Just ONE example that cold-approaching females works

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Reading is fundamental. A random man coming at me that I'm not interested in makes me uncomfortable. Us ladies talk about this all the time. Believe what u want. Next time a lady gives u a fake number you will think of me from the coli. Bye.

Y'all men are know it all when it comes to women:mjlol:

Why would we care if you give a fake number though? I tried, I failed.....I just move on :heh:
 

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This topic always expose certain types of dudes:pachaha:

Dudes literally in here like "go outside and talk to females? :scust:"

Jesus Christ, no wonder 80% of you gets no play:wow:

Its all a mindset. The dudes who don't give a fukk about being "rejected" are the ones who get the most play. Can't take it personal.

That feeling of regret of NOT speaking is the worse. Get back to your car like

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That regret is 10X worse than being shot down. It can haunt you for weeks, even months. We've all experienced this where you can't stop thinking about a girl that you were too scared to speak to:mjcry:

Matter fact I feel PROUD of myself even if I do get shot down. That feeling of not giving a fukk and approaching is :banderas: whether you're successful or get "rejected".

I used to be like you guys, scared to approach. But now its YOLO!!!:blessed:
 

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Breh lookin at your Avi:dame: we got real similar body types but my chest ain't as defined. Can you give some tips on getting that shyt proper? Been working on this but I need some specific workouts.
a lot of pushups breh. Do standard, military, wide, elevated(put your feet on a chair) etc.

Push ups blew my chest out. Also do bench press, chest presses with dumbbells (if that's what it's called I don't rememeber), etc.
 

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This topic always expose certain types of dudes:pachaha:

Dudes literally in here like "go outside and talk to females? :scust:"

Jesus Christ, no wonder 80% of you gets no play:wow:

Its all a mindset. The dudes who don't give a fukk about being "rejected" are the ones who get the most play. Can't take it personal.

That feeling of regret of NOT speaking is the worse. Get back to your car like

55QyvgE.jpg





That regret is 10X worse than being shot down. It can haunt you for weeks, even months. We've all experienced this where you can't stop thinking about a girl that you were too scared to speak to:mjcry:

Matter fact I feel PROUD of myself even if I do get shot down. That feeling of not giving a fukk and approaching is :banderas: whether you're successful or get "rejected".

I used to be like you guys, scared to approach. But now its YOLO!!!:blessed:
I agree but I've never pondered over a chick I didn't holla at for weeks let alone months. Maybe a day but that's about it. I need to start approaching more and have a I don't give a fukk attitude.
 

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Edward Scissorhands came thru with the facts :jawalrus:

It's easier to get at bytches in real life than social media by a 1000%. Women in real life lose a lot of their strength and mana perks and are reduced to a lower level.
Same bytches that would ignore your dms on Instagram would suck your dikk if you got their number in real life.
Plus approaching women in real life is a dying art form since nikkas have social media, you gonna stand out in her mind.

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A lotta real things been said in this thread so far. A couple arguments I'll get into:

1. Dimes being approached less than average woman
That shyt is real, 100%. You can see it in the mall, on the street or even in a random ass club. The real dimes are often happy to get approached/have someone talk to them because in general, most dudes are fukkin shook of those type of girls and the rejections they could probably get and so they just stare at these girls the whole night without actually saying a fukkin thing.

2.Looks aint everything
Another thing thats also true. You dont have to be a fukkin model to get hoes. I often see dudes who arent your "typical model dude" getting a lot of play from dimes, and thats because of the confidence, style & charisma they got. Of course you need to be dressed properly, smell good & shyt but you dont need to be a model. If your got those other points on lock, you'll have few issues with girls.

3.The rejection aspect
I used to be the exact same type of dude, with that mindset "Damn thats a hot girl but If I holla at her I bet she'll reject me" or "What if she says some mean shyt" bla bla bla. But the thing everybody needs to tell themselves again and again is "You miss 100% of the shots you dont take". So lets say youre getting rejected by 9 girls (trust me, thats exaggerated and wont really happen) and the 10th one is a wrap, you was still succesfull in the end, but if you dont approach any of them ALL OF THEM are a failure for yourself. What you also gotta know is the fact that if a girls rejects you, you probably wont see her again/have anything to do with her anymore so why the fukk should it bother you if she likes you or not ? Just keep it movin there are millions of hot girls out there, so what if one of them rejects you ? :yeshrug:


ps: bout to be in the city tomorrow (gotta get my watch fixed, real talk if I aint got a functioning watch I'm goin crazy), so the hunt gonna be on again :shaq:
 

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This topic always expose certain types of dudes:pachaha:

Dudes literally in here like "go outside and talk to females? :scust:"

Jesus Christ, no wonder 80% of you gets no play:wow:

Its all a mindset. The dudes who don't give a fukk about being "rejected" are the ones who get the most play. Can't take it personal.

That feeling of regret of NOT speaking is the worse. Get back to your car like

55QyvgE.jpg





That regret is 10X worse than being shot down. It can haunt you for weeks, even months. We've all experienced this where you can't stop thinking about a girl that you were too scared to speak to:mjcry:

Matter fact I feel PROUD of myself even if I do get shot down. That feeling of not giving a fukk and approaching is :banderas: whether you're successful or get "rejected".

I used to be like you guys, scared to approach. But now its YOLO!!!:blessed:



You see it :salute:
 

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Cold approach is why y'all get fake numbers or you get real numbers but we block you or never respond to you. Every guy that has put me on the spot has made me uncomfortable to where I just give him my number or I don't know what to say. Or I feel bad for telling him no. Also men don't take rejection well. You tell a man no and you're suddenly a bytch, fat, ugly, a ho, etc.
This is only true if you find the guy unattractive.

Let's be reality, cold approaching is for #handsomeGang only.:myman:

All the shyt you mentioned only pops in your head if the breh is ugly or extremely creepy:ld:
 

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Confidence is the biggest panty dropper(behind MONEY)

When a man exudes confidence in a woman's presence it taps into the deepest depths of female arousal like no other.

Remember this- an unattractive but confident man will be far more attractive to women, than an attractive man who shows even the slightest hint of insecurity.



The absolute truth! Confidence awakens some kind of primal attraction deep in her reptilian mind.

The formula for getting layed :Confidence x decent conversation without being creepy x making her feel desired = high likely hood of smashing
 

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Reading is fundamental. A random man coming at me that I'm not interested in makes me uncomfortable. Us ladies talk about this all the time. Believe what u want. Next time a lady gives u a fake number you will think of me from the coli. Bye.

Y'all men are know it all when it comes to women:mjlol:
I agree reading is fundamental so fukking use your own advice. Ain't shyt in the post I quoted mentioning a random man nikka. It just says a guy in general. Of course I believe what I want and next time a chick gives me a fake number would be the first time so try again family. nikka who the fukk said I know it all? I didn't you just think you do just because you a girl and talk to your chicks who could be ugly, not getting approached by dudes they like etc. Of course folks like that have different experiences from girls that are attractive and get approached by guys they want.
 

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I'll drop another gem

dimes and 9/10's ain't getting approached that often in REAL life, online yes. Real life not as much.

Dudes are afraid to approach a dime in real life, it's easier to muster the courage over a message or dm though. Average chicks are getting approached in real life more often. Most dudes just stare in awe after a 9 or a 10
That ain't no gem man unless you talking to virgins lol. shyt all you have to do is observe life and see people in everyday life period to see people really talking to each other unless its a club type environment and or its a place where you see someone over and over to build up asking them out(gym, work, etc).
 
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