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looks like someone greenlighted kevin
expect The View to have a whole episode on bashin him soon
How pseudo-love guru Kevin Samuels exploits the vulnerability of Black women
Eartha Hopkins
Mon, May 17, 2021, 6:28 PM·7 min read
OPINION: In a racist, white supremacist environment, Samuels’ assertions only affirm an Anglo-Saxon ideology using Black women as an easy scapegoat
Kevin Samuels is a YouTube sensation and self-appointed “professional image consultant.” His meteoric rise to fame on social media arose from his slick-tongue comments aimed at, in particular, Black women. His advice to ‘modern Black woman’ searching for a “high-value man” mixes hard truths with a dose of entertainment.
His platform opens a space for much-needed conversations addressing women’s accountability in relationships; however, his framework is rooted in an imperialist worldview that subtly reinforces anti-Blackness. Like so many YouTube experts before him, he exploits the pain and vulnerability of Black women’s quest for love while the world watches for recreation.
On his platform, Samuels says his perspective represents the modern, high-value Black man while cautioning women opposing this perspective. In a racist, white supremacist environment, Kevin Samuels’ assertions only affirm an Anglo-Saxon ideology using Black women as an easy scapegoat.
Unrealistic Expectations
Samuels maintains “the market” defines a high-value man by six core principles: a man’s ability to make at least $10,000 monthly for at least five years, the acceptance from a group of other high-value men, access to a network, like a fraternity, high visibility of a man’s position, and utility of that group. The caveat is that his definition makes former Vice President Donald Trump look like a promising suitor.
Eartha Hopkins
Mon, May 17, 2021, 6:28 PM·7 min read
OPINION: In a racist, white supremacist environment, Samuels’ assertions only affirm an Anglo-Saxon ideology using Black women as an easy scapegoat
Kevin Samuels is a YouTube sensation and self-appointed “professional image consultant.” His meteoric rise to fame on social media arose from his slick-tongue comments aimed at, in particular, Black women. His advice to ‘modern Black woman’ searching for a “high-value man” mixes hard truths with a dose of entertainment.
His platform opens a space for much-needed conversations addressing women’s accountability in relationships; however, his framework is rooted in an imperialist worldview that subtly reinforces anti-Blackness. Like so many YouTube experts before him, he exploits the pain and vulnerability of Black women’s quest for love while the world watches for recreation.
On his platform, Samuels says his perspective represents the modern, high-value Black man while cautioning women opposing this perspective. In a racist, white supremacist environment, Kevin Samuels’ assertions only affirm an Anglo-Saxon ideology using Black women as an easy scapegoat.
Unrealistic Expectations
Samuels maintains “the market” defines a high-value man by six core principles: a man’s ability to make at least $10,000 monthly for at least five years, the acceptance from a group of other high-value men, access to a network, like a fraternity, high visibility of a man’s position, and utility of that group. The caveat is that his definition makes former Vice President Donald Trump look like a promising suitor.
Suppose Black women take his advice at face value. In that case, it creates an unrealistic aspiration of seeking a Black male partner, with the median income for Black men being $814 weekly and only 10% of America’s total population of men earning six figures. Not to mention, incarceration rates for Black men are double that of white men in the U.S. It’s nearly impossible for these men to qualify for the remaining principals.
Rather than use these statistics as a guiding post to compel Black women to reframe their definitions and expectations of potential Black male mates, he instead uses women’s desire for stability by comparing Black men against a white-male standard, labeling lower earners as “average.” This basic premise places Black men in a seemingly undesirable position by default while leading women down a dead-end path to seek an unrealistic minority of the male population.
Objectification of Women
To add fuel to the fire, Kevin Samuels often ranks his guests using his coined term, their “sexual marketplace value,” and bases their attractiveness on height, weight, dress size, and physical features. If, to his belief, a woman is “below average” or an eight or less on a 10-point scale, he suggests they lower their standards of attraction to high-value men and settle for men deemed average, or worse, less than average, to meet their personal and relational needs.
In one video, Samuels compares a Black woman’s physique to former NFL linebackers Emmitt Smith and Barry Sanders, claiming that her weight reduces her options for companionship.
“You’re a running-back size. You could get the A gap like a motherf###ker. So don’t come up in here talking about what men can and cannot do when they got to accept somebody who could run out the power eye,” he facetiously continues, “You should be so grateful that a high-value man would pick you over a woman who is 5’4, 120 pounds, and a dress size four.”
Misogynoir
This “tough-love” advice oozes misogynoir, amplifying a historically racist and westernized view of beauty that only serves to demean and Black women.
If that were not indicative enough of how his Eurocentric perspective leaves Black women open for attack, his hyper-focus on surface discourse surely seals the deal. He consistently perpetuates click-bait conversations that incite reality-TV-esque squabbles. But, is unable to properly acknowledge white supremacy as the driving force behind this divisiveness. Instead, he plays a trope role of antagonist against Black women.
In the same breath, Kevin Samuels casually references author Shahrazad Ali’s book, “The Blackman’s Guide To Understanding The Black Woman,” to discipline women’s behaviors, he also quickly follows simultaneously encouraging Black women to follow white women’s lead and allow their high-value men to explore options of multiple mistresses.
His short-sightedness concerning the impact of racism seemingly aims only to blame the oppressed for being oppressed, citing Black people’s need to become a more “competitive people,” while accusing Black people of remaining in ‘victimhood.’ Samuels recently appeared as a guest on The Lapeef Let’s Talk Show, where he provided his insight on women feeling pressured to showcase their natural beauty. When asked about racism, he replied, “It’s not about racism. It’s about winners and losers.”
Toxic Masculinity
Kevin Samuels is the poster child for a group of Black men in dire need of love and acceptance from the world. His bootstraps rhetoric screams, “pick me,” from white men who clearly have no interest in doing so. He serves Uncle Ruckus vibes on a platter using every statistic he can find to project his own internalized self-hatred. It’s absolutely egregious and dangerous that this man who has been on the planet for more than half a century would proudly encourage assimilation as a viable solution to the relationship woes between Black women and men of today.
If he is the “Godfather,” responsible for leading the new wave of Black male masculinity, it would seem odd that his first victims would be Black women who, even today, are his greatest allies.
False expertise
Another problematic aspect of Samuels’s premise is the fact that he is claiming expertise on a topic that he’s clearly unqualified to address. According to LinkedIn, he studied chemical engineering and had a series of sales roles before becoming an image consultant.
With no background in marriage and relationship therapy, psychology, gender-related issues, or anything relevant to his platform, he spews out “advice” devoid of social context. He blatantly ignores gender and racial socialization and refuses to address the history of racist, sexist ideals or the role of societal oppression in the way Black women are viewed. He perpetuates deep-seated myths and stereotypes about Black women as inherently flawed and lacking value outside of their sex appeal.
Samuels uses a distorted, uninformed lens to spread a harmful agenda. By doing this, he joins the ranks of other fake relationship experts who lack actual expertise but who have a lot to say about what Black women need to do in order to “get a man.” In an age in which anyone can get a platform no matter how unqualified they are, men such as Samuels are profiting off of racist and sexist narratives that justify the mistreatment of Black women.
Internalized hatred
When Black women allow pseudo-relationship gurus like him and others to determine their value and potential as a partner by white standards, they open themselves to continuous self-infliction, tragic self-esteem levels, and, quite frankly, decision-making rooted in predominately opinion-based information rather than facts.
When it comes to love, unfortunately, there is no Eurocentric rubric capable of quantifying this. One must also consider the source of any given advice — is the source adequately educated? Does the source have the necessary cultural lens and experience to provide consultation and have they, themselves, healed internal trauma to project others down “the right path of love?”
It’s hard to tell when advice is sought from an overnight Instagram and YouTube celebrity who may fizzle out of fame once he faces his own internal demons.
expect The View to have a whole episode on bashin him soon
How pseudo-love guru Kevin Samuels exploits the vulnerability of Black women
Eartha Hopkins
Mon, May 17, 2021, 6:28 PM·7 min read
OPINION: In a racist, white supremacist environment, Samuels’ assertions only affirm an Anglo-Saxon ideology using Black women as an easy scapegoat
Kevin Samuels is a YouTube sensation and self-appointed “professional image consultant.” His meteoric rise to fame on social media arose from his slick-tongue comments aimed at, in particular, Black women. His advice to ‘modern Black woman’ searching for a “high-value man” mixes hard truths with a dose of entertainment.
His platform opens a space for much-needed conversations addressing women’s accountability in relationships; however, his framework is rooted in an imperialist worldview that subtly reinforces anti-Blackness. Like so many YouTube experts before him, he exploits the pain and vulnerability of Black women’s quest for love while the world watches for recreation.
On his platform, Samuels says his perspective represents the modern, high-value Black man while cautioning women opposing this perspective. In a racist, white supremacist environment, Kevin Samuels’ assertions only affirm an Anglo-Saxon ideology using Black women as an easy scapegoat.
Unrealistic Expectations
Samuels maintains “the market” defines a high-value man by six core principles: a man’s ability to make at least $10,000 monthly for at least five years, the acceptance from a group of other high-value men, access to a network, like a fraternity, high visibility of a man’s position, and utility of that group. The caveat is that his definition makes former Vice President Donald Trump look like a promising suitor.
Eartha Hopkins
Mon, May 17, 2021, 6:28 PM·7 min read
OPINION: In a racist, white supremacist environment, Samuels’ assertions only affirm an Anglo-Saxon ideology using Black women as an easy scapegoat
Kevin Samuels is a YouTube sensation and self-appointed “professional image consultant.” His meteoric rise to fame on social media arose from his slick-tongue comments aimed at, in particular, Black women. His advice to ‘modern Black woman’ searching for a “high-value man” mixes hard truths with a dose of entertainment.
His platform opens a space for much-needed conversations addressing women’s accountability in relationships; however, his framework is rooted in an imperialist worldview that subtly reinforces anti-Blackness. Like so many YouTube experts before him, he exploits the pain and vulnerability of Black women’s quest for love while the world watches for recreation.
On his platform, Samuels says his perspective represents the modern, high-value Black man while cautioning women opposing this perspective. In a racist, white supremacist environment, Kevin Samuels’ assertions only affirm an Anglo-Saxon ideology using Black women as an easy scapegoat.
Unrealistic Expectations
Samuels maintains “the market” defines a high-value man by six core principles: a man’s ability to make at least $10,000 monthly for at least five years, the acceptance from a group of other high-value men, access to a network, like a fraternity, high visibility of a man’s position, and utility of that group. The caveat is that his definition makes former Vice President Donald Trump look like a promising suitor.
Suppose Black women take his advice at face value. In that case, it creates an unrealistic aspiration of seeking a Black male partner, with the median income for Black men being $814 weekly and only 10% of America’s total population of men earning six figures. Not to mention, incarceration rates for Black men are double that of white men in the U.S. It’s nearly impossible for these men to qualify for the remaining principals.
Rather than use these statistics as a guiding post to compel Black women to reframe their definitions and expectations of potential Black male mates, he instead uses women’s desire for stability by comparing Black men against a white-male standard, labeling lower earners as “average.” This basic premise places Black men in a seemingly undesirable position by default while leading women down a dead-end path to seek an unrealistic minority of the male population.
Objectification of Women
To add fuel to the fire, Kevin Samuels often ranks his guests using his coined term, their “sexual marketplace value,” and bases their attractiveness on height, weight, dress size, and physical features. If, to his belief, a woman is “below average” or an eight or less on a 10-point scale, he suggests they lower their standards of attraction to high-value men and settle for men deemed average, or worse, less than average, to meet their personal and relational needs.
In one video, Samuels compares a Black woman’s physique to former NFL linebackers Emmitt Smith and Barry Sanders, claiming that her weight reduces her options for companionship.
“You’re a running-back size. You could get the A gap like a motherf###ker. So don’t come up in here talking about what men can and cannot do when they got to accept somebody who could run out the power eye,” he facetiously continues, “You should be so grateful that a high-value man would pick you over a woman who is 5’4, 120 pounds, and a dress size four.”
Misogynoir
This “tough-love” advice oozes misogynoir, amplifying a historically racist and westernized view of beauty that only serves to demean and Black women.
If that were not indicative enough of how his Eurocentric perspective leaves Black women open for attack, his hyper-focus on surface discourse surely seals the deal. He consistently perpetuates click-bait conversations that incite reality-TV-esque squabbles. But, is unable to properly acknowledge white supremacy as the driving force behind this divisiveness. Instead, he plays a trope role of antagonist against Black women.
In the same breath, Kevin Samuels casually references author Shahrazad Ali’s book, “The Blackman’s Guide To Understanding The Black Woman,” to discipline women’s behaviors, he also quickly follows simultaneously encouraging Black women to follow white women’s lead and allow their high-value men to explore options of multiple mistresses.
His short-sightedness concerning the impact of racism seemingly aims only to blame the oppressed for being oppressed, citing Black people’s need to become a more “competitive people,” while accusing Black people of remaining in ‘victimhood.’ Samuels recently appeared as a guest on The Lapeef Let’s Talk Show, where he provided his insight on women feeling pressured to showcase their natural beauty. When asked about racism, he replied, “It’s not about racism. It’s about winners and losers.”
Toxic Masculinity
Kevin Samuels is the poster child for a group of Black men in dire need of love and acceptance from the world. His bootstraps rhetoric screams, “pick me,” from white men who clearly have no interest in doing so. He serves Uncle Ruckus vibes on a platter using every statistic he can find to project his own internalized self-hatred. It’s absolutely egregious and dangerous that this man who has been on the planet for more than half a century would proudly encourage assimilation as a viable solution to the relationship woes between Black women and men of today.
If he is the “Godfather,” responsible for leading the new wave of Black male masculinity, it would seem odd that his first victims would be Black women who, even today, are his greatest allies.
False expertise
Another problematic aspect of Samuels’s premise is the fact that he is claiming expertise on a topic that he’s clearly unqualified to address. According to LinkedIn, he studied chemical engineering and had a series of sales roles before becoming an image consultant.
With no background in marriage and relationship therapy, psychology, gender-related issues, or anything relevant to his platform, he spews out “advice” devoid of social context. He blatantly ignores gender and racial socialization and refuses to address the history of racist, sexist ideals or the role of societal oppression in the way Black women are viewed. He perpetuates deep-seated myths and stereotypes about Black women as inherently flawed and lacking value outside of their sex appeal.
Samuels uses a distorted, uninformed lens to spread a harmful agenda. By doing this, he joins the ranks of other fake relationship experts who lack actual expertise but who have a lot to say about what Black women need to do in order to “get a man.” In an age in which anyone can get a platform no matter how unqualified they are, men such as Samuels are profiting off of racist and sexist narratives that justify the mistreatment of Black women.
Internalized hatred
When Black women allow pseudo-relationship gurus like him and others to determine their value and potential as a partner by white standards, they open themselves to continuous self-infliction, tragic self-esteem levels, and, quite frankly, decision-making rooted in predominately opinion-based information rather than facts.
When it comes to love, unfortunately, there is no Eurocentric rubric capable of quantifying this. One must also consider the source of any given advice — is the source adequately educated? Does the source have the necessary cultural lens and experience to provide consultation and have they, themselves, healed internal trauma to project others down “the right path of love?”
It’s hard to tell when advice is sought from an overnight Instagram and YouTube celebrity who may fizzle out of fame once he faces his own internal demons.
looks like someone greenlighted kevin
expect The View to have a whole episode on bashin him soon
How pseudo-love guru Kevin Samuels exploits the vulnerability of Black women
Eartha Hopkins
Mon, May 17, 2021, 6:28 PM·7 min read
OPINION: In a racist, white supremacist environment, Samuels’ assertions only affirm an Anglo-Saxon ideology using Black women as an easy scapegoat
Kevin Samuels is a YouTube sensation and self-appointed “professional image consultant.” His meteoric rise to fame on social media arose from his slick-tongue comments aimed at, in particular, Black women. His advice to ‘modern Black woman’ searching for a “high-value man” mixes hard truths with a dose of entertainment.
His platform opens a space for much-needed conversations addressing women’s accountability in relationships; however, his framework is rooted in an imperialist worldview that subtly reinforces anti-Blackness. Like so many YouTube experts before him, he exploits the pain and vulnerability of Black women’s quest for love while the world watches for recreation.
On his platform, Samuels says his perspective represents the modern, high-value Black man while cautioning women opposing this perspective. In a racist, white supremacist environment, Kevin Samuels’ assertions only affirm an Anglo-Saxon ideology using Black women as an easy scapegoat.
Unrealistic Expectations
Samuels maintains “the market” defines a high-value man by six core principles: a man’s ability to make at least $10,000 monthly for at least five years, the acceptance from a group of other high-value men, access to a network, like a fraternity, high visibility of a man’s position, and utility of that group. The caveat is that his definition makes former Vice President Donald Trump look like a promising suitor.
Eartha Hopkins
Mon, May 17, 2021, 6:28 PM·7 min read
OPINION: In a racist, white supremacist environment, Samuels’ assertions only affirm an Anglo-Saxon ideology using Black women as an easy scapegoat
Kevin Samuels is a YouTube sensation and self-appointed “professional image consultant.” His meteoric rise to fame on social media arose from his slick-tongue comments aimed at, in particular, Black women. His advice to ‘modern Black woman’ searching for a “high-value man” mixes hard truths with a dose of entertainment.
His platform opens a space for much-needed conversations addressing women’s accountability in relationships; however, his framework is rooted in an imperialist worldview that subtly reinforces anti-Blackness. Like so many YouTube experts before him, he exploits the pain and vulnerability of Black women’s quest for love while the world watches for recreation.
On his platform, Samuels says his perspective represents the modern, high-value Black man while cautioning women opposing this perspective. In a racist, white supremacist environment, Kevin Samuels’ assertions only affirm an Anglo-Saxon ideology using Black women as an easy scapegoat.
Unrealistic Expectations
Samuels maintains “the market” defines a high-value man by six core principles: a man’s ability to make at least $10,000 monthly for at least five years, the acceptance from a group of other high-value men, access to a network, like a fraternity, high visibility of a man’s position, and utility of that group. The caveat is that his definition makes former Vice President Donald Trump look like a promising suitor.
Suppose Black women take his advice at face value. In that case, it creates an unrealistic aspiration of seeking a Black male partner, with the median income for Black men being $814 weekly and only 10% of America’s total population of men earning six figures. Not to mention, incarceration rates for Black men are double that of white men in the U.S. It’s nearly impossible for these men to qualify for the remaining principals.
Rather than use these statistics as a guiding post to compel Black women to reframe their definitions and expectations of potential Black male mates, he instead uses women’s desire for stability by comparing Black men against a white-male standard, labeling lower earners as “average.” This basic premise places Black men in a seemingly undesirable position by default while leading women down a dead-end path to seek an unrealistic minority of the male population.
Objectification of Women
To add fuel to the fire, Kevin Samuels often ranks his guests using his coined term, their “sexual marketplace value,” and bases their attractiveness on height, weight, dress size, and physical features. If, to his belief, a woman is “below average” or an eight or less on a 10-point scale, he suggests they lower their standards of attraction to high-value men and settle for men deemed average, or worse, less than average, to meet their personal and relational needs.
In one video, Samuels compares a Black woman’s physique to former NFL linebackers Emmitt Smith and Barry Sanders, claiming that her weight reduces her options for companionship.
“You’re a running-back size. You could get the A gap like a motherf###ker. So don’t come up in here talking about what men can and cannot do when they got to accept somebody who could run out the power eye,” he facetiously continues, “You should be so grateful that a high-value man would pick you over a woman who is 5’4, 120 pounds, and a dress size four.”
Misogynoir
This “tough-love” advice oozes misogynoir, amplifying a historically racist and westernized view of beauty that only serves to demean and Black women.
If that were not indicative enough of how his Eurocentric perspective leaves Black women open for attack, his hyper-focus on surface discourse surely seals the deal. He consistently perpetuates click-bait conversations that incite reality-TV-esque squabbles. But, is unable to properly acknowledge white supremacy as the driving force behind this divisiveness. Instead, he plays a trope role of antagonist against Black women.
In the same breath, Kevin Samuels casually references author Shahrazad Ali’s book, “The Blackman’s Guide To Understanding The Black Woman,” to discipline women’s behaviors, he also quickly follows simultaneously encouraging Black women to follow white women’s lead and allow their high-value men to explore options of multiple mistresses.
His short-sightedness concerning the impact of racism seemingly aims only to blame the oppressed for being oppressed, citing Black people’s need to become a more “competitive people,” while accusing Black people of remaining in ‘victimhood.’ Samuels recently appeared as a guest on The Lapeef Let’s Talk Show, where he provided his insight on women feeling pressured to showcase their natural beauty. When asked about racism, he replied, “It’s not about racism. It’s about winners and losers.”
Toxic Masculinity
Kevin Samuels is the poster child for a group of Black men in dire need of love and acceptance from the world. His bootstraps rhetoric screams, “pick me,” from white men who clearly have no interest in doing so. He serves Uncle Ruckus vibes on a platter using every statistic he can find to project his own internalized self-hatred. It’s absolutely egregious and dangerous that this man who has been on the planet for more than half a century would proudly encourage assimilation as a viable solution to the relationship woes between Black women and men of today.
If he is the “Godfather,” responsible for leading the new wave of Black male masculinity, it would seem odd that his first victims would be Black women who, even today, are his greatest allies.
False expertise
Another problematic aspect of Samuels’s premise is the fact that he is claiming expertise on a topic that he’s clearly unqualified to address. According to LinkedIn, he studied chemical engineering and had a series of sales roles before becoming an image consultant.
With no background in marriage and relationship therapy, psychology, gender-related issues, or anything relevant to his platform, he spews out “advice” devoid of social context. He blatantly ignores gender and racial socialization and refuses to address the history of racist, sexist ideals or the role of societal oppression in the way Black women are viewed. He perpetuates deep-seated myths and stereotypes about Black women as inherently flawed and lacking value outside of their sex appeal.
Samuels uses a distorted, uninformed lens to spread a harmful agenda. By doing this, he joins the ranks of other fake relationship experts who lack actual expertise but who have a lot to say about what Black women need to do in order to “get a man.” In an age in which anyone can get a platform no matter how unqualified they are, men such as Samuels are profiting off of racist and sexist narratives that justify the mistreatment of Black women.
Internalized hatred
When Black women allow pseudo-relationship gurus like him and others to determine their value and potential as a partner by white standards, they open themselves to continuous self-infliction, tragic self-esteem levels, and, quite frankly, decision-making rooted in predominately opinion-based information rather than facts.
When it comes to love, unfortunately, there is no Eurocentric rubric capable of quantifying this. One must also consider the source of any given advice — is the source adequately educated? Does the source have the necessary cultural lens and experience to provide consultation and have they, themselves, healed internal trauma to project others down “the right path of love?”
It’s hard to tell when advice is sought from an overnight Instagram and YouTube celebrity who may fizzle out of fame once he faces his own internal demons.
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looks like someone greenlighted kevin
expect The View to have a whole episode on bashin him soon
How pseudo-love guru Kevin Samuels exploits the vulnerability of Black women
Eartha Hopkins
Mon, May 17, 2021, 6:28 PM·7 min read
OPINION: In a racist, white supremacist environment, Samuels’ assertions only affirm an Anglo-Saxon ideology using Black women as an easy scapegoat
Kevin Samuels is a YouTube sensation and self-appointed “professional image consultant.” His meteoric rise to fame on social media arose from his slick-tongue comments aimed at, in particular, Black women. His advice to ‘modern Black woman’ searching for a “high-value man” mixes hard truths with a dose of entertainment.
His platform opens a space for much-needed conversations addressing women’s accountability in relationships; however, his framework is rooted in an imperialist worldview that subtly reinforces anti-Blackness. Like so many YouTube experts before him, he exploits the pain and vulnerability of Black women’s quest for love while the world watches for recreation.
On his platform, Samuels says his perspective represents the modern, high-value Black man while cautioning women opposing this perspective. In a racist, white supremacist environment, Kevin Samuels’ assertions only affirm an Anglo-Saxon ideology using Black women as an easy scapegoat.
Unrealistic Expectations
Samuels maintains “the market” defines a high-value man by six core principles: a man’s ability to make at least $10,000 monthly for at least five years, the acceptance from a group of other high-value men, access to a network, like a fraternity, high visibility of a man’s position, and utility of that group. The caveat is that his definition makes former Vice President Donald Trump look like a promising suitor.
Eartha Hopkins
Mon, May 17, 2021, 6:28 PM·7 min read
OPINION: In a racist, white supremacist environment, Samuels’ assertions only affirm an Anglo-Saxon ideology using Black women as an easy scapegoat
Kevin Samuels is a YouTube sensation and self-appointed “professional image consultant.” His meteoric rise to fame on social media arose from his slick-tongue comments aimed at, in particular, Black women. His advice to ‘modern Black woman’ searching for a “high-value man” mixes hard truths with a dose of entertainment.
His platform opens a space for much-needed conversations addressing women’s accountability in relationships; however, his framework is rooted in an imperialist worldview that subtly reinforces anti-Blackness. Like so many YouTube experts before him, he exploits the pain and vulnerability of Black women’s quest for love while the world watches for recreation.
On his platform, Samuels says his perspective represents the modern, high-value Black man while cautioning women opposing this perspective. In a racist, white supremacist environment, Kevin Samuels’ assertions only affirm an Anglo-Saxon ideology using Black women as an easy scapegoat.
Unrealistic Expectations
Samuels maintains “the market” defines a high-value man by six core principles: a man’s ability to make at least $10,000 monthly for at least five years, the acceptance from a group of other high-value men, access to a network, like a fraternity, high visibility of a man’s position, and utility of that group. The caveat is that his definition makes former Vice President Donald Trump look like a promising suitor.
Suppose Black women take his advice at face value. In that case, it creates an unrealistic aspiration of seeking a Black male partner, with the median income for Black men being $814 weekly and only 10% of America’s total population of men earning six figures. Not to mention, incarceration rates for Black men are double that of white men in the U.S. It’s nearly impossible for these men to qualify for the remaining principals.
Rather than use these statistics as a guiding post to compel Black women to reframe their definitions and expectations of potential Black male mates, he instead uses women’s desire for stability by comparing Black men against a white-male standard, labeling lower earners as “average.” This basic premise places Black men in a seemingly undesirable position by default while leading women down a dead-end path to seek an unrealistic minority of the male population.
Objectification of Women
To add fuel to the fire, Kevin Samuels often ranks his guests using his coined term, their “sexual marketplace value,” and bases their attractiveness on height, weight, dress size, and physical features. If, to his belief, a woman is “below average” or an eight or less on a 10-point scale, he suggests they lower their standards of attraction to high-value men and settle for men deemed average, or worse, less than average, to meet their personal and relational needs.
In one video, Samuels compares a Black woman’s physique to former NFL linebackers Emmitt Smith and Barry Sanders, claiming that her weight reduces her options for companionship.
“You’re a running-back size. You could get the A gap like a motherf###ker. So don’t come up in here talking about what men can and cannot do when they got to accept somebody who could run out the power eye,” he facetiously continues, “You should be so grateful that a high-value man would pick you over a woman who is 5’4, 120 pounds, and a dress size four.”
Misogynoir
This “tough-love” advice oozes misogynoir, amplifying a historically racist and westernized view of beauty that only serves to demean and Black women.
If that were not indicative enough of how his Eurocentric perspective leaves Black women open for attack, his hyper-focus on surface discourse surely seals the deal. He consistently perpetuates click-bait conversations that incite reality-TV-esque squabbles. But, is unable to properly acknowledge white supremacy as the driving force behind this divisiveness. Instead, he plays a trope role of antagonist against Black women.
In the same breath, Kevin Samuels casually references author Shahrazad Ali’s book, “The Blackman’s Guide To Understanding The Black Woman,” to discipline women’s behaviors, he also quickly follows simultaneously encouraging Black women to follow white women’s lead and allow their high-value men to explore options of multiple mistresses.
His short-sightedness concerning the impact of racism seemingly aims only to blame the oppressed for being oppressed, citing Black people’s need to become a more “competitive people,” while accusing Black people of remaining in ‘victimhood.’ Samuels recently appeared as a guest on The Lapeef Let’s Talk Show, where he provided his insight on women feeling pressured to showcase their natural beauty. When asked about racism, he replied, “It’s not about racism. It’s about winners and losers.”
Toxic Masculinity
Kevin Samuels is the poster child for a group of Black men in dire need of love and acceptance from the world. His bootstraps rhetoric screams, “pick me,” from white men who clearly have no interest in doing so. He serves Uncle Ruckus vibes on a platter using every statistic he can find to project his own internalized self-hatred. It’s absolutely egregious and dangerous that this man who has been on the planet for more than half a century would proudly encourage assimilation as a viable solution to the relationship woes between Black women and men of today.
If he is the “Godfather,” responsible for leading the new wave of Black male masculinity, it would seem odd that his first victims would be Black women who, even today, are his greatest allies.
False expertise
Another problematic aspect of Samuels’s premise is the fact that he is claiming expertise on a topic that he’s clearly unqualified to address. According to LinkedIn, he studied chemical engineering and had a series of sales roles before becoming an image consultant.
With no background in marriage and relationship therapy, psychology, gender-related issues, or anything relevant to his platform, he spews out “advice” devoid of social context. He blatantly ignores gender and racial socialization and refuses to address the history of racist, sexist ideals or the role of societal oppression in the way Black women are viewed. He perpetuates deep-seated myths and stereotypes about Black women as inherently flawed and lacking value outside of their sex appeal.
Samuels uses a distorted, uninformed lens to spread a harmful agenda. By doing this, he joins the ranks of other fake relationship experts who lack actual expertise but who have a lot to say about what Black women need to do in order to “get a man.” In an age in which anyone can get a platform no matter how unqualified they are, men such as Samuels are profiting off of racist and sexist narratives that justify the mistreatment of Black women.
Internalized hatred
When Black women allow pseudo-relationship gurus like him and others to determine their value and potential as a partner by white standards, they open themselves to continuous self-infliction, tragic self-esteem levels, and, quite frankly, decision-making rooted in predominately opinion-based information rather than facts.
When it comes to love, unfortunately, there is no Eurocentric rubric capable of quantifying this. One must also consider the source of any given advice — is the source adequately educated? Does the source have the necessary cultural lens and experience to provide consultation and have they, themselves, healed internal trauma to project others down “the right path of love?”
It’s hard to tell when advice is sought from an overnight Instagram and YouTube celebrity who may fizzle out of fame once he faces his own internal demons.
Ignorance. They’re literally flipping what KS is saying. He’s telling these women to marry those average guys, and stop self sabotaging potential happy, stable homes because they think there’s something “better” out there.
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This going off on his live.
5 foot five 185 pounds of arrogance.
5 foot five 185 pounds of arrogance.
He allowed that chick to lay out her premise yet she could not give a definitive answer to the statement she said 
DUCKED_OFF
Superstar
Her: European standards of beauty
Ks: Take the weave out then
Her:
Ks: Take the weave out then
Her:
What’s her alternative? It’s rhetorical, btw.
She deliberately omitted KS main points of it all. More importantly, women are wising up to the pander game and seeing that these people do not have their best intentions at heart. What upsets me is the disingenuous and corrupt nature of the dissenters of KS.
Another point, is they can’t beat the points and stats so they are trying another narrative because child support and gay ain’t work. Now, they are saying he is pushing eurocentric standards. By telling our women to lose weight, be more conscious of their health and diet, and value their fitness. All while being natural. Fighting tooth and nail with women who are set on wearing weaves and long, useless nails.
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For the posters who know a brother on YouTube by the name of MTR(Mediorce Tutorials and Reviews). He will have the Elder Sister Shahrazad on his show live this Sunday @ 7PM EST.
https://youtube.com/c/MediocreTutorialsandReviews
If Kevin can get the Elder on his show too.
I been asked that Kevin bring her own his show
Not sure why he hasn't reached out to the Godmother.
It doesn't matter, they offer no solutions for these Black Women and the women that see it, see it now. The cat is out the bag
HARLEM AL
Your broad loves me.....
Definitely out the bag.It doesn't matter, they offer no solutions for these Black Women and the women that see it, see it now. The cat is out the bag
ultraflexed
Superstar
This going off on his live.
5 foot five 185 pounds of arrogance.
Your being generous alot of them are well over 200 lbs
The Fade
I don’t argue with niqqas on the Internet anymore
looks like someone greenlighted kevin
expect The View to have a whole episode on bashin him soon
How pseudo-love guru Kevin Samuels exploits the vulnerability of Black women
Eartha Hopkins
Mon, May 17, 2021, 6:28 PM·7 min read
OPINION: In a racist, white supremacist environment, Samuels’ assertions only affirm an Anglo-Saxon ideology using Black women as an easy scapegoat
Kevin Samuels is a YouTube sensation and self-appointed “professional image consultant.” His meteoric rise to fame on social media arose from his slick-tongue comments aimed at, in particular, Black women. His advice to ‘modern Black woman’ searching for a “high-value man” mixes hard truths with a dose of entertainment.
His platform opens a space for much-needed conversations addressing women’s accountability in relationships; however, his framework is rooted in an imperialist worldview that subtly reinforces anti-Blackness. Like so many YouTube experts before him, he exploits the pain and vulnerability of Black women’s quest for love while the world watches for recreation.
On his platform, Samuels says his perspective represents the modern, high-value Black man while cautioning women opposing this perspective. In a racist, white supremacist environment, Kevin Samuels’ assertions only affirm an Anglo-Saxon ideology using Black women as an easy scapegoat.
Unrealistic Expectations
Samuels maintains “the market” defines a high-value man by six core principles: a man’s ability to make at least $10,000 monthly for at least five years, the acceptance from a group of other high-value men, access to a network, like a fraternity, high visibility of a man’s position, and utility of that group. The caveat is that his definition makes former Vice President Donald Trump look like a promising suitor.
Eartha Hopkins
Mon, May 17, 2021, 6:28 PM·7 min read
OPINION: In a racist, white supremacist environment, Samuels’ assertions only affirm an Anglo-Saxon ideology using Black women as an easy scapegoat
Kevin Samuels is a YouTube sensation and self-appointed “professional image consultant.” His meteoric rise to fame on social media arose from his slick-tongue comments aimed at, in particular, Black women. His advice to ‘modern Black woman’ searching for a “high-value man” mixes hard truths with a dose of entertainment.
His platform opens a space for much-needed conversations addressing women’s accountability in relationships; however, his framework is rooted in an imperialist worldview that subtly reinforces anti-Blackness. Like so many YouTube experts before him, he exploits the pain and vulnerability of Black women’s quest for love while the world watches for recreation.
On his platform, Samuels says his perspective represents the modern, high-value Black man while cautioning women opposing this perspective. In a racist, white supremacist environment, Kevin Samuels’ assertions only affirm an Anglo-Saxon ideology using Black women as an easy scapegoat.
Unrealistic Expectations
Samuels maintains “the market” defines a high-value man by six core principles: a man’s ability to make at least $10,000 monthly for at least five years, the acceptance from a group of other high-value men, access to a network, like a fraternity, high visibility of a man’s position, and utility of that group. The caveat is that his definition makes former Vice President Donald Trump look like a promising suitor.
Suppose Black women take his advice at face value. In that case, it creates an unrealistic aspiration of seeking a Black male partner, with the median income for Black men being $814 weekly and only 10% of America’s total population of men earning six figures. Not to mention, incarceration rates for Black men are double that of white men in the U.S. It’s nearly impossible for these men to qualify for the remaining principals.
Rather than use these statistics as a guiding post to compel Black women to reframe their definitions and expectations of potential Black male mates, he instead uses women’s desire for stability by comparing Black men against a white-male standard, labeling lower earners as “average.” This basic premise places Black men in a seemingly undesirable position by default while leading women down a dead-end path to seek an unrealistic minority of the male population.
Objectification of Women
To add fuel to the fire, Kevin Samuels often ranks his guests using his coined term, their “sexual marketplace value,” and bases their attractiveness on height, weight, dress size, and physical features. If, to his belief, a woman is “below average” or an eight or less on a 10-point scale, he suggests they lower their standards of attraction to high-value men and settle for men deemed average, or worse, less than average, to meet their personal and relational needs.
In one video, Samuels compares a Black woman’s physique to former NFL linebackers Emmitt Smith and Barry Sanders, claiming that her weight reduces her options for companionship.
“You’re a running-back size. You could get the A gap like a motherf###ker. So don’t come up in here talking about what men can and cannot do when they got to accept somebody who could run out the power eye,” he facetiously continues, “You should be so grateful that a high-value man would pick you over a woman who is 5’4, 120 pounds, and a dress size four.”
Misogynoir
This “tough-love” advice oozes misogynoir, amplifying a historically racist and westernized view of beauty that only serves to demean and Black women.
If that were not indicative enough of how his Eurocentric perspective leaves Black women open for attack, his hyper-focus on surface discourse surely seals the deal. He consistently perpetuates click-bait conversations that incite reality-TV-esque squabbles. But, is unable to properly acknowledge white supremacy as the driving force behind this divisiveness. Instead, he plays a trope role of antagonist against Black women.
In the same breath, Kevin Samuels casually references author Shahrazad Ali’s book, “The Blackman’s Guide To Understanding The Black Woman,” to discipline women’s behaviors, he also quickly follows simultaneously encouraging Black women to follow white women’s lead and allow their high-value men to explore options of multiple mistresses.
His short-sightedness concerning the impact of racism seemingly aims only to blame the oppressed for being oppressed, citing Black people’s need to become a more “competitive people,” while accusing Black people of remaining in ‘victimhood.’ Samuels recently appeared as a guest on The Lapeef Let’s Talk Show, where he provided his insight on women feeling pressured to showcase their natural beauty. When asked about racism, he replied, “It’s not about racism. It’s about winners and losers.”
Toxic Masculinity
Kevin Samuels is the poster child for a group of Black men in dire need of love and acceptance from the world. His bootstraps rhetoric screams, “pick me,” from white men who clearly have no interest in doing so. He serves Uncle Ruckus vibes on a platter using every statistic he can find to project his own internalized self-hatred. It’s absolutely egregious and dangerous that this man who has been on the planet for more than half a century would proudly encourage assimilation as a viable solution to the relationship woes between Black women and men of today.
If he is the “Godfather,” responsible for leading the new wave of Black male masculinity, it would seem odd that his first victims would be Black women who, even today, are his greatest allies.
False expertise
Another problematic aspect of Samuels’s premise is the fact that he is claiming expertise on a topic that he’s clearly unqualified to address. According to LinkedIn, he studied chemical engineering and had a series of sales roles before becoming an image consultant.
With no background in marriage and relationship therapy, psychology, gender-related issues, or anything relevant to his platform, he spews out “advice” devoid of social context. He blatantly ignores gender and racial socialization and refuses to address the history of racist, sexist ideals or the role of societal oppression in the way Black women are viewed. He perpetuates deep-seated myths and stereotypes about Black women as inherently flawed and lacking value outside of their sex appeal.
Samuels uses a distorted, uninformed lens to spread a harmful agenda. By doing this, he joins the ranks of other fake relationship experts who lack actual expertise but who have a lot to say about what Black women need to do in order to “get a man.” In an age in which anyone can get a platform no matter how unqualified they are, men such as Samuels are profiting off of racist and sexist narratives that justify the mistreatment of Black women.
Internalized hatred
When Black women allow pseudo-relationship gurus like him and others to determine their value and potential as a partner by white standards, they open themselves to continuous self-infliction, tragic self-esteem levels, and, quite frankly, decision-making rooted in predominately opinion-based information rather than facts.
When it comes to love, unfortunately, there is no Eurocentric rubric capable of quantifying this. One must also consider the source of any given advice — is the source adequately educated? Does the source have the necessary cultural lens and experience to provide consultation and have they, themselves, healed internal trauma to project others down “the right path of love?”
It’s hard to tell when advice is sought from an overnight Instagram and YouTube celebrity who may fizzle out of fame once he faces his own internal demons.
crazy how when you ask them to bring shyt, it's unrealistic standards. but those unrealistic standards for men are "bare minimum"
so who are the ones settling again?
the whole point of a high value man is the scarcity. and this bytch said it's nearly impossible for black men to be high earner cause they all in jail. this bytch is one of those people who thinks their shytty low quality circle of people is the whole community. I know black men making good HVM money but are moving like Al Haymon. The ones who are single have their pick. People who arent cliqued in shouldnt get to talk about this shyt
Yooo where’s the video for this lmaoHer: European standards of beauty
Ks: Take the weave out then
Her:
It doesn't matter, they offer no solutions for these Black Women and the women that see it, see it now. The cat is out the bag
Other groups of women are literally sitting in and taking notes so they can find their own group of men or a black man.