Just tossed my Momma in the bushes.

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not everyone has “ideal” parents so I can’t judge...quite a few teaching experiences dealing w/ parents has made me realize there are some fukked up ppl out there and sometimes the only way to flourish/prosper is to get away from them or keep them away from you...sometimes parents confuse that “title” for being able to treat (or better yet mistreat) their children however they see fit and still expect that title to be upheld
 

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She was real toxic and verbally abusive brehs. She was also physically abusive when I was a youngin’ But that’s most black moms. She never changed as I grew older as far as narcissism and arrogance. She did something today that cost me a lot(and I mean ALOT) of bread then blamed me like I’m the one who fukked up. I said something like “see that’s why I don’t come around often. When you gonna grow up and learn how to speak to people”. She started going off with the insults and shyt talk and told me she never wants to hear from me again. I said “bet”. Numbers blocked and everything.

sometimes it needs to be done...if she has any decency about her/true love for you she will go out of her way to keep in touch w/ you EVEN IF you are not receptive to it initially
 

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Mothers are just random women who had children and you’re the child. That’s it. They’re not deities, they’re not gods, you bytch ass male feminists need to get a grip.
that “it’s mom” shyt doesn’t mean anything to some people who’ve never felt maternal love
Shut the fukk up cac

Family is the corner piece to community. Mothers aren't just random women who have kids.

Sounds like you slid out a junkies a$$hole
 
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Shut the fukk up cac

Family is the corner piece to community. Mothers aren't just random women who have kids.

Sounds like you slid out a junkies a$$hole
First of all, shut up. You and I both know you wouldn’t be talking like that if we were standing face to face.

Second of all, maybe in whatever culture you come from family is sacred but you’re not AA so you’re not regulating anything down here. In American culture, children are treated like accessories, people don’t put any thought into who they impregnate or who they let impregnate them. People are often times part time parents. People don’t look out for their children to the extent people in African or Asian cultures do. It’s extremely common for parents to not give their children the wisdom or resources to make it in this world while raising them and then throw them on the street at 18/19 years old. How are we supposed to treat parents as sacred deities when so many parens have such a dismissive view of their own children? It has to go both ways and it’s up to parents to lead by example and often times, they don’t

So I stand by what I said. In my culture, mothers are just random women who just had children. Most people are as a result of one night stands and most women down here are bird brains
 

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First of all, shut up. You and I both know you wouldn’t be talking like that if we were standing face to face.

Second of all, maybe in whatever culture you come from family is sacred but you’re not AA so you’re not regulating anything down here. In American culture, children are treated like accessories, people don’t put any thought into who they impregnate or who they let impregnate them. People are often times part time parents. People don’t look out for their children to the extent people in African or Asian cultures do. It’s extremely common for parents to not give their children the wisdom or resources to make it in this world while raising them and then throw them on the street at 18/19 years old. How are we supposed to treat parents as sacred deities when so many parens have such a dismissive view of their own children? It has to go both ways and it’s up to parents to lead by example and often times, they don’t

So I stand by what I said. In my culture, mothers are just random women who just had children. Most people are as a result of one night stands and most women down here are bird brains
nobody cares about your trailer park red neck meth head family sagas

move along.
 
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and no, it isn't "white boy shyt"

a nikka could be in here talking bout ":sadcam: my mom raped my 10 year old son, hit my safe and stole everything, and slashed my wife face with the razor on the way out"

cats would be like ":mjcry: I love my momma, she all I got. Maybe you should talk to yours and see what's going on in her life.... before it's too late"
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nobody cares about your trailer park red neck meth head family sagas

move along.
Over 70 percent of AA kids are raised in single parent households, most are accidents and many are treated as such and that’s not even accounting for the toxicity that can exist in 2 parent households. You may not care about my family but if you don’t care about a negative epidemic in my community than why are you even here? This is an AA forum. Go discuss Biafra and who has the best jollof somewhere on another website
 

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I mean I can't really relate, but there is no possible way you can work things out with her? It's the woman who gave birth to you breh. I loathe this cancel culture. Instead of fixing to work things out, I'm gonna block you!:stopitslime: Seems childish.
 
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I mean I can't really relate, but there is no possible way you can work things out with her? It's the woman who gave birth to you breh. I loathe this cancel culture. Instead of fixing to work things out, I'm gonna block you!:stopitslime: Seems childish.
No disrespect but you foreigners are doing way too much in here. Our family culture isn’t yours. What is so difficult to understand? You think every culture has close knit families? Some parents treat their kids like straight opps from the jump
 

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Over 70 percent of AA kids are raised in single parent households, most are accidents and many are treated as such and that’s not even accounting for the toxicity that can exist in 2 parent households. You may not care about my family but if you don’t care about a negative epidemic in my community than why are you even here? This is an AA forum. Go discuss Biafra and who has the best jollof somewhere on another website

you retarded or something cac, why would I discuss biafra and Jollof? You more West African than I am :laff:

This a forum started by a WHITE MAN AND A CARIBBEAN IMMIGRANT.

:umad:

You are basically going hard to say Black mothers/families ain't shyt. stop pretending you have any insight into a Black family cac
 
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