Just ONE example that cold-approaching females works

[Blackrogue]

dis how I approach women

Very slowly and from the back? triple entendre dont ask me how

 

[KinksandCoils]

breh it was just an example off the top of my head. U know what I'm getting at.

Doesn't matter how you hit on a chik at the club...

Its the club.

Everybody's there to get hit on or do the hitting on. Worrying about "how" to go about it is pointless.

A simple "Aye girl" will do in that atmosphere.



Confidence isn't everything. There's a such thing as being overly confident.

 

[Flywin Lannister]

There's been numerous threads on this site about the pros and cons to "cold approaching" women. Sadly, the threads end up mostly focusing on the supposed "cons", and get overrun by dudes with little to no experience with cold approaching in the first place.

Cold approaching is basically defined as when you holla at a female without her previously showing any signs of interest. It also includes when you holla at a chick from behind, or some other sort of scenario in which she doesn't even see you until you're right there in her face talking to her(such as the chick in the following example).

9 out of 10 females that I slay, were cold approached.

And whether it was in the club, outside of the club, or at a grocery store, I did not wait around for the prey to show signs of interest before I engaged them.

And earlier tonight as I was finalizing plans to kick it with the young lady below I couldn't help but think to myself, "damn, yet another chick that I'm probably going to smash who, if I hadn't approached her, I'd never have this opportunity.."

And I thought to myself, "well them n!ggas on the Coli are always denying that this sh!t works, so why not show em one example that it does "

Exhibit A:

Spoiler: Conversation from Day 2 of knowing her

As you can see from the conversation:

A. I clearly cold-approached her

B. She never laid eyes on me until I startled her as she was peering down at the egg cartons

C. She never gave off any signs of interest in me(see B.)

Do not pass up an opportunity to holla at a woman just because she hasn't shown signs of interest in you. This is just ONE of MANY examples I could share that would attest to the success rate of cold approaching.

Please, brehs, take heed, and do not let little trivial myths being shared on the internet by half-virgins deprive you of potentially being in some guts.

Facts. If you are a single dude now or a lonely dude: OP is right.

A girl is not just going to land at your front door.

If you are willing to cold approach someone (whether it is with a girl, or in business or if you want to make friends) you will always have an advantage over people who do not - and the majority of people does not do this.

OP is absolutely right. Now some of you guys may think 'but OP is like the black hulk up in this mf'er of course he's confident enough to cold approach'.

Well you're lucky af in that women generally are not as dumb as men. If you got confidence you are ahead of the game, and if you got personality and can make her laugh that is a double plus. You don't have to be an underweat model to meet a cute girl. And you can always do effort to dress nice (clothes that fit!) and smell nice and BE nice. Of course if you're ripped, use it like OP. but if you're not be 'ripped' with your personality (not saying OP doesn't have personality but I can just hear the excuses from people on here).

If you cold approach and she is mean about it: great. You invested 20 seconds and she is not the right type - keep it moving.

Good look OP on sharing this wisdom, I totally agree.

 

[UltimateSource]

Yep, this is how you end up in the friend zone and having to hear about the next dude getting to beat them guts. Next dude wasn't afraid to be aggressive. Keep in mind: women want dikk just like we want puzzy.

Me personally, I always make sure to give a little compliment about her looks right away so she'll know right then that I'm SEXUALLY attracted to her. Just a little "I thought you were kinda cute so I had to come over and speak to you" is fine. Nothing too over the top or thirsty. Just something to put in her head that I'm attracted to her in a sexual manner and not just in a friendly "brotherly" type way

I don't do the whole beating around the bush thing. I get straight to the point.

Exactly.

The eyes can work at times like invisible hands. Where you look she knows exactly where your looking (she can feel it honestly) and depending on her attire you should already know if she wants you to look there or not. Body language is key. Its all about inserting that initial hook of contact. Once you can secure it through conversation, then your in control. 1st impressions last a lifetime. Like I said know what you pullin up for. Know where you wanna take it from that initial conversation forward. If you aint a nikka that can think fast, you gonna have a womans complete attention and look like a fukkin a$$hole for wasting her time. That's unless you already have plans for that woman in your head, then you can pull up and unwind your web.

 

[Fatboi1]

And yea sometimes you have to "wait for the right moment" ( @Fatboi1 )... Yea you run the risk of losing out on the opportunity altogether but its worth the risk when because if you jump the gun and strike too soon or at a moment where all her guards are up like a fortress

I'd say that depending on what and how you say something, you can bring her guard down.

If you walkin down the street and you see a chick you wanna talk to, you can pretend to be lost or something like pulling out ya phone or sosmething and act like you looking around. Approach her on some "Excuse me but I'm kind of lost.." and finesse it from there.

 

[Marco Zen]

I'd say that depending on what and how you say something, you can bring her guard down.

If you walkin down the street and you see a chick you wanna talk to, you can pretend to be lost or something like pulling out ya phone or sosmething and act like you looking around. Approach her on some "Excuse me but I'm kind of lost.." and finesse it from there.

Fail.

Asking something for help or something in general then proceeding to spit G at her is risky because it'll show that you were being blatantly deceptive asking for help...

Do this only if you'll quickly follow it up with
"Ummm I was just looking for an excuse to say something to you up close, I don't really need directions"

That'll show her you know when to "keep it real".... Points for realness.

 

[Marco Zen]

I'd say that depending on what and how you say something, you can bring her guard down.

If you walkin down the street and you see a chick you wanna talk to, you can pretend to be lost or something like pulling out ya phone or sosmething and act like you looking around. Approach her on some "Excuse me but I'm kind of lost.." and finesse it from there.

Fail.

Asking something for help or something in general then proceeding to spit G at her is risky because it'll show that you were being blatantly deceptive asking for help...

Do this only if you'll quickly follow it up with
"Ummm I was just looking for an excuse to say something to you up close, I don't really need directions"

That'll show her you know when to "keep it real".... Points for realness.

 

[Roid Jones]

This thread is making me sad, now I know why Kent is so popular on here, seeing my black brothers this weak is

 

[#SOG_soldier]

The worse she can say is no



And if she does say no just punch her in her face and KIM

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

GOAT GIF!

 

[International Playa]

Appearance plays a waaaay smaller role than you think breh. It's not your appearance, that gives your cold approach its success. It's the confidence factor of it ALONG with your appearance.

Biggest myth ever. Women care about looks very much but usually they want the overall package. If you lacking in one area but popping in all other areas, a female might give you a chance.

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

Biggest myth ever. Women care about looks very much but usually they want the overall package. If you lacking in one area but popping in all other areas, a female might give you a chance.

Realized this once I saw a dime at my job
Go weak at this tall nikka at my job
He ain't even say shyt to her

It was like her ovaries crumpled inside her

 

[Fatboi1]

Appearance plays a waaaay smaller role than you think breh. It's not your appearance, that gives your cold approach its success. It's the confidence factor of it ALONG with your appearance.

dressing and being well groomed boosts your confidence. When I'm fresh as fukk I be feeling like a king. I'm walking around like " bytch do you NOT see what the fukk I got on? These timbz is fresh as fukk FACTS".

If I'm out looking scruffy with a 2 week old shape up, dusty sneakers and shyt I"m not gonna be in the zone.

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

In OKcupid with the rest of them weirdos?

Checked out OKCupid. In my case, I would get less action from OKCupid than if I just did a cold approach. OKCupid just a different type of cold approach, except you not even physically there for her to know what the deal is. shyt is

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

Pass the mustard breh
Im in Africa.. We in different fish ponds fishing. I say weird shyt too for shyts and giggles
Like when they ask what i do for a living i tell them i teach blind dogs how to have sex.. Followed by this look on their face
And then i explain if you ever see a dog with walking stick and dark glasses make its way over to a bytch snd successfully mount it..
That's a graduate

One girl didnt get it and was asking me.. Here or in the States
That's when i knew i had a winner

teaching blind dogs how to have sex?

imma steal that one