Just tossed my Momma in the bushes.

[AuntAnniesPretzels]

you retarded or something cac, why would I discuss biafra and Jollof? You more West African than I am

This a forum started by a WHITE MAN AND A CARIBBEAN IMMIGRANT.



You are basically going hard to say Black mothers/families ain't shyt. stop pretending you have any insight into a Black family cac

You’re acting like an emotional hoe.

I can only speak for my culture. I don’t know or give a fukk what goes on in any other culture but in MY community a large chunk of parents are dikkheads to their kids, not all (that should go without saying you fukking autist) but enough where it’s down right intellectually dishonest to pretend everyone has parents worthy of idolization

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

You’re acting like an emotional hoe.

I can only speak for my culture. I don’t know or give a fukk what goes on in any other culture but in MY community a large chunk of parents are dikkheads to their kids, not all (that should go without saying you fukking autist) but enough where it’s down right intellectually dishonest to pretend everyone has parents worthy of idolization

the only emotional hoe here is you and your attempt to make this an exclusive space. shut down denied... served a dose of reality and now you mad

lol @ saying mothers and family is bullshyt then talking about "my community" what a confused buffoon.

you can only speak for YOURSELF and you've said enough to tell me you don't come from people worth shyt. fukk you and ya mama

 

[feelosofer]

I don't blame you for feeling that way toward your mom, but this isn't something you might be able to work out?

 

[AuntAnniesPretzels]

the only emotional hoe here is you and your attempt to make this an exclusive space. shut down denied... served a dose of reality and now you mad

lol @ saying mothers and family is bullshyt then talking about "my community" what a confused buffoon.

you can only speak for YOURSELF and you've said enough to tell me you don't come from people worth shyt. fukk you and ya mama

I never said mothers and family is bullshyt. I said mothers are random women who had children, that’s it. Some are good, some are bad, some are in between. The idea we should all worship mothers off top is bullshyt. Fukk you and your siblings , your father and your entire bloodline. Your unborn kids and the ugly bytch who gave birth to your dumbass

 

[semicko82]

I never said mothers and family is bullshyt. I said mothers are random women who had children, that’s it. Some are good, some are bad, some are in between. The idea we should all worship mothers off top is bullshyt. Fukk you and your siblings , your father and your entire bloodline. Your unborn kids and the ugly bytch who gave birth to your dumbass

 

[Crimson_Dynamo]

She was real toxic and verbally abusive brehs. She was also physically abusive when I was a youngin’ But that’s most black moms. She never changed as I grew older as far as narcissism and arrogance. She did something today that cost me a lot(and I mean ALOT) of bread then blamed me like I’m the one who fukked up. I said something like “see that’s why I don’t come around often. When you gonna grow up and learn how to speak to people”. She started going off with the insults and shyt talk and told me she never wants to hear from me again. I said “bet”. Numbers blocked and everything.

I sympathize with u. Raised by a toxic abusive grandmother and I cut her off. Much happier about it.

 

[Crimson_Dynamo]

you only get one mom and she gave birth to you but at same time if she's gonna act a certain way and not change thats her fault. you still gotta check in cause its mom but maybe just call instead of stopping by.

No he doesn't

 

[Crimson_Dynamo]

Op thats your mum bro.
Your wrong for that.
Would never dream of putting my hands on any of my parents

expose yourself as a cac cause you don't understand what black people are saying crehs.

 

[xCivicx]

I bushed my mom for like 6 years

It was the absolute best thing to happen to our relationship

 

[semicko82]

I never said mothers and family is bullshyt. I said mothers are random women who had children, that’s it. Some are good, some are bad, some are in between. The idea we should all worship mothers off top is bullshyt. Fukk you and your siblings , your father and your entire bloodline. Your unborn kids and the ugly bytch who gave birth to your dumbass

I have to agree with you on the first half, some of the grimest chicks got a free pass for having a kid

 

[old pig]

expose yourself as a cac cause you don't understand what black people are saying crehs.

wait...so he thinks OP physically threw his mom in some bushes???

 

[fukkyalifestyle]

Mothers are just random women who had children and you’re the child. That’s it. They’re not deities, they’re not gods, you bytch ass male feminists need to get a grip.
that “it’s mom” shyt doesn’t mean anything to some people who’ve never felt maternal love

This is true to some, sorry yo uhad to experience this.

 

[AuntAnniesPretzels]

This is true to some, sorry yo uhad to experience this.

Appreciate you not being a homotional fakkit about it

 

[UpAndComing]

I'm willing to bet most black men can relate to OP on some level.

I know I can; I won't bush my mom. But we're not close like that and it's ok.

She has her own baggage that she grew up with, just can't let it be passed down to me and to my kids.

She's hypercritical, loyal to the wrong people, only accepts responsibility for failure when there's literally no one else left to blame but herself.
Every conversation I've had that could have helped our family out has been pushed aside cause she refused to see me as a competent adult man with real solutions to problems; we've lost hundreds of thousands as a result.

It's not even about love, she loves me for sure, it's about respect. She has none for her kids because she still sees us as exactly that; kids.

We can make fun of OP all we want, but really stop and think about everything I've mentioned, how you treat other women, and compare that to how your mom raised you. (Especially those of us who had a single mom). You might be surprised

I never got the "How you treat your mom equates how you treat women" phrase

I have seen plenty of men who have an amazing relationship with their mother and they're abusers, or men who ditched on their family

 

[Seoul Gleou]

I never got the "How you treat your mom equates how you treat women" phrase

I have seen plenty of men who have an amazing relationship with their mother and they're abusers, or men who ditched on their family

subconsciously men and women want to be with people that are like their mom or dad. that is our very first introduction to the opposite gender.
if we have bad relationships with our parents, we tend to carry the baggage into our own romantic relationships. sometimes we experience something called repetition compulsion; we basically seek out relationships that are like those of our youth with our parents.

if we have shytty relationships with parents or unrealistic perceptions of them, we project those onto other people unfairly.