I think a lot of folks grow up not seeing actual homemakers so they don't realize how demanding it could be, especially if you have a strong father.
My mom sucked at it, but it was a lot of shyt to do. Dropping and picking us up from school (3 kids in 3 different levels of school) making sure homework done, taking us to activities and sports, chaperoning field trips, parent teacher conferences, etc...
She was cool with all that shyt cuz it kept her on the go, but it was also a crutch to be sorry as fukk around the house. Couldn't cook for shyt and my pops would come home from work and still have to cook for us sometimes. nikka in the kitchen making curry wings like
after being worn out from dealing with racist ass cacs all day. That homemaker shyt aint for everybody. A woman has to really like that shyt for her to be an all around asset for it. I grew up listening to my pops curse my mom's out for fukking up simple tasks around the house that she could have done correctly if she just gave a damn. That's the main thing about it. You gotta be the type to get enjoyment out of doing shyt for your household or its not going to work. Most of the chicks calling up KS sound like they could barely keep their room clean as a teen, let alone manage a family.
Whenever Married with Children came on, that nikka would have the Tv loud as fukk to make sure ole girl would hear when Al roasted Peggy.