Just ONE example that cold-approaching females works

[Big Daddy]

Confidence is the biggest panty dropper(behind MONEY)

When a man exudes confidence in a woman's presence it taps into the deepest depths of female arousal like no other.

Remember this- an unattractive but confident man will be far more attractive to women, than an attractive man who shows even the slightest hint of insecurity.

 

[SheWantTheD]

what exactly were these signs?

Prolonged eye contact, glancing over at a brother several times, smiling when eye contact is made, playing with their hair, standing close to me, looking at a brother and when I turn to look at them they look away, touching me, etc. And these are signs before I even approach or say anything to them.

 

[Marco Zen]

Sounds about right. I cold approach too. I'm an average breh but I'm more aware of the situations vs say my younger brother who attacks right away with no signals.

Timing and atmosphere is important. Some rush in the moment they see someone without assessing situation and whether they should wait to approach later. Some wait too long and it becomes awkward when you do approach. Some dont prep for interest.. Eye contact etc. Or analyze what shes doing and why.

Thirst level also needs to be controlled. Your vibe and energy as well.
I honestly rely on my eyes, my mind, and touch alot when running game. The rejection can be minimized alot if you can read signals and intentions and know how to act.

Last shorty i cold approached i run into on Friday. Sexy little joint and i was like hitting all the targets i had listed I'd get to in my mind. She told me shed be in the same venue next day.
The next day im having early dinner elsewhere and she walks in with sis and some dude. I'm glancing at her and her eyes open wide the moment she sees me. I touch my finger to my lips like shhh.. (Dude turns around and sees a little of that cause her eyes gave her away)
I go thr other venue later and shes across the club and waves. I wave back. But dont go over. Later i go to the bathroom and pass her but pretend i dont know her for the homie and she does as well but as i enter the bathroom i turn a little and our eyes meet. On the way back i brush my hand against her hips and waist intrntionally but face blank and staring ahead so only we know. she crosses over to my side on some pretend mission. I get her to tell me her number and that I'll remember it. To text her today before she leaves.
We'll meet up in another city.

Long story and met 5 other women this way this weekend i had not met before so cold approaches work. Just depends what you do after

What's your line you were saying? Curious

BOOM!!


You assessed it, kept your cool, allowed her to see how cool you kept it (balanced thirst level/ confidence), and followed through with a damn near flawless execution. This is how its done.

And yea sometimes you have to "wait for the right moment" ( @Fatboi1 )... Yea you run the risk of losing out on the opportunity altogether but its worth the risk when because if you jump the gun and strike too soon or at a moment where all her guards are up like a fortress the rejection will come no matter how good you look or how smooth your game is...

@Blackrogue I'm not willing to share some of the exact lines I use because the game is to be sold not to be told. I may change my mind tho... I will tell you WHAT these lines accomplish though. Confusion, humor and of course flattery.. As I said before most fine ass babes are prepared. They're ready for the yo baby wsup!!" The guard is up. What I say to her (out of the blue/cold approach)comes from a different angle and makes her instead of ..... She will more than likely ask me to repeat it. Now I have some of her attention. I repeat it, she heard it clearly this time but she's still ... Now she wants to get a "better understanding" of what I said so she wants me to repeat it again... At this point I have her FULL attention and unbeknownst to her during this confusing process her guards are gradually coming down... When she finally realizes the silly shyt I'm asking her she's impressed by my delivery and tactic (confidence), she's forced to smile and hopefully a small laugh, laughing at my humor/ wit and sorta laughing at herself for having taken so long to figure out what I was asking her which was nothing but some confusing yet innocently funny shyt wrapped in flattery.... now she stands there completely unguarded as I prepare for the kill shot... ....
"How about I hit you up some time?




This chess it ain checkers.
It helps that I'm good looking tho, so I've been told.

Timing...

Atmosphere...

 

[UltimateSource]

GIve me the fattest, sloppiest, ugliest, dirtiest nikka in the world. As long as HE has some type of appeal he feels about himself, he can deflect that on to ANY woman. I'm not saying hes gonna get the p*ssy, but depending on how strong the deflection shes forced to respond in kind.

 

[Gonzo]

Cause I'm a woman and I know what it takes to win me over. Duh
keep listening to basement dwellers instead of going directly to the source.

You have as much of an idea on how to pick up women as a man as much as I have an idea on how to pick up men as a woman. Duh. You have no dog in this fight basically. A pronounced line between what is desired and what transpires.

 

[The Coochie Assassin]

Prolonged eye contact, glancing over at a brother several times, smiling when eye contact is made, playing with their hair, standing close to me, looking at a brother and when I turn to look at them they look away, touching me, etc. And these are signs before I even approach or say anything to them.

You just can't take it personal. Men have to remember that women are humans and who the hell knows what is going on with them in their life. You think you did something wrong or misread her when this broad just had a herpe outbreak or something and now she don't wanna talk to nobody.

 

[Sccit]

HOPE U DON GET SCARY BOUT GOIN ALL THE WAY WIT THIS 1 PLAYA

 

[KinksandCoils]

If that's how you think than so be it

You have as much of an idea on how to pick up women as a man as much as I have an idea on how to pick up men as a woman. Duh. You have no dog in this fight basically. A pronounced line between what is desired and what transpires.

 

[SheWantTheD]

You just can't take it personal. Men have to remember that women are humans and who the hell knows what is going on with them in their life. You think you did something wrong or misread her when this broad just had a herpe outbreak or something and now she don't wanna talk to nobody.

I don't take it personal at all. I don't know these chicks from paint on the wall, so them ignoring me off top is whatever. I'd rather have that then be led or strung along. I have no emotional ties to women I approach and get numbers from.

 

[SheWantTheD]

I specialize in this...

Timing and atmosphere are key factors..

Looks and confidence play out as the events unfold...

The "line" has to be on target and hit center mass as well...

I may have other so called "advantages" but what you guys refer to as a cold approach I just call giving a holla...

It is my belief the most nikkaz have very hard time with rejection so they would just rather not get their hopes up just to have them crushed... They also don't know how to balance their thirst level. bytches like it when you're aggressive, but not too aggressive or even worse desperate...



I can share one of my highly effective lines with you for a small fee. And yes it can be used "cold approaching". Its designed for that.

Timing and atmosphere my friends.

Get outta here with that sh. One of those "say these special words and get any women you want" type of nikka LOL.

And timing only matters if it's inappropriate to holla at a chick at that place and time or if she's not in a good mood.

 

[Marco Zen]

People been miss understanding what I've been saying. All I mean is don't come from out of no where tryna holla that is all.

Example. A woman coming from out of the bathroom in a club. You spot her and get all up in her face with that crap.

Doesn't matter how you hit on a chik at the club...

Its the club.

Everybody's there to get hit on or do the hitting on. Worrying about "how" to go about it is pointless.

A simple "Aye girl" will do in that atmosphere.

Appearance plays a waaaay smaller role than you think breh. It's not your appearance, that gives your cold approach its success. It's the confidence factor of it ALONG with your appearance.

Confidence isn't everything. There's a such thing as being overly confident.

 

[Blackrogue]

BOOM!!


You assessed it, kept your cool, allowed her to see how cool you kept it (balanced thirst level/ confidence), and followed through with a damn near flawless execution. This is how its done.

And yea sometimes you have to "wait for the right moment" ( @Fatboi1 )... Yea you run the risk of losing out on the opportunity altogether but its worth the risk when because if you jump the gun and strike too soon or at a moment where all her guards are up like a fortress the rejection will come no matter how good you look or how smooth your game is...

@Blackrogue I'm not willing to share some of the exact lines I use because the game is to be sold not to be told. I may change my mind tho... I will tell you WHAT these lines accomplish though. Confusion, humor and of course flattery.. As I said before most fine ass babes are prepared. They're ready for the yo baby wsup!!" The guard is up. What I say to her (out of the blue/cold approach)comes from a different angle and makes her instead of ..... She will more than likely ask me to repeat it. Now I have some of her attention. I repeat it, she heard it clearly this time but she's still ... Now she wants to get a "better understanding" of what I said so she wants me to repeat it again... At this point I have her FULL attention and unbeknownst to her during this confusing process her guards are gradually coming down... When she finally realizes the silly shyt I'm asking her she's impressed by my delivery and tactic (confidence), she's forced to smile and hopefully a small laugh, laughing at my humor/ wit and sorta laughing at herself for having taken so long to figure out what I was asking her which was nothing but some confusing yet innocently funny shyt wrapped in flattery.... now she stands there completely unguarded as I prepare for the kill shot... ....
"How about I hit you up some time?




This chess it ain checkers.
It helps that I'm good looking tho, so I've been told.

Timing...

Atmosphere...

Pass the mustard breh
Im in Africa.. We in different fish ponds fishing. I say weird shyt too for shyts and giggles
Like when they ask what i do for a living i tell them i teach blind dogs how to have sex.. Followed by this look on their face
And then i explain if you ever see a dog with walking stick and dark glasses make its way over to a bytch snd successfully mount it..
That's a graduate

One girl didnt get it and was asking me.. Here or in the States
That's when i knew i had a winner

 

[Marco Zen]

Get outta here with that sh. One of those "say these special words and get any women you want" type of nikka LOL.

Ok breh.

I never said if you "say this magical shyt" you'll get any girl you want...

I AM SAYING say this magical shyt and it'll increase your chances of getting somewhere with her... If done right..

Don't listen to me tho do your thing playa.

 

[PhonZhi]

And don't be afraid to make your intentions known. If you just tryna fukk then pull up with that energy. Don't be p*ssyfootin around with the p*ssy. Cuz women can sense that. Hesitation. Indecision. Know wtf you want from this chic because she doesn't know. Shes following your lead from jump.

Yep, this is how you end up in the friend zone and having to hear about the next dude getting to beat them guts. Next dude wasn't afraid to be aggressive. Keep in mind: women want dikk just like we want puzzy.

Me personally, I always make sure to give a little compliment about her looks right away so she'll know right then that I'm SEXUALLY attracted to her. Just a little "I thought you were kinda cute so I had to come over and speak to you" is fine. Nothing too over the top or thirsty. Just something to put in her head that I'm attracted to her in a sexual manner and not just in a friendly "brotherly" type way

I don't do the whole beating around the bush thing. I get straight to the point.

 

[Terrance Curtis Beasley]

dis how I approach women