DarkHorse23
Banned
So what's your suggestion for average looking guys? Should we just focus on ourselves and not worry about women
Just ONE example that cold-approaching females works
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Big Daddy
Fight or die fighting, no surrender.
Find your lane and stay in it. Just remember that you have to switch back and forth between lanes for smooth driving experiences.
If that's cold approach, casual acquaintances, online, or slow burns at spots where you know you'll see the same person regularly.
Cold approaching isn't for every man, but every man should try it at least a few times. its almost a right of passage at this point in the US.
There are alot of average loser that are boo'd up out here.
If that's cold approach, casual acquaintances, online, or slow burns at spots where you know you'll see the same person regularly.
Cold approaching isn't for every man, but every man should try it at least a few times. its almost a right of passage at this point in the US.
There are alot of average loser that are boo'd up out here.
Flywin Lannister
Superstar
I feel you. Which is probably why the key thing is to have your life together and have things going for yourself.
Many people let how their love/dating life is doing be a mirror of how valuable they are and how they are doing - which makes sense in a world obsessed with relationships.
So when you don't really have much going for yourself and you out there cold approaching 11 people in a row a day and getting 14 x no - that's no confidence boost.
The key element is that you are approaching not just with the concept of 'I want something from you and it's sex' but with the knowledge of 'I find you attractive and I have something to offer - beyond the whole sexual aspect of this - namely, I got confidence because my life tells me I'm doing something with it'. Now that it is sexy to people when someone has their stuff together, is no coincidence, but you need to derive confidence from you first.
Rejection sucks, it's the worst for everybody. Nobody wants to get a no. But a no is better than asking yourself what would've happened. And who knows, perhaps after a while of cold approaching and getting shot down you're like 'I'ma focus on getting my things together' and in doing so, meet someone with similar interests.. and bam.
How you feel about you matters - is super true, and because of that - don't be an actor and spit game and stuff, be YOU and make sure YOU is awesome and feels great. That is attractive.
DarkHorse23
Banned
Cold approaches don't work bruh.Seek female advice on how to be a man brehs
That's some weak shyt, yeah nobody likes rejection but a man HAS to get to a point he does not take it so damn personal, it's not that serious.
Marco Zen
Black Privilege
FukYaFeelings
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Y'all nikkas.
philmonroe
Superstar
Maybe you need to work on being more secure with yourself then fam if cats makes you uncomfortable just by talking to you. Also stop with the weak ass generalizations with the last sentence. Them shyts don't fly for either side male/female.
Big Daddy
Fight or die fighting, no surrender.
U got a nice ass body. That's really you with all those muscles
Thank you
Big Daddy
Fight or die fighting, no surrender.
nikkas in their feelings in this thread
I started the thread at an awkward time of night, and have basically been sleep and then working ever since..
Just now finally getting a chance to read through it. I'm fkn dying breh. So many feelings hurt, n!ggas is catching strays, females is preaching on how to be a man
GodsPerspective
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Breh lookin at your AviI started the thread at an awkward time of night, and have basically been sleep and then working ever since..
Just now finally getting a chance to read through it. I'm fkn dying breh. So many feelings hurt, n!ggas is catching strays, females is preaching on how to be a man
we got real similar body types but my chest ain't as defined. Can you give some tips on getting that shyt proper? Been working on this but I need some specific workouts.