Piff Perkins
Veteran
Outfit doesn't bother me and I haven't seen any vids of Usher outright disrespecting her (he's not slapping her ass, grabbing her neck, kissing her, etc). If that outfit bothered me as a spouse or boyfriend I sure as fukk wouldn't air it out on twitter, even worse yet criticizing the mother of my child publicly. That's not how you should operate, period.
The thing that's more interesting - and quite telling - are the responses from women. I'm fine with "she can dress like that." Cool, whatever, the outfit doesn't look outrageous to me. But apparently as the breadwinner, Keke is in charge and what she says goes according to multiple viral reactions. And he should be happy playing the background and no one should know his name. And all this is coming from the brigade of women who say a man being friendly to another woman is a turnoff. A man smiling at another woman is disrespectful. A man liking women's pictures on social media is wrong. And it's disrespectful when the media describes a successful man's non-celeb wife as just "[insert name of man]'s wife," so she should get her own thing going too because you go girl.
My point is simple and two-fold: many women inherently understand traditional concepts of submissiveness when the roles are reversed, and many women are either lying about boundaries or believe they only exist for men in a relationship. Might be a good idea to figure all this out before you get into a committed relationship, fellas.
The thing that's more interesting - and quite telling - are the responses from women. I'm fine with "she can dress like that." Cool, whatever, the outfit doesn't look outrageous to me. But apparently as the breadwinner, Keke is in charge and what she says goes according to multiple viral reactions. And he should be happy playing the background and no one should know his name. And all this is coming from the brigade of women who say a man being friendly to another woman is a turnoff. A man smiling at another woman is disrespectful. A man liking women's pictures on social media is wrong. And it's disrespectful when the media describes a successful man's non-celeb wife as just "[insert name of man]'s wife," so she should get her own thing going too because you go girl.
My point is simple and two-fold: many women inherently understand traditional concepts of submissiveness when the roles are reversed, and many women are either lying about boundaries or believe they only exist for men in a relationship. Might be a good idea to figure all this out before you get into a committed relationship, fellas.
