spouses; men who marry after age 25 get more protection than those who tie the knot at a younger age, and the longer a man stays married, the greater his survival advantage over his unmarried peers. But is marriage itself responsible for better health and longer life?

lol so you post an article from 2002 to back your point up? That was a study among 2000 divorcees. I don't see any tangible benefits listed in that article that men receive compared to women, so how about you fill in the details for us. What tangible benefits do men get compared to women in marriage? We can easily spin that article as men are more appreciative of the institution of marriage than women.
 

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Come on with this, y'all are talking this too far. I personally would not get married before 30. 32 if I can push it. Women in their 20s are still on games, expecting a dude to jump through fire for her number. (Some dudes are on BS at this age as well, but that's a whole different kind of thing.) shyt is so much more laid back in the 30s, around that time, women are as invested in finding a mate as men are. It's much more fulfilling when the woman is as interested in the guy, and isn't still following some made up rules about calling him first or displaying interest.

I think y'all Coli ladies are taking it too hard trying to correct some folks. Yes, there's a biological clock for women to worry about, but a good woman isn't going to be ignored for too long. Time is the great equalizer. Same dudes that say "get married brehs" might be that uncle with no pictures over the fireplace. And the ladies soaking in all the attention at 23 might be that aunt that takes her cats everywhere.

Reality doesn't miss anyone, is what I'm trying to say. Don't take what you read too personal.
 

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kevm3 said:
Here's a quote from that article:

Which proves that married men are better-off than single men in one aspect.
kevm3 said:
lol so you post an article from 2002 to back your point up?

And you're supporting the online-antics of a man who has never been married.

Would you take advice on swimming across the English Channel from someone who has never been in the deep end of the pool in their own backyard?

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If they didn't want to marry younger, why should they have? They're married now!

I don't get it. How do women deciding/wanting to marry later affect you personally?
Its an open forum. You posted the thread. I gave my opinion based on what I've seen in real life not picked up from Cosmo/Vogue/Ebony or Essence. It doesn't affect me personally-why should it?
 
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