She did the right thing, if a person can't add value to another person's life it's best they leave rather than become a burden
And once you’ve experienced that it is hard to accept anything less.Luckily I've dated women who would go the extra mile to do stuff, so I know what effort looks like, random baked goods sent to my job for me, hand making cards, good birthday gifts, etc. It's the thought that counts forreal. When's the last time a chick asked you what your favorite animal was and then randomly got you something based on it? That's what a thoughtful partner will do forreal
Basic home upkeep shouldn't be viewed as some special act of love imo
I learned from that and started doing the extra things in relationships myself shyt goes a long way
alot of people really pull up putting minimal effort forward and expect you to fall in love with them somehow
Which is why they will date a ain’t shyt nikka. At least she’s honest I guess.
It’s really bigger than being independent though. She can’t make you the villain in her movie. When she eventually break up with him she don’t have a good reason to do so.