That's what I'm trying to figure out. This is supposed to be a disagreement show but when brothers that actually have a disagreement about topics he discussed in the past he doesn't want to discuss it.
If he has another men's show and I happen to be off that night, I might try to call and ask about that. I know plenty of brothers that would be considered high value that damn sure wouldn't even think about getting married to a woman within six months of dating.
BREHS BREHS!!!!! kevin samuels has reached my fukking house brehs
overheard my momma listening to some dude trying to go in on him on youtube calling him gay.............................................................
this shyt is real....... he really started something.........................
havent made it that far yet, but this subset of dudes are the same as the women. They refuse to look in the mirror to self improve and deflect their short comings on others. Thats the issue with grouping all men together. Kev stated he pivoted to women because he had a group of men who did the work to succeed and or improve and saw the market sucks. With Kevs fame now you have other males who are not qualified for anything coming in and adding their two cents.
It’s crazy how black men have the control in terms of deciding to married a woman or having a relationship with a woman, but it’s like the black women got these dudes by they neck telling them to put a ring on it or listen to what I say or u not getting any puzzy and brothers minds are so caught up on getting ass they lose self worth
It’s crazy how black men have the control in terms of deciding to married a woman or having a relationship with a woman, but it’s like the black women got these dudes by they neck telling them to put a ring on it or listen to what I say or u not getting any puzzy and brothers minds are so caught up on getting ass they lose self worth
I think I need to restate there is a difference between these dudes who CANT get women, and dudes who have no problem with getting women but more so feel the return on their investment is minimal for the risk being taken on.
He does need to address the pay for everything thing. He tells women to get with 30k men, then tells men to pay for everything. The math doesn’t work in this modern society
He does need to address the pay for everything thing. He tells women to get with 30k men, then tells men to pay for everything. The math doesn’t work in this modern society
That's the thing with Kev I don't know many western modern man who is going to pay for everything 100 percent in a marriage. Majority of men who watch his shows have seen Women in the workforce and I bet hardly any of these men's mothers were stay at home wives. Like I agree with Kev but men that are making money are still having issues with modern women. The old school nikkaz like him that are providing for everything are looking like human licks out here. Which some women don't even respect the hard work put into that because they are working just as hard.
He does need to address the pay for everything thing. He tells women to get with 30k men, then tells men to pay for everything. The math doesn’t work in this modern society
I think the pay for everything is for the dudes that can, the top men. And the dudes that are average need to get someone that can make a deal with. Which is his point people that are average get what they can. Which isn’t bad. It’s just that the average woman(in this environment)want a nikka with the bag. I will say some dudes think they deserve a bad bytch.
He’s mostly talking about older men and women
A lot of people seem to leave that out
I know that message gets lost in the sauce but if you are in your mid to late 30s and above
You know what it is at that point and you either
p*ssy footing around
Really have no desire to get married
Still living with the demons of the past in your head
You will truly never know a woman
I don’t care how much you think you are vetting her
There are just no guarantees in life
If you meet a woman who aligns with your ideologies, shows compassion, the ability to critically think, has a motherly essence and let’s you be who you are when the lights go out/when the mask comes off
Why waste time, if you are marriage minded
I knew my current was it for me after one month
I didn’t tell her that but I knew it
Got married at month 9 and best decision of my life outside of my daughter
Lets be really real here
As a man you really shouldn’t be dating if that’s all you are making
Now here me out
I wish we lived in an idealistic world where you could meet a woman who truly wants you for you
Sees all the good in you
But women’s nature(no matter the color) wants two basic things
Security/protection
If you out here in these streets chasing tail
But you are barely getting by on your own
Something is wrong with your math
As a young man
I didn’t have my shyt together but I was getting women purely off of three things
The university I went to
Potential they saw based off my degrees
Apartment on the outer part of San Francisco proper
They “figured” I had my shyt together but I was struggling like a mofo
Working three(two regular/one on campus) jobs and barely making rent
Had women paying for me when we went out or if they came over
But that shyt got old to them and it did leave me feeling some kind of way
And my first love got tired of supporting me when I was lost outchea still trying to figure it out
I was mad about that for years but it clicked one day
I wasn’t mad at her, I was mad at me
Men have an innate feeling even if we are with a woman that has no problem with taking care of us
We want to provide for our families, friends
We want to protect them at all cost
That’s our cross to bare in this world
So if you out here dating and have no true focus/purpose
And you get somebody pregnant and you know you can’t afford to be a father
What the fukk are you doing with your life
As much as we blame women in these situations
Let’s stop the bullshyt
nikkas is out here weak and putting in the bare minimum to get by
But as soon as that responsibility comes
It’s a bunch of juelzing
If you are not in the position to take care of a mistake baby
You really shouldn’t be out in these streets
A lot of us were mistake babies(yeah I know this thecoli and your parents all conceived you out of love)
But this is a consideration men need to consider if you out here getting it in
I think KS message is women need to give men that are actually working hard
Have a decent blue collared career with no debt, owns his own shyt, has good character and shows he can steadily provide/protect a chance
Just like I would tell any man
Yeah you may want a Draya Michele(insert whoever you think is bad)
But are you ready to deal with the up keep, the headaches of nikkas always hitting on her, her checkered past
Why not get with an adjustable 6/7 that shows good moral fibers and actually likes you a chance
You can always teach somebody how to fukk
But you can’t teach somebody to listen or other innate tangibles
Also, I went to a dinner party last night, on everything, every single women there (all white women) were either married or engaged lol. All under 23 too. It’s interesting to note
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