Black women are resilient and face racism and sexism but it is not equal to the constant threat of violence that a Black man faces when he walks outside his front door. To say otherwise is dishonest and borderline white supremacist whether you want to measure that in terms of life expectancy, incarceration or any economic metrics.
Just had a deep convo with my younger sister(is the c00nery really this bad?)
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Black women are resilient and face racism and sexism but it is not equal to the constant threat of violence that a Black man faces when he walks outside his front door. To say otherwise is dishonest and borderline white supremacist whether you want to measure that in terms of life expectancy, incarceration or any economic metrics.
BlackFruitPunch
Banned
The women can read your posts and make up their own mind. Black men should learn these child custody laws like the back of their hands like they learn rap lyrics.
BlackFruitPunch
Banned
You get an extra 20 years of emotional physical and psychological abuse. Enjoy.
philmonroe
Superstar
nikka for the last fukking time I'm not talking about you. I just replied to the got damn quote. I don't have to deflect shyt nikka. Name me one fukking time I've ever not got at you personally? Now today I'm not? Come on dude please think logically and not on some emo shyt. @Blackout stop sucking dikk you loose booty fakkit.nikka you deflecting hard AF right now
fukk you think im gonna be happy about people coming in and being disrespectful in my thread?you post in TLR more than i ever have and you co signing nikkas saying im making this shyt up for daps,
Yea im kinda mad about it, especially since its someone i talk cowboys football with
Also why would I say you making the story up? I didn't even mention the story in the first fukking quote nikka. I was speaking on cats saying black dudes are c00ns and how in these threads folks be low key shytting on dudes and nobody says shyt but that kodak thread nikkas saying disrespect shouldn't be tolerated at all. I was agreeing with that and how folks do it on some weak trying to out black other blacks. Don't have shut to do with your sister dude. I'm not talking about you if I don't quote you, @ you, or mention your name period.
Malt-O-Meal
Banned
@Gravity
So it's not black men's responsibility to raise their sons? If the mom is teaching her son's to be c00ns, where is daddy? And I've been reading through the thread, no one is blaming all black men. Most people are responding to the OP. It's like any criticism of any black man throws you into hypersensitive mode. You just read about how little black boys were tearing down the self-esteem of a little black girl based on her black features and you feel the need to save black men? Myself and others have stated that not all black boys/men are like this and we've even placed the blame on multiple sources including black women and white people. Smh
We've even stated that this is seeming to be a problem with many black youth including young girls. Why the need to make black women more to blame? If both parents and society are to blame, as well as the perpetrators, why do you need to to heap the majority of the blame on black women?
So it's not black men's responsibility to raise their sons? If the mom is teaching her son's to be c00ns, where is daddy? And I've been reading through the thread, no one is blaming all black men. Most people are responding to the OP. It's like any criticism of any black man throws you into hypersensitive mode. You just read about how little black boys were tearing down the self-esteem of a little black girl based on her black features and you feel the need to save black men? Myself and others have stated that not all black boys/men are like this and we've even placed the blame on multiple sources including black women and white people. Smh
We've even stated that this is seeming to be a problem with many black youth including young girls. Why the need to make black women more to blame? If both parents and society are to blame, as well as the perpetrators, why do you need to to heap the majority of the blame on black women?
Real N Quotes
East Is In The House OMG
She had been depressed all last year and nobody in the family really knew why but on the car ride back home today she finally opening up and we talked about it.
She talked about how when she decided to go natural with her hair all her friends literally stopped talking to herShe was in private school and was literally the only black girl and she said all the black boys was on some other level of c00nery, calling black/darkskin women ugly and calling her ugly for having nappy hair
Thankfully for high school we are moving her to a nice high school with a good mix of people and a larger black population but im really worried if the younger generation is dealing with this level of c00nery
14 years old and getting hate for natural hair
Coli women please gimme some advice on what to say to her to honestly just cheer her up.. shes depressed about being black and says why would anyone want to be the most hated race.. even black men hate their raceIve been trying to tell her that theres a lot of people who hate their own skin and that she will meet a lot of immature guys in high school and dont take it to heart but this is just sad man.
Self hate is the saddest thing ive ever seen brehs..
Serious responses only if you troll about my sister i will literally kill you(with negs)
Does you sister your Sister have knowledge of self?
Malt-O-Meal
Banned
@Guile
Yeah I don't know any stats on school either. The marriage stat would be good for OP to bring up to his sister. But you also have to take into account these experiences. I'm sure going to a predominantly white school affects dating but I've seen and heard it before. If little white boys are mainly dating little white girls then the black kid is going to feel some way when their counterpart seems to prefer someone other than them. Couple that with the white kids being put on a pedestal, it doesn't bode well. That's why I'm against sending black kids to predominantly white schools or where they are minority in numbers. It's going to mess with their self esteem, especially when they are young.
Yeah I don't know any stats on school either. The marriage stat would be good for OP to bring up to his sister. But you also have to take into account these experiences. I'm sure going to a predominantly white school affects dating but I've seen and heard it before. If little white boys are mainly dating little white girls then the black kid is going to feel some way when their counterpart seems to prefer someone other than them. Couple that with the white kids being put on a pedestal, it doesn't bode well. That's why I'm against sending black kids to predominantly white schools or where they are minority in numbers. It's going to mess with their self esteem, especially when they are young.
I am very familiar with black history. I know that in 1940s-1950s south, the NAACP had an entire division dedicated to delivering justice to black women raped by white men. I know that when the Deacons For Defense was battling the KKK they moved the black women and children out of the neighborhood so that they wouldn't be hurt. I know that Malcolm X got on a pulpit in a black church at the height of civil unrest and proclaimed that he was willing to die for black women. To move it along, I know that as a child in early '90s-era black pride D.C. all a white boy had to do was look at a black woman funny and brothas would be on his ass. As someone old enough to remember, this current mess in inexcusable and I will not condone it.
Seeing as how domestic violence is one of the leading causes of death for black women, it shouldn't be brushed aside so easily. Black women absolutely face danger on the street, especially when it comes to turning down black men. My sister had to leave her home and move abruptly after a boy who was trying to holler at her for weeks snapped one night and swung on her with a bat.
Reflected
Living in fear in the year of the tiger.
Every week. lolGreat. Another thread full of people calling black men c00ns
philmonroe
Superstar
Its cool but my style never changes. I disagree with something you said I'm going to get at you personally if not I'm just responding in general to whoever I quoted. Let me also give you a bit of advice when people like @Blackout and @BlackFruitPunch dapping your post its got more to do with me than what your saying. Them two clowns will dap any post against me cause they insecure as ever looking for online allies like bytches as if we going to war or something.
I don't always agree with you but I will always come to you if I do remember that and the other stuff you said about me is whatever. Peace
Mountain
All Star
BlackFruitPunch
Banned
I suppose. I think that if black men had the capability to help anyone black men wouldn't be dying from violence so frequently. We can't even protect ourselves from violence. @Poitier and @Gravity pointed out the murders in the black community when they said that black men face more violence than black women. Like I said we can't even protect ourselves. Sad.