I think the pay for everything is for the dudes that can, the top men. And the dudes that are average need to get someone that can make a deal with. Which is his point people that are average get what they can. Which isn’t bad. It’s just that the average woman(in this environment)want a nikka with the bag. I will say some dudes think they deserve a bad bytch.
If that works for them then fine. I’m not understanding the issue. How normal is that a man gets to stay home while his lawyer wife work?You say this but I have a cousin who is married to a White dude who is a stay at home father and she is a lawyer and she's an attractive woman.
He does need to address it to clarify. However, most women desire a man to pay for everything. It’s natural of them, no matter what she can do for herself. The particular chick that is about to get dual doctorate degrees was never going to respect dude.He does need to address the pay for everything thing. He tells women to get with 30k men, then tells men to pay for everything. The math doesn’t work in this modern society
He does need to address it to clarify. However, most women desire a man to pay for everything. It’s natural of them, no matter what she can do for herself. The particular chick that is about to get dual doctorate degrees was never going to respect dude.
As far as women getting with other average-earning and looking men, it makes sense. Why get older and purposely struggle when suitable men are readily available?
Now this I definitely agree with.Lifestyle and instant access to 401K when a nikka dies off. Old dudes are like a quick hustle for some of these chicks.
No, they making themselves look bad.These brehs are making us look bad. One dude showed up in a fake Burberry hat, like it’s 2002 or something...
These brehs are making us look bad. One dude showed up in a fake Burberry hat, like it’s 2002 or something...
He’s mostly talking about older men and women
A lot of people seem to leave that out
I know that message gets lost in the sauce but if you are in your mid to late 30s and above
You know what it is at that point and you either
p*ssy footing around
Really have no desire to get married
Still living with the demons of the past in your head
You will truly never know a woman
I don’t care how much you think you are vetting her
There are just no guarantees in life
If you meet a woman who aligns with your ideologies, shows compassion, the ability to critically think, has a motherly essence and let’s you be who you are when the lights go out/when the mask comes off
Why waste time, if you are marriage minded
I knew my current was it for me after one month
I didn’t tell her that but I knew it
Got married at month 9 and best decision of my life outside of my daughter
Lets be really real here
As a man you really shouldn’t be dating if that’s all you are making
Now here me out
I wish we lived in an idealistic world where you could meet a woman who truly wants you for you
Sees all the good in you
But women’s nature(no matter the color) wants two basic things
Security/protection
If you out here in these streets chasing tail
But you are barely getting by on your own
Something is wrong with your math
As a young man
I didn’t have my shyt together but I was getting women purely off of three things
The university I went to
Potential they saw based off my degrees
Apartment on the outer part of San Francisco proper
They “figured” I had my shyt together but I was struggling like a mofo
Working three(two regular/one on campus) jobs and barely making rent
Had women paying for me when we went out or if they came over
But that shyt got old to them and it did leave me feeling some kind of way
And my first love got tired of supporting me when I was lost outchea still trying to figure it out
I was mad about that for years but it clicked one day
I wasn’t mad at her, I was mad at me
Men have an innate feeling even if we are with a woman that has no problem with taking care of us
We want to provide for our families, friends
We want to protect them at all cost
That’s our cross to bare in this world
So if you out here dating and have no true focus/purpose
And you get somebody pregnant and you know you can’t afford to be a father
What the fukk are you doing with your life
As much as we blame women in these situations
Let’s stop the bullshyt
nikkas is out here weak and putting in the bare minimum to get by
But as soon as that responsibility comes
It’s a bunch of juelzing
If you are not in the position to take care of a mistake baby
You really shouldn’t be out in these streets
A lot of us were mistake babies(yeah I know this thecoli and your parents all conceived you out of love)
But this is a consideration men need to consider if you out here getting it in
I think KS message is women need to give men that are actually working hard
Have a decent blue collared career with no debt, owns his own shyt, has good character and shows he can steadily provide/protect a chance
Just like I would tell any man
Yeah you may want a Draya Michele(insert whoever you think is bad)
But are you ready to deal with the up keep, the headaches of nikkas always hitting on her, her checkered past
Why not get with an adjustable 6/7 that shows good moral fibers and actually likes you a chance
You can always teach somebody how to fukk
But you can’t teach somebody to listen or other innate tangibles
Yeah. Old dudes are fully aware thus the whole sugar daddy/sugar baby lifestyle. That’s dudes that want them much younger.Lifestyle and instant access to 401K when a nikka dies off. Old dudes are like a quick hustle for some of these chicks.
He’s mostly talking about older men and women
A lot of people seem to leave that out
I know that message gets lost in the sauce but if you are in your mid to late 30s and above
You know what it is at that point and you either
p*ssy footing around
Really have no desire to get married
Still living with the demons of the past in your head
You will truly never know a woman
I don’t care how much you think you are vetting her
There are just no guarantees in life
If you meet a woman who aligns with your ideologies, shows compassion, the ability to critically think, has a motherly essence and let’s you be who you are when the lights go out/when the mask comes off
Why waste time, if you are marriage minded
I knew my current was it for me after one month
I didn’t tell her that but I knew it
Got married at month 9 and best decision of my life outside of my daughter
Lets be really real here
As a man you really shouldn’t be dating if that’s all you are making
Now here me out
I wish we lived in an idealistic world where you could meet a woman who truly wants you for you
Sees all the good in you
But women’s nature(no matter the color) wants two basic things
Security/protection
If you out here in these streets chasing tail
But you are barely getting by on your own
Something is wrong with your math
As a young man
I didn’t have my shyt together but I was getting women purely off of three things
The university I went to
Potential they saw based off my degrees
Apartment on the outer part of San Francisco proper
They “figured” I had my shyt together but I was struggling like a mofo
Working three(two regular/one on campus) jobs and barely making rent
Had women paying for me when we went out or if they came over
But that shyt got old to them and it did leave me feeling some kind of way
And my first love got tired of supporting me when I was lost outchea still trying to figure it out
I was mad about that for years but it clicked one day
I wasn’t mad at her, I was mad at me
Men have an innate feeling even if we are with a woman that has no problem with taking care of us
We want to provide for our families, friends
We want to protect them at all cost
That’s our cross to bare in this world
So if you out here dating and have no true focus/purpose
And you get somebody pregnant and you know you can’t afford to be a father
What the fukk are you doing with your life
As much as we blame women in these situations
Let’s stop the bullshyt
nikkas is out here weak and putting in the bare minimum to get by
But as soon as that responsibility comes
It’s a bunch of juelzing
If you are not in the position to take care of a mistake baby
You really shouldn’t be out in these streets
A lot of us were mistake babies(yeah I know this thecoli and your parents all conceived you out of love)
But this is a consideration men need to consider if you out here getting it in
I think KS message is women need to give men that are actually working hard
Have a decent blue collared career with no debt, owns his own shyt, has good character and shows he can steadily provide/protect a chance
Just like I would tell any man
Yeah you may want a Draya Michele(insert whoever you think is bad)
But are you ready to deal with the up keep, the headaches of nikkas always hitting on her, her checkered past
Why not get with an adjustable 6/7 that shows good moral fibers and actually likes you a chance
You can always teach somebody how to fukk
But you can’t teach somebody to listen or other innate tangibles
22 year olds were already married?Also, I went to a dinner party last night, on everything, every single women there (all white women) were either married or engaged lol. All under 23 too. It’s interesting to note
He’s white that’s a come up to a lot of Black womenYou say this but I have a cousin who is married to a White dude who is a stay at home father and she is a lawyer and she's an attractive woman.