ChiefQueen
HBIC
When we're talking about 'natural' what are we referring to exactly? Afros, perms or braids? Pics pls!
Just had a deep convo with my younger sister(is the c00nery really this bad?)
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When we're talking about 'natural' what are we referring to exactly? Afros, perms or braids? Pics pls!
philmonroe
Superstar
Some people think their experiences are some special shyt many haven't went through before for some strange reason. I guess its so they can have a janky attribute for life on some you don't understand vibe
Malt-O-Meal
Banned
@Gravity
Stop trying to sugar coat the situation or place blame on one gender. The OP's sister was harassed by black boys at her school. It's a fact, it happened. You can't try to deflect to black women because some black boys were being c00ns. If anything, along with the boys being at fault for destroying a little black girl's esteem, you can blame BOTH of their parents. It's obvious that BOTH parents dropped the ball, look at their sons.
It's annoys, disingenuous, and unproductive to constantly ignore a problem. It is fact that there's many self hating black people and some of them are male. Why deflect from the problem or try to shift blame? A problem can't be solved if you won't acknowledge it exists. No one is saying all black boys are c00ns.
And black men aren't the only one being hunted, last time I checked Sandra Bland is black and there are many other black women victims.
Stop trying to sugar coat the situation or place blame on one gender. The OP's sister was harassed by black boys at her school. It's a fact, it happened. You can't try to deflect to black women because some black boys were being c00ns. If anything, along with the boys being at fault for destroying a little black girl's esteem, you can blame BOTH of their parents. It's obvious that BOTH parents dropped the ball, look at their sons.
It's annoys, disingenuous, and unproductive to constantly ignore a problem. It is fact that there's many self hating black people and some of them are male. Why deflect from the problem or try to shift blame? A problem can't be solved if you won't acknowledge it exists. No one is saying all black boys are c00ns.
And black men aren't the only one being hunted, last time I checked Sandra Bland is black and there are many other black women victims.
Blackout
just your usual nerdy brotha
BlackFruitPunch
Banned
You don't understand we are not capable. What you're doing is throwing an ostrich in the air and telling it to fly simply because other birds fly. Just because other groups of men are capable of protecting their women doesn't mean black men are.
philmonroe
Superstar
How the fukk am I being negative by disagreeing with some? You shouldn't act like a bytch looking for sympathy cause I wasn't even talking about you unless you were in that description I listed. fukk you nikka and again bytch I wasn't talking about you or anybody else in particular so fukk are you whining about bytch?Here comes negative ass phill again, you know what fukk you breh
I dont even post in TLR why the fukk would i be doing this for internet points? and you calling us lames when we both know you just a contrarian who tries too hard
You can't be serious. Black women have the highest domestic violence rates of any race of women and the second highest rates of rape of any race of women. The rates of gunshot deaths of black women have skyrocketed in the past few years. What about that black woman who was shot and killed a few months ago by a black man she turned down? What about that black woman in D.C. that was raped by a black man on a Metro train? We absolutely face violence at obscenely high levels because we have no protection!
BlackFruitPunch
Banned
He's serious he doesn't know those things because he doesn't care to know.
You was not talking to me?
OK Phil You responded to a guy who was specifically talking about me Who the fukk else you talking about phil huh?
you cant say shyt to my face but im the bytch Now get the fukk outa the thread with ya hoe ass
Most of the responsibility would fall on the men if this was a society that fostered black patriarchy. We live in a society that sabotages black patriarchy tho. You say that black men are abandoning their families and I say that they aren't in families to abandon. A man has no real authority over a woman who becomes pregnant and gives birth to his child. She can do whatever she wants however she wants. If she wants to be a single mother then there's nothing that the man can do. If she decides that she wants to control how the relationship goes then she can do that too because she ultimately has the power. A lot of women raise their kids by themselves because they don't want to raise the kids as a family with the father. A lot of moms are raising kids by multiple men. This is 2016 not 1956. This is a liberal left gay/feminist world.
Leaders have to be groomed. You can't raise a boy irresponsibly in a society that targets him for failure then expect him to grow up to be an effective leader as an adult.
The average Black American woman (along with every other demographic) is going to outlive the average Black man by damn near a decade but Black men don't have it the hardest?
Anyways none of this can be solved at the individual or community level. Yall are fixated on the symptoms and not the causes.
Anyways none of this can be solved at the individual or community level. Yall are fixated on the symptoms and not the causes.
It's not that you can't, it's that you don't want to because you're afraid of the consequences of doing so. You're afraid of the blow back from other black men and so you choose to say and do nothing so as to keep yourself safe. Honestly, most aren't afraid of physical assault or death you just don't want to risk being ostracized from your peers.