Where are you pulling your "realistic" scenario from? The vast majority of divorces has the man exiting the home with the wife and kids occupying the home.
How are assets equally divided when the man is sent packing while still having to make payments? The vast majority of black americans dont own two homes that can be divided equally.
It is ironic you talking about cac fairytales when women are being programmed by disney since childhood. You all get carried away with wedding fairytales, push for marriage and still be the first ones to initiate divorce.
You can look up the stats yourself. They are easy to find and a better point of reference than using the stats of White couples which don’t apply to us.
As I said before, Black wives are the primary or co-breadwinner in the vast majority of Black couples so this scenario of a Black man losing everything he worked for all by himself is a statistical anomaly.
The primary caregiver(male or female) should retain the home for the sake of the children. Their lives shouldn’t be uprooted because of a divorce. All other assets and shared bank accounts should be split equally. In a case where the children are adults or you don’t have any, the house should be sold.
The primary caregiver should also receive child support because you still need to contribute equally to your child’s upbringing and wellbeing even when you no longer live with them.
Once again, why is the reality of White women being applied to the reality of Black women?
What fairytale about marriage where we sold when the vast majority of us grew up with single mothers? The expectation of marriage isn’t even there for Black women.
The Disney thing is stupid and made even dumber by the fact there is only one Black Disney Princess. We where sold the fairytale of White women having a happily ever after with White princes.
It really depends on the reasons why a woman files divorce. Men are more likely to be physically abusive, cheat(or at least get caught), etc.
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