Ladies: These are the men you'll have to settle for if you aren't married by 27

[Field Marshall Bradley]

No surprise this is a already 20 pages plus. Negged @KenyaDoll for posting the cac and the sista. to the others tho. Sistas finding their one is

On another note:
Waiting till 30+ is along time for marriage tho. Being that you probably having causal sex with so so and his homies, why would a nikka want to take that L on most occasions? All ya'll seem to have that 5-7 year long term relationship that didn't work. So you telling me, you were with a nikka it didn't work, for 5-7 years.

I know after three months where this can go. I don't need 5-7 years. That seems like you trying to make something fit that don't and don't blame the man, he is just keeping what's guaranteed on lock.

Its a double edge sword....In America, its probably best to wait until you're 30 or greater because we're conditioned to be kids until we're like 35.....

But ideally, most couples would be getting married around 25/26

You don't need to smash a 1000 chicks to realize that one is wifey material......Ish is instinctive......

 

[Rocket Scientist]

No surprise this is a already 20 pages plus. Negged @KenyaDoll for posting the cac and the sista. to the others tho. Sistas finding their one is

On another note:
Waiting till 30+ is along time for marriage tho. Being that you probably having causal sex with so so and his homies, why would a nikka want to take that L on most occasions? All ya'll seem to have that 5-7 year long term relationship that didn't work. So you telling me, you were with a nikka it didn't work, for 5-7 years.

I know after three months where this can go. I don't need 5-7 years. That seems like you trying to make something fit that don't and don't blame the man, he is just keeping what's guaranteed on lock.

at that 3 month part.Doesn't take people long to figure out

 

[Zach Lowe]

It was already all over the internet anyway. They applied to featured online. They aren't concerned with privacy or having their real names out there considering that I see these same postings shared on Facebook on almost a daily basis.

Yeah but this is the Coli

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

I don't know. What if the woman had a few long term relationships and at 29-30, the relationship ended because of whatever reason. Should that woman who is now 30 be looked at as used goods because she was in a relationship that didn't work? Should she be told to hang up the towel because 30 is disgusting to virgin nikkas like you? No because this woman doesn't even want a clown like you. They are looking for someone more secure than that. @ that fact that you think every woman is out here is getting trains done on them.

People are speaking in absolutes and life doesn't work that way...I can tell that most of the people(especially the females) haven't really begin to live their lives fully yet because most talk from the perspective of living in a closed environment(dudes too)

I know a couple of chicks that were in 10 year monogamous relationships(even got engaged) and the relationships went south......

One chick remained single for about 3 years before dating again and just got engaged again at 40.......The thing is she knew her worth and decided not to frivolously engage in the dating scene to compensate for her failed relationship....She was wise about whom she associated with and ended up with what's considered a great catch at the age of 40...

Now I will put this disclaimer out there.....This chick is fine as all outdoors and is a head RN making 6 figures.....Don't know if she's the exception or not, but I say that to say that all men and women to need to love life, love themselves, and know what lane they belong in, and everything will work out eventually.....

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

at that 3 month part.Doesn't take people long to figure out

Look here, as a man, you know in about 2 weeks(sometimes 2 days) if you want to have a serious relationship with a chick or not.....

 

[KenyaDoll]

Yeah but this is the Coli

I guess that could be a scary thought.

 

[Arishok]

Let's be real here for a second,
Everybody out here is fukking everybody before marriage.
It does not matter if it's trains, relationships, one night stands, orgies, with a friend, someone you grew up with, a coworker etc.

If a woman can put her schooling and career in the forefront in her 20's and then decides to look for marriage in her 30's... Why is it hard for them to keep their virginty until they are married then?

Maybe before they even starting thinking about schooling and a career in their teens, they were having sex be it in whatever form. After that, they put all that on hold in their 20s to finish schooling and focus on their career. A person's life doesn't begin in her 20s, you know and most people aren't that smart in there teens.

 

[iBrowse]

By coli standards this wont end well

 

[Arishok]

No surprise this is a already 20 pages plus. Negged @KenyaDoll for posting the cac and the sista. to the others tho. Sistas finding their one is

On another note:
Waiting till 30+ is along time for marriage tho. Being that you probably having causal sex with so so and his homies, why would a nikka want to take that L on most occasions? All ya'll seem to have that 5-7 year long term relationship that didn't work. So you telling me, you were with a nikka it didn't work, for 5-7 years.

I know after three months where this can go. I don't need 5-7 years. That seems like you trying to make something fit that don't and don't blame the man, he is just keeping what's guaranteed on lock.

I know relationships are different from friendships but things can (and will) go on in people's lives which make them change which is why some people who have been together since high school can still get a divorce. My friend and I have known each other for almost a decade, we used to be best friends in high school but now we barely talk because we drifted apart. I feel getting married in your late 20s/early 30s is best because you're probably more locked in life as a person and done figuring yourself out for the most part. Plus you have to see relationship dynamics between the person you're with and his/her family. If they had a rough childhood or don't get along with their mother or father, it's going to reflect in your relationship in the long run.

 

[DaPresident]

Aye man, this is beautiful!!!


Black love celebrated!!!! Congrats to those married or about to be. Doesn't matter your age, just matters if it's in your heart!!!! I just got hitched almost 3 weeks ago, and I'm 30. Happiest I've been in my life!!!


#BlackLove #BlackExcellence

 

[iBrowse]

Thats very sweet. I think before you get married you should be financially secure. Click the link in my sig to help you achieve your goals!


Wake up now!

The avi/profile combo

 

[Broke Wave]

@KenyaDoll if your not married by 30 I know a young independent business developer who would be happy to have you click on the link on his heart to join him in matrimony

 

[KenyaDoll]

@KenyaDoll if your not married by 30 I know a young independent business developer who would be happy to have you click on the link on his heart to join him in matrimony

Good to know. That just took a load off my chest!

 

[humble forever]

give it to miss leshawn wilson right and get free hbo for life

 

[Broke Wave]

Good to know. That just took a load off my chest!

His name is @marcuz