Sierra Mist
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Gonna have to watch every female's move in the kitchen for the rest of my life on some paranoia shyt after witnessing the foolery in this thread. Thanks Elle.
Ladies do you/would you cook for a man when told so?
- Thread starter _Anghellic_
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I don't want to offend but if you're a woman in a long term relationship/marriage then you should be cooking/cleaning for your man. IMO a womans duty is to maintain the household...If your dude is consistently bringing in the bacon and paying the bills to keep a roof over ya head then you should be cooking/cleaning.
If you're both working then both should help to maintain the house/cook...
If you're both working then both should help to maintain the house/cook...
I'm pulling out the handcuffs and this.
ive been a bad boy today
Would you say it's a man's duty to do the same if the woman is the one paying the bills and doing the maintaining?
Ur a female
Yeah. Both ppl need to be pulling their weight in order for the household to run without conflict.
No. When told so like I'm a gotdamn maid.If he asks, now that's different.
Would I prefer to do the cooking? Yes. But I would have a big issue if I come home from work after he does and there's no food on the stove. It would be just a big of problem if I get home from work before he does, and I'm just sitting on the couch. It's stupid and inconsiderate from both ends.
I grew up with both my parents knowing how to cook. My mom did the majority of the cooking because she was and is the better cook. But my dad always came home from work about 3 hours before her. He would defrost the meat and put the beans in water and help her with the salad, the seasoning, whatever if she asked him to. I think that's a great arrangement.
That's a true partnership. I grew up in a household that if my mom does not cook we starve until she made food. My dad would only cook for himself. And my mom worked while my dad had long periods of not working (due to working on his business). I'd never marry a man like that.
Agree completely
This is the average modern woman's reality but many men refuse to pull their weight in the household.
Total agreement with you. That I think contributes to women filing for divorce more so than men in my opinion. No one wants to feel like they are doing more for the relationship than the other party.
speaking of marriage..we're coming up on our 8 year anniversary in April 
10 1/2 years together in total
10 1/2 years together in total