Just ONE example that cold-approaching females works

[CASHAPP]

Biggest myth ever. Women care about looks very much but usually they want the overall package. If you lacking in one area but popping in all other areas, a female might give you a chance.

I dont know why dudes continue to lie to themselves with that shyt. They use the Biggie Smalls being cross eyed and ugly way too much. Yeah confidence is important but they want the overall package. You can fool yourself but the 2nd the broad gets into an argument with you...the "Your face look like it got craters on it" "with your fukked up hairline"" "nasty ass yellow teeth" lines gonna come out real quick

Fix up your physical appearance...have a nice fresh haircut, maybe stand out having a stud in your ear or something, white teeth, good skin. Clothes that fit you and not oversized clothes like its 2003. A nice car, nothing fancy and your chances increase with her being receptive.

Make sure you have your shyt in order too in terms of job/career or hobbies. Alot of guys don't know this but when you have all that shyt going for you it makes it easier to talk and you dont freeze up as much. If you havent done anything impressive whether its traveling the world, or going to the gym or taking MMA boxing, then it makes it hard to convince yourself she should get with you because you yourself dont believe she should and dont have faith in your own damn self.

 

[SheWantTheD]

Facts. If you are a single dude now or a lonely dude: OP is right.

A girl is not just going to land at your front door.

If you are willing to cold approach someone (whether it is with a girl, or in business or if you want to make friends) you will always have an advantage over people who do not - and the majority of people does not do this.

OP is absolutely right. Now some of you guys may think 'but OP is like the black hulk up in this mf'er of course he's confident enough to cold approach'.

Well you're lucky af in that women generally are not as dumb as men. If you got confidence you are ahead of the game, and if you got personality and can make her laugh that is a double plus. You don't have to be an underweat model to meet a cute girl. And you can always do effort to dress nice (clothes that fit!) and smell nice and BE nice. Of course if you're ripped, use it like OP. but if you're not be 'ripped' with your personality (not saying OP doesn't have personality but I can just hear the excuses from people on here).

If you cold approach and she is mean about it: great. You invested 20 seconds and she is not the right type - keep it moving.

Good look OP on sharing this wisdom, I totally agree.

Exactly man. On College campus I don't see dudes holla at chicks outside of a partying setting.

 

[Big Daddy]

lmao for real

"It's the cold approaching guyz...not the 2 hours i spend in the gym everday plus the 30 minutes extra rubbing baby oil on my t*ts before I take a selfie "

I am the FURTHEST thing from a 'gym rat', and The Coli KNOWS this
My diet is horrible and I absolutely abhor weight rooms(these days) ask @Originalgangsta317 he's heard me whine about weights.
All I do, is whatever is required in the boxing training I've been doing for the past 14 months, which is mostly push ups and pull ups and sit ups. Calisthenics. Very little weight training. So stop it slime

Furthermore, I wasn't in the friggin grocery store with my shirt off or something anyway dude
I was fully dressed, of course, and the way that I'm built it's not immediately obvious that I have a little definition underneath the clothes. You wouldn't look at me and immediately think hmm he works out.

So, no, "being brolic" had absolutely NOTHING to do with why I was successful with pulling her.

But thanks for being a prime example of the "Coli dudes" I was talking about originally who speak on this topic but very obviously have zero experience with it in real life..obvious, by your knee-jerk assumption that the only reason why I pulled her was because I must be a "gym rat lathered in baby oil everyday".

 

[Big Daddy]

All that baby oil

When will you be moving to Jacksonville?

 

[Big Daddy]

Met you an ECU chick....not mad at that.

Yes How could you tell?

 

[Phoenix_Knightly23]

When will you be moving to Jacksonville?

Moving to Wilmington instead

Next week

 

[SheWantTheD]

I am the FURTHEST thing from a 'gym rat', and The Coli KNOWS this
My diet is horrible and I absolutely abhor weight rooms(these days) ask @Originalgangsta317 he's heard me whine about weights.
All I do, is whatever is required in the boxing training I've been doing for the past 14 months, which is mostly push ups and pull ups and sit ups. Calisthenics. Very little weight training. So stop it slime

Furthermore, I wasn't in the friggin grocery store with my shirt off or something anyway dude
I was fully dressed, of course, and the way that I'm built it's not immediately obvious that I have a little definition underneath the clothes.

So, no, that had absolutely NOTHING to do with why I was successful with pulling her.

But thanks for being a prime example of the "Coli dudes" I was talking about originally who speak on this topic but very obviously have zero experience with it in real life..obvious, by your knee-jerk assumption that the only reason why I pulled her was because I must be a "gym rat lathered in baby oil everyday".

Since you cold approach a lot, which women are more receptive to you? Higher quality or lower quality women? Personally I believe women that are more receptive to cold approaches or meeting men off the street, in the store etc are ones that are just about smashing. I may be wrong though.

 

[Marco Zen]

Facts. If you are a single dude now or a lonely dude: OP is right.

A girl is not just going to land at your front door.

If you are willing to cold approach someone (whether it is with a girl, or in business or if you want to make friends) you will always have an advantage over people who do not - and the majority of people does not do this.

OP is absolutely right. Now some of you guys may think 'but OP is like the black hulk up in this mf'er of course he's confident enough to cold approach'.

Well you're lucky af in that women generally are not as dumb as men. If you got confidence you are ahead of the game, and if you got personality and can make her laugh that is a double plus. You don't have to be an underweat model to meet a cute girl. And you can always do effort to dress nice (clothes that fit!) and smell nice and BE nice. Of course if you're ripped, use it like OP. but if you're not be 'ripped' with your personality (not saying OP doesn't have personality but I can just hear the excuses from people on here).

If you cold approach and she is mean about it: great. You invested 20 seconds and she is not the right type - keep it moving.

Good look OP on sharing this wisdom, I totally agree.

Idk breh...

We need to be mindful of the downside of cold approaching and how it effects our ego as men...

I'm "cute" (been told) and ripped, but I know at the end of the day that's only gonna get me but so far...

Yea its only 20 seconds but rejection is powerful, even coming from someone who means nothing to you.. And if you're being rejected over and over I don't care who you are ugly cute sexy ripped whatever its gonna eventually have an effect on you psychologically and how you see yourself. ...How people feel about you shouldn't matter but how YOU FEEL ABOUT YOU MATTERS...

 

[Big Daddy]

So what did you say to her when you ran up on her, OP?

I honestly don't remember, verbatim, but I can say that it wasn't anything 'rehearsed'. No 'game' or one-liners, none of that stuff. Not trying to sh!t on those tactics, it's just that I've never been good at talking that way. All I do is, talk. I just say what I'm thinking. If what I am thinking isn't appropriate, then I still say it but in a much more watered down way than what I'm thinking it. Idk man it's hard to explain, and when trying to explain it makes it sound all scientific and deliberate and difficult, when it's none of that. I literally just talk man. All natural type of thing. Say what I want to say ask what I want to know..and in the end I either get dissed and haul ass, or I get the number.

 

[newworldafro]

Yes How could you tell?

I from Eastern North Carolina...I'm acquainted with G-Vegas

 

[Big Daddy]

And shorty said stomach pouch? She a recent mother? Single mother?

Nah not at all breh. No kids and no man. Just a cute lil college chick that got caught lackin in the dairy section of ya local supermarket.

 

[Big Daddy]

Moving to Wilmington instead

Next week

Roger that

 

[DarkHorse23]

@KinksandCoils I take what you're saying as truth. That's why I 99.9% of the time think cold approaches are a waste of time.

 

[KinksandCoils]

They are unless you're really attractive

@KinksandCoils I take what you're saying as truth. That's why I 99.9% of the time think cold approaches are a waste of time.

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

Idk breh...

We need to be mindful of the downside of cold approaching and how it effects our ego as men...

I'm "cute" (been told) and ripped, but I know at the end of the day that's only gonna get me but so far...

Yea its only 20 seconds but rejection is powerful, even coming from someone who means nothing to you.. And if you're being rejected over and over I don't care who you are ugly cute sexy ripped whatever its gonna eventually have an effect on you psychologically and how you see yourself. ...How people feel about you shouldn't matter but how YOU FEEL ABOUT YOU MATTERS...

If you cold calling you better be very attractive or have $$$