It's not new. Black men like to tell women to "comb their hair" or "get their hair done". Black people do not like natural hair unless it's an acceptable length and texture/style
Black males, in my experience, are colors struck to insane levels, but a lightskin girl is a prize enough for most, but lthe black men that grow up in these nonblack neighborhoods or attend nonblack schools DO NOT deal with black girls at all. If she's actually liteskin and going to an all black school her confidence in her appearance will be restored soon enough. It will just be the girls that are jealous and mean this time
does she not have a female cousin around her age that she can be friends with or hang out with?
Unfortunately that school situation is going to mess her up mentally for a few years. Just hope she doesn't go on a "having a white boy will prove I'm
really attractive " phase
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